The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[cfuhrer]

but it's not necessarily the all-about-the-money situation you seem to think it is.

I don't think that at all.

I had a great friend growing up who's parents trained racehorses and a large part of my moms training business was re-purposing horses coming off the track.

I was just saying for the few horses who get little to no one on one, long term contact its not uncommon to have them take on the "What am I doing wrong?" mind set. Almost like a reactive-attachment disorder.

ETA-
That really reads as more defensive and snarky than I intended but I can't figure out how to fix it.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I don't think that at all.

I had a great friend growing up who's parents trained racehorses and a large part of my moms training business was re-purposing horses coming off the track.

I was just saying for the few horses who get little to no one on one, long term contact its not uncommon to have them take on the "What am I doing wrong?" mind set. Almost like a reactive-attachment disorder.

ETA-
That really reads as more defensive and snarky than I intended but I can't figure out how to fix it.

It's fine, I get what you meant now. Oh the detriments of toneless language

 

[CutieMouse]

I am reminded why I rarely go to bed with men younger than myself. They [The Men™] have spoiled me... especially the one who's going away soon.

sigh.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I am reminded why I rarely go to bed with men younger than myself. They [The Men™] have spoiled me... especially the one who's going away soon.

sigh.

{{{{CM}}}}

Just cuz.

 

[cfuhrer]

My sister has a very toxic personality.
I would like to tell her that because she is toxic I no longer want to interact with her.
If I tell her that she will run to my mother, who will then call me and tell me I shouldn't behave that way. As though I bring my sisters attitude on myself.

Your right mom. I shouldn't have asked sis how her day was if I didn't want her to accuse me of trying to abscond with the family heirloom you loaned me. Lesson learned. I'll do better next time. Good talk.

 

[CutieMouse]

{{{{CM}}}}

Just cuz.

Thank you. I'm gonna vent here, because it's pretty much the only place I can vent right now without it feeling weird.

Nice guy, few years younger than me, he messaged me at Fet a few months ago; we've seen each other a few times over the last month or 6 weeks. And he's a nice guy - smart enough, mellow, confidant... ex-jock (quarterback, star basketball player, baseball, soccer, etc when he was younger), driven. We'd made plans for last night - dinner at my place and just time to relax with no agenda.

We ended up fooling around after dinner (because really, after wine and food when you're curled up on the couch, what else do adults do? LOL), and eventually go flop in bed...

I'm used to The Men™ - who see me smelling like they're fresh out of the shower (even if they've been at work all day, or just flew in from out of state). I'm used to men who can "read me" without effort. And the guy claims to be an ass man... but brought AnalEase into my house? WTF? That was one of those casual "there's lube in the nightstand" moments (him commenting that he'd picked some up on the way over), that turned into me going "Excuse me? You brought what into my house? (Followed by a mini-lecture about the importance of silicone lube over aloe/water based, and the stupidity of numbing agents. )

He ended up staying the night... positive being that it's been years (literally) since I've been snuggled all night, and it was good for me. [The Men™ usually leave around 1-2am.] And like I said... nice guy, easy to be around. But I found myself thinking "Woah... you just came on me. Where's my warm wet towel? Wait - I am actually cleaning myself up here? WTF?" or "Why am I having to even notice there isn't enough lube there?" or "That was like 10 minutes and you came. You just climaxed in 10 minutes. And were actually stupid enough to apologize, but blame it on how good it felt." And even after I took a shower this morning, I could smell him on me (weird, I know), but with The Men™ I like that. It turns me on, and helps me feel close, and I dread taking my next shower because they won't be "with" me anymore... but all day today I kept thinking "Ylech... I want to smell like me again." And who the hell takes an entire night of napping/fucking/napping (yes, I enjoy sex enough to take advantage of the situation) to figure out how to properly fuck a woman like me? And while I'm on the subject no, I don't fuck men; men fuck me. Yes, it means an inequality of effort on the surface. Fucking deal with it. The Men™ A) think it's both adorable and sexy and B) relish the opportunity to "use" me however they desire. Seriously? Well played, I am a squirmy, whimpering, responsive set of holes... it isn't my fault if you're so out of shape that taking advantage of that fact leaves you winded. And commenting on it (even if you're joking) is rude and immature.

The stupid thing is that the guy's interesting enough to spend time with, and I could probably teach him a few things... and I'm just lonely enough to consider putting up with it to see where things go... but I keep thinking how much fucking work that would be. And then I start missing the one who's going away. [The one who isn't going away, is pretty content only seeing each other once a month or so.]

Blech.

 

[BiBunny]

I've been in that same sort of situation so many times, CM, that that's exactly why I don't date anymore. EVER. I'm convinced that the next time I decide I want to have sex, I'm just going to pay for it and save myself the trouble.

