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Confession-

I joke & flirt & say inappropriate sexual things online & in real life because I am alone a lot & lonely & want to share an interest of mine with like minded & accepting people.

Even here, a forum on an adult erotica site, I feel like an outsider & like someone who is not accepted for his interests.

I feel alone & like I made yet another mistake coming to this site.

This will likely be my last post, as I am clearly not welcome anyone.

I will simply live my private life (my choice) & no longer reach out to people.

Thank you all in way of showing me that some people truly don’t fit anywhere & should be totally alone.

At least now I know.
Now look.... we tell everyone the same spiel when new to the thread. Everyone is willing to come, and contribute. We all hold eachother accountable. If that makes you uncomfortable that is on you. If you were told to "stop it" the correct response is my bad and we keep it moving. This gaslighting crap isnt gonna fly. If u decide to leave and want to try to guilt trip the rest of us to say....no please stay... you will be sorely disappointed.
Now. Again. Read the first post of the entire damn thread and comply or do what u have to do and you are wished well
 
Now look.... we tell everyone the same spiel when new to the thread. Everyone is willing to come, and contribute. We all hold eachother accountable. If that makes you uncomfortable that is on you. If you were told to "stop it" the correct response is my bad and we keep it moving. This gaslighting crap isnt gonna fly. If u decide to leave and want to try to guilt trip the rest of us to say....no please stay... you will be sorely disappointed.
Now. Again. Read the first post of the entire damn thread and comply or do what u have to do and you are wished well
I haveta agree. I don’t recall the actual incident, but it’s not what you (not you, K, but the original author) thinks is funny or appropriate. It’s how the receiver of the message takes it.

I know a thing or two about loneliness so I feel bad in a way, but when it’s brought about by one’s own actions… well… live and learn and be a man. And the gaslighting? I can’t feel bad at all.

But I wish that person luck. Maybe they’ll find what they are looking for someone else.
 
I haveta agree. I don’t recall the actual incident, but it’s not what you (not you, K, but the original author) thinks is funny or appropriate. It’s how the receiver of the message takes it.

I know a thing or two about loneliness so I feel bad in a way, but when it’s brought about by one’s own actions… well… live and learn and be a man. And the gaslighting? I can’t feel bad at all.

But I wish that person luck. Maybe they’ll find what they are looking for someone else.
I mean, I feel like I have made a whooole bunch of innuendo jokes, a few of which I felt might have been a toe over the line if not right up to it... but also if someone said "hey, thats out of line," my response would be to apologize, course correct, and move on.

Anyway... my two cents no one asked for.
 
I haveta agree. I don’t recall the actual incident, but it’s not what you (not you, K, but the original author) thinks is funny or appropriate. It’s how the receiver of the message takes it.

I know a thing or two about loneliness so I feel bad in a way, but when it’s brought about by one’s own actions… well… live and learn and be a man. And the gaslighting? I can’t feel bad at all.

But I wish that person luck. Maybe they’ll find what they are looking for someone else.
Yeah.... i slightly remember and it wasnt that bad.... imho.... i was just an observer.... we have ALL had our hands slapped.... we come back with an ok or sorry and all is forgiven
 
I mean, I feel like I have made a whooole bunch of innuendo jokes, a few of which I felt might have been a toe over the line if not right up to it... but also if someone said "hey, thats out of line," my response would be to apologize, course correct, and move on.

Anyway... my two cents no one asked for.
I feel like we had the innuendo talk when u first started.... i dont want to go back and look....hahaha
 
I mean, I feel like I have made a whooole bunch of innuendo jokes, a few of which I felt might have been a toe over the line if not right up to it... but also if someone said "hey, thats out of line," my response would be to apologize, course correct, and move on.

Anyway... my two cents no one asked for.
Your ability to read the room helped a lot. Funny without crossing the line.

Some people do not know when they are being inappropriate.

Anyway, onward and upward.
 
It helps in my improv comedy troupe, too
That sounds like fun!

I’ve had a few ideas for sketches and I even submitted a tv idea to NBC several years ago. They had an online notes submission where they were looking for show ideas.

My show was gonna be called AL. And it was semi autobiographical. A comedy about a veteran coming home to a divorce and navigating the world of corporate America (or working class America) and misadventures of reintegrating into dating.
 
That sounds like fun!

I’ve had a few ideas for sketches and I even submitted a tv idea to NBC several years ago. They had an online notes submission where they were looking for show ideas.

My show was gonna be called AL. And it was semi autobiographical. A comedy about a veteran coming home to a divorce and navigating the world of corporate America (or working class America) and misadventures of reintegrating into dating.
Comedy gold. God... I was 20 years out of the dating pool, and like... wow... I was so out of touch with how dating happened
 
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