The Brutal Truth About Female Attraction

[bobb64]

I just find it funny that your wife, who is 5'0" (4 inches shorter than the female average) got with you who is 6'2" (4 inches taller than the male average).

You may feel like those are the only advantages you've had but trust me, your height has helped you more than you can ever imagine. Statistically speaking, taller men earn more money than their shorter counterparts. They're more likely to be promoted at work. Your wife is much less likely to shit test you because she respects you (or more like she respects your height). There's much more but you get the gist of it.


No I think YOU are trolling here. 85% of women don't remain single, they share the same tall men. That's the reason why "Are we dating the same men?" groups exist. Not to mention so many women are single these days. They'd rather stay single than date a short man. Even if they're dating a short man, it's always out of pity like Eva said. They're going in with the mentality of "giving" him a chance so the relationship is always on edge.

Yes, women absolutely expect you to overlook their physical imperfections. Why do you think they've hijacked the body positivity movement? It was never meant for fat women who can't control their urges. It was for acid attack victims, workplace accident victims etc. People who CAN'T control certain aspects of their body, not people who WON'T control. And no, they won't overlook your flaws. They want a tall man. It's like a trophy for them to show off to their friends. Not having one fills them with unhappiness.

Stop taking this so personally and stop insulting me. If you can't have a civilized conversation without resorting to personal insults GTFOH.

yep the mans a troll no doubt.

 

[ILoveMilfs69]

yep the mans a troll no doubt.

Feel free to provide research that proves me wrong.

But I know you can't, so that's all you can do - call me names.

 

[ILoveMilfs69]

Well, she is my ex wife but we remain friends on good terms with each other. I always found petite women very attractive. Are men attracted to shorter women?

Shorter women are certainly more attractive but for most men, height is not a strong preference like it is for women. Tall women can be attractive too, that's why all models are tall.

In fact, there doesn't exist a single disqualifier for women that's as strong as height is for men.

 

[LMWM321]

85% of women don't remain single, they share the same tall men. That's the reason why "Are we dating the same men?" groups exist. Not to mention so many women are single these days. They'd rather stay single than date a short man. Even if they're dating a short man, it's always out of pity like Eva said. They're going in with the mentality of "giving" him a chance so the relationship is always on edge.

Huh? So, many women are sharing the same "tall" man? ...This is just nonsense. And you know this is true b/c of web forums where this is discussed? You realize there are also probably web forums where people discuss their desire to marry their parrot, right?

I'm very sorry you feel your height is keeping you from having a relationship. I truly do. You obviously have quite a chip on your shoulder about it.

I do have a question for you:

Do you define female attractiveness as narrowly as you do male and, if so, do you pursue only women who fit that narrow definition? If so, that's part of your problem.

You would then remind me of my college friend I mentioned earlier in the thread. He was an average looking dude who didn't get laid once in 4 years. And it was because he pursued ONLY the best looking girls on campus. And he groused endless about how shallow they were while never acknowledging his OWN shallowness

Are you making the same mistake?

 

[bobb64]

Feel free to provide research that proves me wrong.

But I know you can't, so that's all you can do - call me names.

your post proves it all we have to do is read them to know you are a troll.

 

[Wonderer67]

Who gives a fuck with all these pseudo intellectual podcasters think?

Why does anyone care?

There might be something to it. Maybe not. Mostly fuckin generalizations.

This podcast is a buncha hot air. The back and forth is even dumber.

I literally got through one or two minutes of this horseshit, fast forwarded to some other topics and spent another few minutes before checking out.

I feel rather lucky than I only wasted about five or six minutes in total.

I can’t imagine giving much of a motherfucking goddam abt this.

Bring your real self to the table. Hopefully a good person will find you.

 

[ILoveMilfs69]

Huh? So, many women are sharing the same "tall" man? ...This is just nonsense. And you know this is true b/c of web forums where this is discussed? You realize there are also probably web forums where people discuss their desire to marry their parrot, right?

I'm very sorry you feel your height is keeping you from having a relationship. I truly do. You obviously have quite a chip on your shoulder about it.

I do have a question for you:

Do you define female attractiveness as narrowly as you do male and, if so, do you pursue only women who fit that narrow definition? If so, that's part of your problem.