 

[graceanne]

I spent the day today at the the best hospital in the area. My sisters best friend was lifelighted there after a car accident. He's stable, but in critical condition. He has a spinal and pelvic injury, and had to have heart surgery today to repair a rip to his heart. He's also severely diabetic (type one) so he heals slowly. Right now he's not getting worse, which is the best we can hope for. Please pray for him.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I spent the day today at the the best hospital in the area. My sisters best friend was lifelighted there after a car accident. He's stable, but in critical condition. He has a spinal and pelvic injury, and had to have heart surgery today to repair a rip to his heart. He's also severely diabetic (type one) so he heals slowly. Right now he's not getting worse, which is the best we can hope for. Please pray for him.

Prayers sent.

 

[TarevaChine]

I spent the day today at the the best hospital in the area. My sisters best friend was lifelighted there after a car accident. He's stable, but in critical condition. He has a spinal and pelvic injury, and had to have heart surgery today to repair a rip to his heart. He's also severely diabetic (type one) so he heals slowly. Right now he's not getting worse, which is the best we can hope for. Please pray for him.

Lots of prayers are being sent.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I spent the day today at the the best hospital in the area. My sisters best friend was lifelighted there after a car accident. He's stable, but in critical condition. He has a spinal and pelvic injury, and had to have heart surgery today to repair a rip to his heart. He's also severely diabetic (type one) so he heals slowly. Right now he's not getting worse, which is the best we can hope for. Please pray for him.

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x95/Sir_Winston54/PurpleAnt.gif

 

[cfuhrer]

Prayers sent.

Me too.

 

[graceanne]

Thanks y'all. No change, which is a good thing at this point. My sister is on her way down to the hospital right now - I won't be able to go until this evening cause K's working.

 

[DVS]

I spent the day today at the the best hospital in the area. My sisters best friend was lifelighted there after a car accident. He's stable, but in critical condition. He has a spinal and pelvic injury, and had to have heart surgery today to repair a rip to his heart. He's also severely diabetic (type one) so he heals slowly. Right now he's not getting worse, which is the best we can hope for. Please pray for him.

Sounds like he got tossed around a lot, inside that car. He's going to be on the mend for a while. He also had a higher power on his side, if he had a rip in his heart. He will be dealing with a lot of little issues as well as aches and pains while mending. But, after what he's been through, I'd think stable but critical condition is good.

 

[the captians wench]

Thanks y'all. No change, which is a good thing at this point. My sister is on her way down to the hospital right now - I won't be able to go until this evening cause K's working.

*huggles* gracie

 

[graceanne]

Sounds like he got tossed around a lot, inside that car. He's going to be on the mend for a while. He also had a higher power on his side, if he had a rip in his heart. He will be dealing with a lot of little issues as well as aches and pains while mending. But, after what he's been through, I'd think stable but critical condition is good.

Actually the car that hit them hit his side - the police say he was wearing his seat belt. He hit water, and hydroplaned into the barrier then spun around into the oncoming traffic and was hit by another car. There were four people in that car, and two in his, and they all are home already - only minor injuries. The reason he's so bad is because he was in a small car and the other car hit his door.

*huggles* gracie

Thanks. *hugs* We're all at 'numb' and 'punch drunk'. lol I tried to do a budget this morning though and just kept staring at the numbers because they didn't make sense. So now I'm doing housework - I can do that in my sleep. And have. lol

 

[Keroin]

Good thoughts headed your direction Gracie.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I hate, hate, hate being menopausal.

All this crying and emotional mood swings may destroy my relationships.

 

[TarevaChine]

Sometimes my desires are so intense, they scare me.

 

[the captians wench]

Well, I contacted the school that McD's is partnered with, again, asking for information on the partnership.

I also set up a campus information session for another school. I feel the drive to further my education, and this time I'm going to do something about it.

I may end up dropping down to a swing manager and just hit school hard. Depends on a few things. I'd like to keep my current position if I can, just to get a nice little nest egg.

 

[ImOnIt]

Learning to weld, want to make so many things. Sold a nice pipe with loops on the end for a good rate.

Business opportunity here!

 

[Kajira Callista]

How did I get so lucky?
I LOVE my Daddies!

 

[serijules]

Coming back here after 2 years and seeing this thread still alive made me laugh, out loud. Like seeing an old friend, even though I never read it when I was active.

 

[HottieMama]

I am up for a MAJOR promotion at work. All signs so far are leading toward me having it "in the bag," but I am still nervous. I should know definitively on Monday, one way or the other.

This would mean some HUGE positive changes for my life and my family. I want this so bad I can taste it.

HURRY UP MONDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[cfuhrer]

I am up for a MAJOR promotion at work. All signs so far are leading toward me having it "in the bag," but I am still nervous. I should know definitively on Monday, one way or the other.

This would mean some HUGE positive changes for my life and my family. I want this so bad I can taste it.

HURRY UP MONDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good vibes for you!