The Isolated Blurt Thread XXXVII: You're Welcome, Fuckers

[FataMorgana]

I'd sell my soul to have an hour at the kitchen table with my mum and a big pot of tea.

 

[TwinkleStars]

I'd sell my soul to have an hour at the kitchen table with my mum and a big pot of tea.

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[Lorilei]

 

[juttjaw]

I'd sell my soul to have an hour at the kitchen table with my mum and a big pot of tea.

I feel the same. However, ive come to a realization. My mom spent my whole life shaping who i am today. There is no time, in the present, that i cant hear her voice. I miss her, but i find myself talking to her every day. Even saying things like she would say. Answers to questions, thoughts, quips and advice to others. Even my wife recognizes when my mother is "speaking" through me. They engraved, etched and molded who we are.

I dont know if its supernatural, unconscious thought or from one soul to another linked by hereditary genetics, but your Mother is there. Somewhere in the front of your mind, watching and still handing you the keys to life. It would be nice to feel her hugs, or listen to her voice, but thats the shit end of it. Im certainly, in no way, telling you i know your feelings, but its helped me beyond the grief.

I have no clue what happens when we die, but the older i get, the more i feel it isnt an end. And im getting used to that feeling. Longing and sadness is a fucking cunt, and there are no words that can take that away. I feel for you sister...

 

[HarryHill]

Anniversary day today. I forgot as usual. Love you Ku.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Boobie rashes take too long to go away.

 

[girlsmiley]

Honestly I don’t know how to feel right now. Friday night, I told a woman I am not interested in her. Like at all. Cannot get involved. This may sound harsh, but she lost the fucking plot. Called me 21 times and text me 30 messages. Saying she thought I liked her. Saying I am lying to everyone and that I’m not actually gay. Just insane shit. Between 1 and 3 in the morning. Sent me video of her cutting herself and taking pills. It fucking scared me. Like, I genuinely feel afraid of her. I really do not know what to do about the whole situation. I’ve blocked her. I told her that her behaviour was unacceptable and that I will never speak to her again. The fuck man.

 

[girlsmiley]

I really feel like I need to laugh this one away because it is too goddamn crazy.

 

[girlsmiley]

I'd sell my soul to have an hour at the kitchen table with my mum and a big pot of tea.

I’m trying to imagine what my mum would say to me right now. I wonder if she would laugh hysterically in my face. Ha! Probably.

I could go a grenadine and Schweppes. And some halloumi.

 

[girlsmiley]

I can’t even.

 

[juttjaw]

I can’t even.

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At least she only left 3 voicemails.. Maybe, shes not as crazy as you think.

Honestly, you did the right thing. Shes trying to make you feel responsible for her actions. That technique works sometimes. Just remember, you're not, what she does (however destructive) is not your fault. You were honest and to the point, set boundries that she violated, over and over. Imagine what she would be like if you broke her favorite coffee cup...

She obviously has some issues she needs to focus on. I do feel bad for her, something made her that way. An event, an accident or genetics. Either way, it is not your responsibility to fix it. Stay far away, very far away.

Thats my nuget of obvious wisdom for the day. Now back to getting my ass kicked by wooden flooring..

 

[Lazaran]

I can’t even.

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Save that image.

Good evidence for the restraining / no contact order.

 

[butters]

Anniversary day today. I forgot as usual. Love you Ku.

i missed seeing this... love you, too

I can’t even.

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can't you just entirely block the number?

 

[Sean]

Fuck Jeff Bezos and his "doesn't ship to Northern Ireland" bullshit.

 

[thør]

your Mother is there

Always. While she passed just over 23 years ago, she's still with me and tells me when I've done something stupid.

if she would laugh hysterically

Mine did that to me the day she passed before the procedure.....

 

[girlsmiley]

At least she only left 3 voicemails.. Maybe, shes not as crazy as you think.

Honestly, you did the right thing. Shes trying to make you feel responsible for her actions. That technique works sometimes. Just remember, you're not, what she does (however destructive) is not your fault. You were honest and to the point, set boundries that she violated, over and over. Imagine what she would be like if you broke her favorite coffee cup...

She obviously has some issues she needs to focus on. I do feel bad for her, something made her that way. An event, an accident or genetics. Either way, it is not your responsibility to fix it. Stay far away, very far away.

Thats my nuget of obvious wisdom for the day. Now back to getting my ass kicked by wooden flooring..

