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Heated Scarf
There's loads on sale online. Just do a shopping search for "USB Heated Scarf". Link to the one I have and love. I doubt very much this one would do well with water or anything moist.

Guessing there may be a different style available that would, though. I know there are heating pads designed for moist heat.

I found years ago that when my body doesn't regulate my temp well, I need to wear cover my neck, wrists, and ankles (body's thermostat). And if my toes aren't warm? I'm not warm.

Thanks, some winters I’m fine, other ones esp when I’m flaring like now, but do good.
Feet are toasty, wearing some ugh like boots as slippers, also a sweater.
I realized from the Christmas food post, that I forgot to eat, so defrosting send. I didn’t have Xmas dinner this year. Where I usually go for the past almost 30yrs, is in hospice and I can’t go over there at present. I hope to at least visit soon.
For food I’m having left over chili, a bit of Christmas sausage, cooked zuchini, cucumber salad with goat cheese.
 
Thanks, some winters I’m fine, other ones esp when I’m flaring like now, but do good.
Feet are toasty, wearing some ugh like boots as slippers, also a sweater.
I realized from the Christmas food post, that I forgot to eat, so defrosting send. I didn’t have Xmas dinner this year. Where I usually go for the past almost 30yrs, is in hospice and I can’t go over there at present. I hope to at least visit soon.
For food I’m having left over chili, a bit of Christmas sausage, cooked zuchini, cucumber salad with goat cheese.
🫂 so sorry your Christmas person is in hospice. Hope you can visit soon!
Flares suck (like you need me to tell you that :rolleyes: ). Hope it breaks soon.
enjoy your dinner... hopefully a full belly helps warm you up some?
 
I just informed my dad that no elephants are moving in to their house this year. He said “ oh,okay …”
I don’t even want to know if that was a serious discussion. This was after a request for a bed replacement, fixing a few showers, stairway chair and other legit things.
 
Of all the US mini cars I liked the Gremlin the best. It was factory built with mounting brackets for small block V8s to expedite swapping
It didn't just come with brackets for it, it was offered with a factory V8. I know someone who was given one as a work car in the 70's! I'd love to have one now!
 
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Wondering if relationships ever truly recover if one person is cheating?
Forgiving I can see, but forgetting not so much. Would a person ever totally trust the cheater again?
I think it depends on the person who did the cheating, and why they did it. Some cheat because they're assholes, and some get caught up in emotional or other things that sneak up on them.

I used to think that it wasn't possible, but the more time I spend here and the more people I talk to, the more I believe that nothing is absolute. I've talked to people on both sides of the cheating thing, and there are so many nuisances that it really depends on the person and the situation.

I've come to believe in some situations it can destroy a relationship, and in others albeit rare, it can strengthen it. But, again it really depends on the people involved.
 
I think it depends on the person who did the cheating, and why they did it. Some cheat because they're assholes, and some get caught up in emotional or other things that sneak up on them.

I used to think that it wasn't possible, but the more time I spend here and the more people I talk to, the more I believe that nothing is absolute. I've talked to people on both sides of the cheating thing, and there are so many nuisances that it really depends on the person and the situation.

I've come to believe in some situations it can destroy a relationship, and in others albeit rare, it can strengthen it. But, again it really depends on the people involved.

Sometimes recognizing the good in a relationship or in another person can be hard when trust is broken, especially when self protection instinct is to shut down and run away.
 
Sometimes recognizing the good in a relationship or in another person can be hard when trust is broken, especially when self protection instinct is to shut down and run away.
If that's the way the person feels, it is a perfectly valid way to feel.

There isn't a set script on how something like that needs to or should progress. It's about processing those feelings and emotions, and deciding what the best path foreword is. For everyone going through that, the path and results will be different. All of those possibilities (ok, assuming not murder!) are valid and acceptable.

I think it's possible to forgive and trust again, but certainly not everyone can, will, or should do so.
 
Underwear bandit caught. Admits brief crime spree.

Boycott Shampoo. Demand Real Poo!

Dr. Pepper is a fizzicist.

Alaskan eye doctors are optical Aleutians

Did you hear about the guy whose nine-headed pet was stolen? He was really dehydrated.

Did you hear about the claustrophobic astronaut? He needed some space.

What kind of grades do pirates get in school? High C’s

Did you hear about the chemist who gave away every dollar he made? He was Sb.

What’s made of leather and sounds like a sneeze? A shoe!!
 
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