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Although my current ideal has found my wife making that step, struggling to make sure she doesnt is terribly hard and my worst fear.

All my hopes...

SubKekiLee said:
Well why is it that people dont think things thru when they decide to take thier own life, last night my Sister in law attempted to take her own life, god wasnt ready for her so she did make it thru the night but now Im exhausted and need sleep.. and am worn out.. All night driving to get family from airport and then home slept 3 hours and then back up to the hospital, the bullet shattered when it went it, no major damage but now to put her life back together...... Damn it to hell..
 
I reserved our hotel rooms for this weekend! We are actually going to do something for our anniversary. WooHoo :nana: :nana:
 
SubKekiLee said:
now to put her life back together...... Damn it to hell..

So very, very sorry to hear that. To be that far gone and come back takes just an incredible amount of treatment and support. I have, unfortunately, had friends both 'succeed and fail' at taking their own lives. Either way is devastating for those close to them. But there is hope.

I still miss the one who killed himself 25+ years ago and his widow is still dealing with post traumatic shock. I miss him often and I'm still pissed at him for deciding to leave us. The friend who tried and failed has gotten help and found reasons to regret the attempt which have really become reasons to celebrate each and every day. And yes, she tried the 'foolproof' way with a pistol not one of the plea's for help.

She's become a beacon for many people to show how precious life is and what you can do in life by 'staying' and facing it rather than giving up. It took lots of support and love from everyone in her life, but she'd tell you she's a better person now.

As hard as it is I'm sure you and everyone close to her will help her see how much she is needed and wanted and that she will find the reasons to live. If she does then I'm confident she'll find the desire to thrive and be healthy.

It is hard for her. It is incredibly hard for the people closest to her that have no clue what she must have felt and thought to be that despondent and hopeless.

Fortunately, she's still with you / us -- there is hope. It won't be easy, but with the right help, love and support we can hope that she'll come through this. I guess my message is that it can happen and I hope that it does.

I'll say a prayer and know that everyone in this little community of ours will join me in it.

For now... Just the most positive thoughts from here. I know it is tough, but be supportive and loving and know that it can get better.

LC
 
SubKekiLee said:
Well why is it that people dont think things thru when they decide to take thier own life, last night my Sister in law attempted to take her own life, god wasnt ready for her so she did make it thru the night but now Im exhausted and need sleep.. and am worn out.. All night driving to get family from airport and then home slept 3 hours and then back up to the hospital, the bullet shattered when it went it, no major damage but now to put her life back together...... Damn it to hell..

*hugs* My sisters boyfriend put a gun in his mouth and pulled the trigger in late June, the sonofabitch. If you wanna talk, PM me and I'll send you my IM addy.
 
graceanne said:
*hugs* My sisters boyfriend put a gun in his mouth and pulled the trigger in late June, the sonofabitch. If you wanna talk, PM me and I'll send you my IM addy.

Yeah, this totally reminded me of that horrible experience. I hope your sister and her children are getting the help they need to deal with that devastating moment.

LC
 
Thank YOU!!!! Everyone for all your thoughts and prayers..... I couldnt begin to thank everyone!!! I will update more later as I need to run... BUT GOD has a way of working miracles.... She asked me yesterday why did god save her? I had no anwser but tears streaming down my face.....THANKS
 
SubKekiLee said:
Thank YOU!!!! Everyone for all your thoughts and prayers..... I couldnt begin to thank everyone!!! I will update more later as I need to run... BUT GOD has a way of working miracles.... She asked me yesterday why did god save her? I had no anwser but tears streaming down my face.....THANKS
One answer to her question might be "because the rest of you still need her," which seems true from what you've posted here, and also might help give her a reason to work through her problems rather than run from them.
 
Ahem. Paging Miss Mouse and other sexy librarian types! Please see the Chicklet Halloween thread to help this kitty.
 
bholderman said:
At least I have something to think about now.
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yep that did it, thanks.

Wow, you are easy. 5 forward slashes is all it takes to get you off!?
 
SubKekiLee said:
Well why is it that people dont think things thru when they decide to take thier own life, last night my Sister in law attempted to take her own life, god wasnt ready for her so she did make it thru the night but now Im exhausted and need sleep.. and am worn out.. All night driving to get family from airport and then home slept 3 hours and then back up to the hospital, the bullet shattered when it went it, no major damage but now to put her life back together...... Damn it to hell..


My thoughts are with you. As to why they don't think it through, there are many reasons such as FF said why people decide this is the only option available to them at that moment. Sometimes it is impacted by depression, sometimes it is the culmination of years of pain. From personal experience in my own family I know it was thought about for many years, even talked about, and unfortunately my father was successful the first and only time he tried it.

Catalina :catroar:
 
Is it so unnervingly difficult to spot the date of the last post in the thread you're reading? Chances are, that question that was bothering Miss XYZ back in June of 2002 is no longer on her mind and I'm willing to bet that she isn't waiting around at her computer for your less-than-brilliant response. Just a guess, you understand. Just a guess on my part.
 
HottieMama said:
It. Won't. Leave. My. Head!


*grabs drill with 2in wide bit.. runs at hottie with maniacal grin, pulling trigger on drill.. screaming "I'll get that song out of your head... even if it kills you!"....


:D

Yes.. I took my meds today too!
 
Chris_Xavier said:

*grabs drill with 2in wide bit.. runs at hottie with maniacal grin, pulling trigger on drill.. screaming "I'll get that song out of your head... even if it kills you!"....


:D

Yes.. I took my meds today too!
I hope that's a Forstner bit.
 
Chris_Xavier said:

*grabs drill with 2in wide bit.. runs at hottie with maniacal grin, pulling trigger on drill.. screaming "I'll get that song out of your head... even if it kills you!"....


:D

Yes.. I took my meds today too!


Nurse HottieMama says you need to up the dosage. :D :p :cathappy:
 
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