The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Bandit58]

Ugh. I'm starting to think I don't fit in around here anymore.

I've been having that feeling for a while now. I'm still submissive, and He's still Dominant, but there's a lot less of the "kinky" stuff happening these days.

I also think it's because I have to be in "take charge" mode so much what with dialysis and His other health issues....

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Ugh. I'm starting to think I don't fit in around here anymore.

well even if you don't, I still like you

 

[BiBunny]

well even if you don't, I still like you

LOL, thanks! I like you, too!

For the record, I'm not planning on leaving or anything. It just seems like the number of threads where my input would be useful has dwindled to pretty much nothing.

 

[the captians wench]

LOL, thanks! I like you, too!

For the record, I'm not planning on leaving or anything. It just seems like the number of threads where my input would be useful has dwindled to pretty much nothing.

Meh, I don't worry about usefulness anymore.

 

[CutieMouse]

LOL, thanks! I like you, too!

For the record, I'm not planning on leaving or anything. It just seems like the number of threads where my input would be useful has dwindled to pretty much nothing.

For me it's more like the number of threads to which my responses is "WTF? / erotica does not equate reality" has gone through the roof. Which leaves me feeling like a jaded, grumpy sourpuss, raining on the parades of all the people who haven't yet learned that porn/erotica and real life are often way way waaaaay different... and that [the pornification of D/s] has absolutely NOTHING to do with submission.

 

[midwestyankee]

For me it's more like the number of threads to which my responses is "WTF? / erotica does not equate reality" has gone through the roof. Which leaves me feeling like a jaded, grumpy sourpuss, raining on the parades of all the people who haven't yet learned that porn/erotica and real life are often way way waaaaay different... and that [the pornification of D/s] has absolutely NOTHING to do with submission.

Say it ain't so, please! I beg you, tell me that you're kidding. This "revelation" of yours has me in a neurotic panic. How will I know what to do if I can't learn from Xhamster and thecrunchychicken.com?

 

[intothewoods]

For me it's more like the number of threads to which my responses is "WTF? / erotica does not equate reality" has gone through the roof. Which leaves me feeling like a jaded, grumpy sourpuss, raining on the parades of all the people who haven't yet learned that porn/erotica and real life are often way way waaaaay different... and that [the pornification of D/s] has absolutely NOTHING to do with submission.

Yeah. I miss the variety. We used to have more toppy female types, didn't we? Although shit, we don't seem to have as many m-Doms contributing either these days.

 

[ruby_my_dear]

I have to speak up here

I have just typed...erased...retyped and then saved to my notes section a post asking for input. I thought I'd leave it there for a time while I decide if it is something I really want the world to be reading and pop on over here to distract myself and see what's up.
What do I find but all of you ladies whom I have found to be the MOST helpful in this forum expressing the fact that there aren't as many meaningful discussions anymore about D/s. Maybe it's not as it was in the " good ole days" but I'm here to tell you I haven't found anywhere better to figure out what the heck is going on in this so called mind of mine.
BiBunny, CutieMouse, FuryFurry, intotheWoods, a few others I can't remember now and even though you kinda scare me, Stella: you have been an incredible source of thought provoking information that have helped me tremendously as I explore what it means for me to be a sub. I'll bet that for every WTF posts you come across there are 10 other potential but too lily-livered-chicken posters like me who read your comments and are grateful.
I hope I don't sound preachy I just want you to know that I appreciate your knowledge and that you continue to hang around here and occasionally step in to say: I respectfully disagree and here is the opposing view.
As for MWY- since you're here too, your wit and charm make me smile almost daily. If I didn't think emoticons weren't the most stupid, lazy thing ever invented, i'd probable use one here that smiled or winked or did something else to convey my thanks to all of you.
ruby

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Sorry for the length of this post, but I have to agree with ruby_m_d. You guys may not *feel* as though you're contributing as much as you perhaps once did, but I still find a great deal of pleasure in reading your viewpoints - whether they're POVs with which I agree fully, partially or not at all - and thinking about what you have to say. And I must say, *that* perhaps is your greatest contribution, one for which you don't get thanked nearly enough, if at all: Giving other forum members something to think about.

