Tell my husband I want to be spanked?

[laurenann]

If it were me I wouldnt want him to know where I got the idea, may be you could start the conversation with something like

(insert your best friends name here) was telling me her lover put her over his knee and spanked her bottom (or how ever you want it) and she said it made her really hot. Can we try it?

It worked for me

 

[Fuckette]

Ok I have been interested in erotic spanking for a few years now but I am scared to tell my husband!! I'm afraid he will think I'm weird or something. I want to try it so bad but I don't want him to judge me. I don't know what to do. I want it to be the real thing, not a half ass attempt. Help me please!!! Thank you!

send him a mean text message
when he replies
2nd text message should be aggressive but sexual
3rd text message

spank me, motherfucker

 

[vibes]

send him a mean text message
when he replies
2nd text message should be aggressive but sexual
3rd text message

spank me, motherfucker

Someone with a such a sexy handle sure knows shit

 

[Chicago Ken]

As hard or awkward as it might sound, I would just sit down and tell him what you want. You can say it's something you've always wanted to try or that a friend gave you the idea or whatever. It's not illegal or immoral and he's not going to divorce you over your request. At best, he'll love it as much as you think you will. At worst, he won't like it and you can hang that fantasy up.

The problem with dropping hints and beating around the bush is that you may not find out if he got the hint but hated the idea, or just didn't get the hint at all.

If you want to do so, you can offer to fulfill one of his fantasies in exchange. The two of you might not leave the house for a week.