The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Jay Davis]

The media is fucking evil.

Technically, the media are complacent tools of the fundamentalist neo-con corporatocracy...which is evil. So, the media are only evil by marriage.

They are lazy and spineless on their own merits, though, if that helps.

 

[canadiancutie]

one of my nose studs just fell into the keyboard. today is not a good day.

 

[FungiUg]

The media is fucking evil.

Technically, the media are complacent tools of the fundamentalist neo-con corporatocracy...which is evil. So, the media are only evil by marriage.

Hang on... the media can't be married to evil and fucking evil. One or the other, but not both -- marriage is the death of fucking, after all!

 

[chris9]

Hang on... the media can't be married to evil and fucking evil. One or the other, but not both -- marriage is the death of fucking, after all!

Maybe it's not fucking the evil it married but the secretary

 

[astralkiss]

you can really be a jerk sometimes, you know that?

 

[canadiancutie]

sometimes good things can come from something really terrible

 

[rikaaim]

Just a little blurt to say that this is most likely the last time I'll be able to post. I can't afford to keep my internet right now as I'm in too much debt. I will miss everyone.

 

[graceanne]

Just a little blurt to say that this is most likely the last time I'll be able to post. I can't afford to keep my internet right now as I'm in too much debt. I will miss everyone.

Oh, bummer, *hugs* Hope things improe soon. Hope the net withdrawls aren't too bad.

 

[Marquis]

Oh, bummer, *hugs* Hope things improe soon. Hope the net withdrawls aren't too bad.

Sometimes I think I'd probably be better off without the net, but the withdrawal would send me into a coma.

 

[graceanne]

Sometimes I think I'd probably be better off without the net, but the withdrawal would send me into a coma.

LOL Me, too. Once our phone was turned off for a week, and K cheered when it got turned back on, I was driving him crazy.

 

[Netzach]

I just want...COFFEE WITH HALF AND HALF!

 

[graceanne]

I just want...COFFEE WITH HALF AND HALF!

*hugs* You know a cheat like once a week won't hurt you. You just gotta be careful about cheating too much.

 

[snowy ciara]

I just want...COFFEE WITH HALF AND HALF!

hugging a lot and groping just a little bit on Nets I miss the good stuff stuff. I've been (drinkable) decaffed since January 6th of this year. After dealing with that decaffination, my family and friends begged me not to quit chocolate. Apparently, I got a bit, er tense.

I wish you and gracie didn't have Crohn's...

 

[canadiancutie]

Super sweet post-new waver doms who use Billy Idol as a way of cheering you up are awesome.

 

[graceanne]

hugging a lot and groping just a little bit on Nets I miss the good stuff stuff. I've been (drinkable) decaffed since January 6th of this year. After dealing with that decaffination, my family and friends begged me not to quit chocolate. Apparently, I got a bit, er tense.

I wish you and gracie didn't have Crohn's...

You? Tense? Never! You must be speaking of someone else.

And so do we.

 

[Cleopatra]

Are things better down here?

 

[snowy ciara]

You? Tense? Never! You must be speaking of someone else.

And I got sarcastic, too, but not as sarky as you.

 

[graceanne]

And I got sarcastic, too, but not as sarky as you.

sarky?

 

[canadiancutie]

A haunted bedroom is altering my ability to sleep so I'm watching the gay 8 year old boy gymnast from russia do a routine to I Believe I can fly. Frick. The country swing dancers aren't that bad. It's more impressive because they're old, and their velvet turquoise outfits distract me from the crappy music. Wow this is filmed in Hawaii. Killi, I blame you and your people for this late night television masterpeice. Oh. Now there's an acapella family boy band. Death to Hawaii. Awesome! A brother and sister singing a romantic duet with the brother ending the song in falsetto.

 

[rikaaim]

What the fuck makes a TRUE BDSmer?

Let me relay the setup a bit.

I was talking to my ex last night, via messenger. She was having some tough times, and being the nice guy that I am, I was trying to help her out. Well, she was pissed and didn't want to have anything to do with me.

I offered her food, what little bit I have, comfort, a safe place to relax, and even the meager amount of money I just received to help her fix her car that just broke down.

Instead I get nothing but attitude.

She said she was too pissed to answer questions.


She said that she's too frustrated.

She said 1) She was too tired. *Okay I get that. It was going on one A.M.

2) She's been hanging out with TRUE BDSmers all day and is very frustrated.

3) She's too pissed.


Okay...so, I asked her what a true BDSmer was, and she gets all pissed off and basically stops talking to me.

Let me explain my situation and why she said that to me.

I'm new to this lifestyle. In fact, so new that I haven't even found a special person to learn and grow in this lifestyle with. I understand many things about the intricacies of REAL BDSM. I understand so much more than whipping, flogging, torturing, humilating. I know that at it's core, there must always be trust and love, in a PYL/pyl relationship. I also understand that there are many hacks out there who wish nothing more than their own five second gratification by using, abusing, and abandoning, a willing person. Those people make me sick.

So, I ask: Am I a true BDSMer in my heart even though I've never gotten to live the lifestyle yet? I say yes. I say yes because I know in my heart this is the life I want to live. I know what I'm looking for. I know how to treat my willing pyl.

I was just curious as to what others thought.

I'd like to make the comparrison to a new lesbian or gay male. Let's say one at age 12 to 14. One who hasn't had any sexaul activity yet.

Now, just because they haven't done the deed yet, they still new they like the same sex. I mean, when a girl gets more turned on by a girl, and is repulsed by the thought of touching a man's cock, I'm pretty sure she's a lesbain.

When a young boy looks more and the fully clothed men in a Playboy magazine and pays no attention to a naked woman, I'm pretty sure he's gay.

All this with the implication that said young adolescent already knows this about him/herself.

Man, this blurt should be it's own thread eh?

 

[jasonlf]

She said 1) She was too tired. *Okay I get that. It was going on one A.M.

2) She's been hanging out with TRUE BDSmers all day and is very frustrated.

3) She's too pissed.


Okay...so, I asked her what a true BDSmer was, and she gets all pissed off and basically stops talking to me.

Hey, you know my ex too!

Dude, take that in your mind, and throw it out. She's just being a bitch, and you have to fly a little higher than that.

 

[rikaaim]

Hey, you know my ex too!

Dude, take that in your mind, and throw it out. She's just being a bitch, and you have to fly a little higher than that.

Sheila from west north 23rd south street? Yeah, she is a real bitch.

Well, it just pisses me off because I try so hard. The sad thing is, I'm done with her.

I don't want to be. I want to be support and guidance for her, but it's unhealthy for me to do so at this point. I just have to walk away.

Like I said, I know my heart and who I am. That's what matters. I'm going to find a person who's going to make me happy and complete, and I them. That's what matters. Thanks for the support Jason.

 

[canadiancutie]

I'm going to see a clairvoyant about what's haunting my bedroom, true story. Wish me luck!

 

[canadiancutie]

Watching an "Adults only" hypnotist with your mom in the room? Awkward.

Spending $21 in a day on water? Infuriating.

Shaming a clairvoyant with 15 years experience in front of a crowd? Priceless.

 

[Marquis]

I flirted with her last night.