She recently broke up with her partner. I’ve been friends with them for a few years. Not close mates mind you just work friends. I’ve tried to support her these last few weeks by listening and offering some advice. Nothing major. Stuff like, ‘probably best to not answer phone calls while you’re trying to have dinner’ and, ‘try to eat more’. Recommending murder shows like Game of Thrones to take her mind off things. I’m super limited when it comes to relationship advice. Good advice LOL.

She’d had a few drinks. Not that many, like 6 beers. I was really not expecting her to react that way. It was scary. I wasn’t mean but I was firm. She was acting like a different person. Angry. Manic. Insane. What made it worse, is when I told her later on that morning that her behaviour and the messages and calls weren’t okay, she giggled and smiled. It honestly freaked me out a bit. She reckons “I just wanted to talk”. I reminded her of the time and the pill pics and the video. She just shrugged like it was nothing.

She needs therapy. Hell, I need therapy after that.

 

[girlsmiley]

can't you just entirely block the number?

I have.

Always. While she passed just over 23 years ago, she's still with me and tells me when I've done something stupid.

Mine did that to me the day she passed before the procedure.....

There were a few special occasions she found particularly amusing. Like the time I slapped a boy across the face at marching band practice. During my first vaginal swab. I have a feeling this would be another one of those times.

 

[silver gurl]

On my way! Get those dogs ready for cuddles.

Dogs would love that!
They are getting older. My Portia girl is about 14. She is not doing great but still seems happy enough.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Dogs would love that!
They are getting older. My Portia girl is about 14. She is not doing great but still seems happy enough.

I'll give her doggie massages, belly rubs and tell her what a good girl she is.

 

[Noor]

Honestly I don’t know how to feel right now. Friday night, I told a woman I am not interested in her. Like at all. Cannot get involved. This may sound harsh, but she lost the fucking plot. Called me 21 times and text me 30 messages. Saying she thought I liked her. Saying I am lying to everyone and that I’m not actually gay. Just insane shit. Between 1 and 3 in the morning. Sent me video of her cutting herself and taking pills. It fucking scared me. Like, I genuinely feel afraid of her. I really do not know what to do about the whole situation. I’ve blocked her. I told her that her behaviour was unacceptable and that I will never speak to her again. The fuck man.

I’d forward the suicide video to the police and ask them to do a wellness check but leave you out of it.

 

[girlsmiley]

I’d forward the suicide video to the police and ask them to do a wellness check but leave you out of it.

She’s okay. I’ve been told she’s been at work. I really hope she does decide to reach out and get help with her issues, but I won’t have anything to do with her. After Wednesday I will probably not see her again for a very long time, if at all.

 

[juttjaw]

She recently broke up with her partner. I’ve been friends with them for a few years. Not close mates mind you just work friends. I’ve tried to support her these last few weeks by listening and offering some advice. Nothing major. Stuff like, ‘probably best to not answer phone calls while you’re trying to have dinner’ and, ‘try to eat more’. Recommending murder shows like Game of Thrones to take her mind off things. I’m super limited when it comes to relationship advice. Good advice LOL.

She’d had a few drinks. Not that many, like 6 beers. I was really not expecting her to react that way. It was scary. I wasn’t mean but I was firm. She was acting like a different person. Angry. Manic. Insane. What made it worse, is when I told her later on that morning that her behaviour and the messages and calls weren’t okay, she giggled and smiled. It honestly freaked me out a bit. She reckons “I just wanted to talk”. I reminded her of the time and the pill pics and the video. She just shrugged like it was nothing.

She needs therapy. Hell, I need therapy after that.

Yeah, i dont know of anything, i can think of, that would help. You got that shit covered! Im usually able to find deeper meaning in peoples actions than words (product of a psychiatrist mother). She wanted attention, good or bad, she got it. Not saying she isnt deeply disturbed, she is and needs help, but dont we all. It sucks that you had to be on the other end of that. We all fuck things up, sometimes we dont realize how our fuck ups effect others, until we are on the opposite end.

Stay strong!

Edit: i dont know why i said that... But I'll stand by it.. Stay strong?

 

[Plasmaball]

I'm sorry it's just gross. Its like a lack of self respect or something you need to open your legs for any man that gives you an ounce of attention.
Smh.just ew..

 

[silver gurl]

Election day here in the North Pole.

 

[Lazaran]

Election day here in the North Pole.

Hopefully the MAGA virus was recognized as the threat it is, and Canadians vaccinated themselves against it.

Too many "Americans" didn’t recognize the threat the MAGA virus posed - even after the first infection - and look at the state of the country now.



We. Told. Them. So.