You would then remind me of my college friend I mentioned earlier in the thread. He was an average looking dude who didn't get laid once in 4 years. And it was because he pursued ONLY the best looking girls on campus. And he groused endless about how shallow they were while never acknowledging his OWN shallowness

Are you making the same mistake?

Man shut the fuck up. "I feel sorry for you" I hate this passive aggressiveness. Clearly you're unable to discuss broad social trends without making it personal - a sign of low intelligence. I'm not going to waste any more time on you.

your post proves it all we have to do is read them to know you are a troll.

So no proof. I accept your concession.

 

[bobb64]

Man shut the fuck up. "I feel sorry for you" I hate this passive aggressiveness. Clearly you're unable to discuss broad social trends without making it personal - a sign of low intelligence. I'm not going to waste any more time on you.

So no proof. I accept your concession.

DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR ME TROLL YOUR THE ONE THAT THINKS WOMEN DON'T DATE SHORT MEN.

 

[LMWM321]

So no proof. I accept your concession.

Umm... Sorry, but the onus of proof is on you as you're the one making the outlandish claim.

You (rather hilariously) say you have peer-reviewed evidence that woman don't date short men. Please share this incontrovertible evidence with us. You also claim they would sooner "share" a tall man or go without a romantic partner than date someone < 5'10". Again, please provide proof OTHER THAN the existence of web-forums where women discuss this.

And my empathy for your struggle is heart-felt. ..Not passive aggressive. I sincerely mean it.

 

[RoanMtn]

Brutal but interesting. Of course on Lit all the guys are 6'4" with 8 inch dicks!

I'm 6'5" and have a micro-penis, lol.

 

[EvaLane]

I'm 6'5" and have a micro-penis, lol.

Still waiting on that evidence

 

[lil_jenni]

Shorter women are certainly more attractive

What do you mean by shorter. Shorter than average? Shorter than the man who is finding the woman attractive?

I'm 5' tall, and my experiences when I was younger did not suggest that men considered me more attractive because I am short. I am also rather petite and small breasted (well, not so much now, but it will go back to that when I'm done nursing). Plus, I'm cute, if I do say so myself.

When I was in college and wanting to find a hookup, I had to be much more forward, both in dress and attitude, if I wanted to get the attention away from the taller girls with bigger boobs. You see, cute and short don't do the trick nearly as nicely as taller with average sized or bigger boobs, so I had to put in the effort.

On the other hand, I worked at a legal brothel in Nevada several weeks in my mid-20s, and I found there was a certain element of the clientele who were definitely into short, petite women who looked younger than they really were.

By the way, you keeping talking about tall men having an advantage. I am curious. How tall are you?

 

[BillyWalrus]

I'm 5' tall, and my experiences when I was younger did not suggest that men considered me more attractive because I am short. I am also rather petite and small breasted (well, not so much now, but it will go back to that when I'm done nursing). Plus, I'm cute, if I do say so myself.

Your description of yourself is quite similar to my ex (mother of four of my children). Just as I did her, I would have found you extremely attractive! Short, petite, small breasted - you're killing me!

 

[ILoveMilfs69]

Umm... Sorry, but the onus of proof is on you as you're the one making the outlandish claim.

You (rather hilariously) say you have peer-reviewed evidence that woman don't date short men. Please share this incontrovertible evidence with us. You also claim they would sooner "share" a tall man or go without a romantic partner than date someone < 5'10". Again, please provide proof OTHER THAN the existence of web-forums where women discuss this.

And my empathy for your struggle is heart-felt. ..Not passive aggressive. I sincerely mean it.

Just the tip of the iceberg:

Does natural selection favour taller stature among the tallest people on earth? | Proceedings B | The Royal Society
https://royalsocietypublishing.org/...natural-selection-favour-taller-stature-among

Secrets of the sperm bank - Salon.com
https://www.salon.com/2011/09/25/sex_cells_interview/

Women want taller men more than men want shorter women - Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
https://research.vu.nl/en/publications/women-want-taller-men-more-than-men-want-shorter-women/

What Makes You Click? Mate Preferences and Matching Outcomes in Online Dating by Günter J. Hitsch, Ali Hortacsu, Dan Ariely :: SSRN
https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=895442

Tall men have more reproductive success | Nature
https://www.nature.com/articles/35003107

Short Men Do More Housework, Earn More, Divorce Less | The New Republic
https://newrepublic.com/article/119233/short-men-do-more-housework-earn-more-divorce-less

Does a taller husband make his wife happier? - ScienceDirect
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691530060X?via=ihub

The Male-Taller Norm in Mate Selection - John Stuart Gillis, Walter E. Avis, 1980
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/014616728063010?journalCode=pspc

Imgur: The magic of the Internet

https://imgur.com/mIISuVy

I never said I struggled. You assumed that about me.

