The Cozy Corner

[wwot40]

Eat a crazy ex-girlfriend for me!View attachment 2615908

I've had a few them myself!

 

[rick_j21]

In my experience they turn crazy once they acquire the ex in their title

 

[Nylonian]

Running is a half-marathon, rucksack march is 30 miles with 35 lbs rucksack and weapon. He will far surpass me!

Damn. How long was that march? It's gotta be a full day?

 

[Nylonian]

Eat a crazy ex-girlfriend for me!View attachment 2615908

These names are wild...

 

[wwot40]

Damn. How long was that march? It's gotta be a full day?

If I remember correctly it was about 13 hours.

 

[Nylonian]

If I remember correctly it was about 13 hours.

You legend.

 

[wwot40]

If I remember correctly it was about 13 hours.

My standard was 12 miles in 3.5 hours but I was in great shape in those days.

 

[wwot40]

You legend.

Nah! See above.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

In my experience they turn crazy once they acquire the ex in their title

Mine starts during the relationship when they do the things that turn them into an ex.

 

[Nylonian]

Mine starts during the relationship when they do the things that turn them into an ex.

Fortunately all mine have been very sweet and amicable...

"I wish U well forever. I wish U well."

 

[wwot40]

In my experience they turn crazy once they acquire the ex in their title

Until then their just.......uh..........quirky!

 

[MissSNG]

In my experience they turn crazy once they acquire the ex in their title

Fortunately all mine have been very sweet and amicable...

"I wish U well forever. I wish U well."

Man, I have a friend who was a totally normal, level headed guy, attractive qualities, and his gf ended things in Jan after a year and he’s just freaking lost it. She 1000% broke him… ghosting him hasn’t helped, the guy flew out here from Cali, unannounced, and showed up on her doorstep to try and talk.
I told him that was psycho behavior but

So some breakups can 100% turn the person crazy after!!

 

[wwot40]

Man, I have a friend who was a totally normal, level headed guy, attractive qualities, and his gf ended things in Jan after a year and he’s just freaking lost it. She 1000% broke him… ghosting him hasn’t helped, the guy flew out here from Cali, unannounced, and showed up on her doorstep to try and talk.
I told him that was psycho behavior but

So some breakups can 100% turn the person crazy after!!

There is a lot of truth in that.

 

[Nylonian]

Man, I have a friend who was a totally normal, level headed guy, attractive qualities, and his gf ended things in Jan after a year and he’s just freaking lost it. She 1000% broke him… ghosting him hasn’t helped, the guy flew out here from Cali, unannounced, and showed up on her doorstep to try and talk.
I told him that was psycho behavior but

So some breakups can 100% turn the person crazy after!!

Yeah heartbreak and the guy being without closure can totally turn him loose. It's absolutely inexcusable in any circumstance and he really needed a support network/rethink his life/seek therapy. These are absolutely tragic circumstances and there are no winners; I strive to be an adult since ending a relationship is painful and potentially final and severe as it is.

In any case I'd rather do without the closure than do that to someone, at least then I'd feel the gravity of losing them.

 

[MissSNG]

Yeah heartbreak and the guy being without closure can totally turn him loose. It's absolutely inexcusable in any circumstance and he really needed a support network/rethink his life/seek therapy. These are absolutely tragic circumstances, I strive to be an adult since ending a relationship is painful and potentially final and severe as it is.

In any case I'd rather do without the closure than do that to someone, at least then I'd feel the gravity of losing them.

Poor guy has no support network or close friends where he is either.. I’m all he’s got and I’m 1500 miles away
And yes, the lack of closure is what’s driving him crazy. He knows it, he sees it, he just can’t rein it in.
The way she handled the whole thing was absolute BS too :/ (I say this as someone who was close with both of them and I’m the one who set them up) she had a complete change of personality that I haven’t seen in the years I’ve known her.

Just wild

 

[Xerxes82]

Man, I have a friend who was a totally normal, level headed guy, attractive qualities, and his gf ended things in Jan after a year and he’s just freaking lost it. She 1000% broke him… ghosting him hasn’t helped, the guy flew out here from Cali, unannounced, and showed up on her doorstep to try and talk.
I told him that was psycho behavior but

So some breakups can 100% turn the person crazy after!!

Damn. That sounds crazy.

Makes me glad that the couple of bad breakups I've had in my time didn't warp my brain that badly.

One gave me a kind of ptsd for a while, sure. But I understood that and knew I had to be careful with myself around women for a bit.

 

[Nylonian]

Poor guy has no support network or close friends where he is either.. I’m all he’s got and I’m 1500 miles away
And yes, the lack of closure is what’s driving him crazy. He knows it, he sees it, he just can’t rein it in.
The way she handled the whole thing was absolute BS too :/ (I say this as someone who was close with both of them and I’m the one who set them up) she had a complete change of personality that I haven’t seen in the years I’ve known her.

Just wild

Mmmm. Relationships take a lot of maturity and delicate handling. Otherwise it's gonna manifest into a powderkeg like the situation you've described. Also, damn people are so isolated and lonely these days. We've never been more connected and more lonely at the same time.

 

[MissSNG]

Mmmm. Relationships take a lot of maturity and delicate handling. Otherwise it's gonna manifest into a powderkeg like the situation you've described. Also, damn people are so isolated and lonely these days. We've never been more connected and more lonely at the same time.

Absolutely, sadly, true!!

It’s one of the reasons I set the two of them up, to get him to move out here… which he was in the process of putting into motion before things went to pieces.

Too many adults don’t know how to actually be an adult and communicate openly and honestly in situations like that

 

[mobleedzblue]

Eat a crazy ex-girlfriend for me!View attachment 2615908

I had my fill but there’s always room to eat a crazy ex girlfriend…….I mean…..

 

[MissSNG]

Ok now that I’ve killed the fun mood here
Everyone having a good night??

 

[Nylonian]

Absolutely, sadly, true!!

It’s one of the reasons I set the two of them up, to get him to move out here… which he was in the process of putting into motion before things went to pieces.

Too many adults don’t know how to actually be an adult and communicate openly and honestly in situations like that

Sometimes, introspection and being honest with yourself is hard even as an adult. But we have to embrace the hard things, because the alternative is worse... Bad outcomes, consequences down the line. Being honest with yourself is the first step, then setting up a good communication protocol and expectations.

It's important to have those little check ups especially during the honeymoon phase when things can seem rosy and exciting. Dishonesty builds distrust and that's no foundation for any relationship. Trust is hard to build and easy to crumble. Jenga tower, it only takes once piece.

 

[Nylonian]

Ok now that I’ve killed the fun mood here
Everyone having a good night??

Just making a spressi and thinking about relationships... It's not a bad way to start a Friday.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Ok now that I’ve killed the fun mood here
Everyone having a good night??

Plenty of room for more serious thoughts in a cozy space, I think!

 

[MissSNG]

Just making a spressi and thinking about relationships... It's not a bad way to start a Friday.

Plenty of room for more serious thoughts in a cozy space, I think!

I for one could use a GIANT glass of wine and a massage

 

[Nylonian]

I for one could use a GIANT glass of wine and a massage

I'd never say no to a massage. Great idea, I need to schedule one for this weekend.