I feel I don't contribute as much to the *serious* discussions nearly as much as I once did, but when there is a topic about which I feel strongly, or one about which I may have some specialized knowledge, I do try to put my $0.02 in as cogently as I can. I also still try to encourage folks to seek a better understanding of themselves - something at which a fair number of you - most definitely including Bunny, CM, FF, ITW, Stella, and a bunch of others - are really, really good.

Are there fewer serious discussions than there were when I first came on the scene way back in '04? Meh... perhaps. But then again, I've been here long enough - as have some of y'all - to know that the number of serious discussions, trolls, light-hearted fun threads, you name it, all fluctuate periodically. There have been times when even the Café was inundated with some pretty heavy thoughts, and times when Talk seemed to be floating on a sea of froth.

We've made it through all of those waves, and built a strange little pixelated sort of family here. We even have prodigals wander back in every once in a while, and it's good to "see" them here. Oh... come to think of it, *I* was one of those prodigals, through my own idiocy, and was welcomed back and remarkably happy to *be* back. Sometimes - especially shortly after the Christmas season and when schools let out for the summer and all the trolls and baby posters come out to play - I feel like maybe I don't fit in here any more in my ancient age (yes, that's a bourbon plug! {Even if it IS a bad bourbon, LOL!}), but most of the time, this is my online home...

"Home is the place where, when you have to go there, They have to take you in."​

I'm so glad I was taken in when I first came here, when I came back, and each day that I drop in to post my froth. Pardon the sentimentality, but ...

I you guys.

 

[graceanne]

Ugh. I'm starting to think I don't fit in around here anymore.

Meh, I don't worry about usefulness anymore.

For me it's more like the number of threads to which my responses is "WTF? / erotica does not equate reality" has gone through the roof. Which leaves me feeling like a jaded, grumpy sourpuss, raining on the parades of all the people who haven't yet learned that porn/erotica and real life are often way way waaaaay different... and that [the pornification of D/s] has absolutely NOTHING to do with submission.

Ditto. To everything above. I keep coming here cause my friends are here.

 

[graceanne]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

 

[cfuhrer]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

When I saw you were the most recent poster in the thread I had hoped it was an update with good news; I'm so sorry to see that is not the case. My condolences to your family and to his. It is especially hard to lose someone this time of year, no matter how long it has been in coming.

He is in a better place, trite though that may sound.

I will keep his mother in my prayers.

 

[Kurokami]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

That just flat out sucks. Many positive thoughts coming your way, Grace

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

You know you have a permanent antenna beaming good vibes at you, right? Please feel free to share them with any friends and family you feel could use them.

 

[BiBunny]

Thoughts and prayers for you, your family, and your friends, gracie.

 

[TarevaChine]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

I am so sorry for your loss and for his family. A death is never easy and especially when it is a young life that is taken.

 

[gypsy*seer]

I'm so sorry, gracie. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[midwestyankee]

Oh Gracie, if only you could feel the hugs that are headed your way from here.

 

[Keroin]

Hugs from this corner too, Gracie. So sorry to hear about this.

 

[graceanne]

Thank you, everyone. I really appreciate the thoughts and prayers and antenna's. I've reached that numb stage, which is good, since I'm taking my sisters baby (he was her best friend) for the day - she needs a break. I'm really struggling to give a dang about the holiday, but I don't want to drag the kids down. Plus, we've got K's entire family coming over. yay

 

[the captians wench]

*huggles gracie*

You've been such a support for me in my time of need, and you know it. You know how to find me if you need to lean back.

 

[IrisAlthea]

For me it's more like the number of threads to which my responses is "WTF? / erotica does not equate reality" has gone through the roof. Which leaves me feeling like a jaded, grumpy sourpuss, raining on the parades of all the people who haven't yet learned that porn/erotica and real life are often way way waaaaay different... and that [the pornification of D/s] has absolutely NOTHING to do with submission.

This.

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.

I'm so sorry for your loss!

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I'm so sorry grace *Lends you rat* he nibbles and snuggles. He will make you feel better

 

[BiBunny]

I'm so sorry grace *Lends you rat* he nibbles and snuggles. He will make you feel better

You have the perfect critter for every occasion.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I don't know if you all remember me posting about my family friend who was in a car accident, but he died today. I won't post his name, but he was 19 years old. He spent his whole life fighting diabetes, and he died in a car accident. His mother only has one other child, and he's in jail right now. We're very concerned for her mental health without her other son around to keep her attached to this world.