What do you mean by shorter. Shorter than average? Shorter than the man who is finding the woman attractive?

I'm 5' tall, and my experiences when I was younger did not suggest that men considered me more attractive because I am short. I am also rather petite and small breasted (well, not so much now, but it will go back to that when I'm done nursing). Plus, I'm cute, if I do say so myself.

When I was in college and wanting to find a hookup, I had to be much more forward, both in dress and attitude, if I wanted to get the attention away from the taller girls with bigger boobs. You see, cute and short don't do the trick nearly as nicely as taller with average sized or bigger boobs, so I had to put in the effort.

On the other hand, I worked at a legal brothel in Nevada several weeks in my mid-20s, and I found there was a certain element of the clientele who were definitely into short, petite women who looked younger than they really were.

By the way, you keeping talking about tall men having an advantage. I am curious. How tall are you?

My height is irrelevant to the conversation at hand. I don't know why no one on this forum can discuss something without making it personal.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Just the tip of the iceberg:

Does natural selection favour taller stature among the tallest people on earth? | Proceedings B | The Royal Society
https://royalsocietypublishing.org/...natural-selection-favour-taller-stature-among

Secrets of the sperm bank - Salon.com
https://www.salon.com/2011/09/25/sex_cells_interview/

Women want taller men more than men want shorter women - Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
https://research.vu.nl/en/publications/women-want-taller-men-more-than-men-want-shorter-women/

What Makes You Click? Mate Preferences and Matching Outcomes in Online Dating by Günter J. Hitsch, Ali Hortacsu, Dan Ariely :: SSRN
https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=895442

Tall men have more reproductive success | Nature
https://www.nature.com/articles/35003107

Short Men Do More Housework, Earn More, Divorce Less | The New Republic
https://newrepublic.com/article/119233/short-men-do-more-housework-earn-more-divorce-less

Does a taller husband make his wife happier? - ScienceDirect
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691530060X?via=ihub

The Male-Taller Norm in Mate Selection - John Stuart Gillis, Walter E. Avis, 1980
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/014616728063010?journalCode=pspc

Imgur: The magic of the Internet

https://imgur.com/mIISuVy

I never said I struggled. You assumed that about me.

My height is irrelevant to the conversation at hand. I don't know why no one on this forum can discuss something without making it personal.

The Bumble image is confusing to me. They want guys 6'10", 6'11" etc?

 

[ILoveMilfs69]

The Bumble image is confusing to me. They want guys 6'10", 6'11" etc?

Yes. Obviously online dating is an extreme/absurd version of selection but it highlights the general trend.

 

[RoanMtn]

Still waiting on that evidence

You'd need a magnifying glass.

 

[LMWM321]

Just the tip of the iceberg:

Sorry, dude... but that's a rabbit hole I won't be following you down. Honestly, you need another hobby.

All these studies prove is that women have a natural preference. So fucking what! As I said (which you dismissed) men seem to have a preference for women with bigger than average breasts yet MANY men are happily partnered with women who don't.

Instead of digging up studies on the internet that confirm your belief that your height dooms you to never finding a partner, why don't you go to a shopping mall and note just how many men < 5'9" are paired-up with a woman? Over the past few days I've been paying attention to this and have seen TONS of not-tall men who are in relationships. And as I've mentioned, nearly ALL of my nieces are in relationships with shorter guys. If these guys met girls who weren't hung up on size, so can you.

And you didn't answer MY question, which I'll ask again:

Do you define female attractiveness as narrowly as you define male? And, if so, do you pursue only women who fit that narrow definition?

To put it another way: If viewing Porn leads you to pursue only women who look like Porn actresses.... Well, that is your problem, not your height.

 

[lil_jenni]

My height is irrelevant to the conversation at hand. I don't know why no one on this forum can discuss something without making it personal.