The lonely hearts thread

[Scribbleros]

I am drinking "Le Goat Blush" alone. Its a semi-dry sweet wine. I wish I had company over.

 

[Sirens_Daughter]

Hugs for all my lonely friends...and for myself...

 

[Guest]

Hugs for all my lonely friends...and for myself...

i need them as alot of people on Lit are ready to give opinions on things they really don't know anything about.

 

[Sirens_Daughter]

i need them as alot of people on Lit are ready to give opinions on things they really don't know anything about.

Come here Moon *Pulls her into a big hug, snuggling all the bad things away*

 

[Guest]

Come here Moon *Pulls her into a big hug, snuggling all the bad things away*

thanks *hugs back* i made the mistake of posting how i felt about something (which hopefully will be deleted) and the next thing i know people are either reading WAY too much into it or simply don't have any clue about my situation. *sighs* i hate the computer sometimes. people ALWAYS read me the wrong way.

 

[Sirens_Daughter]

thanks *hugs back* i made the mistake of posting how i felt about something (which hopefully will be deleted) and the next thing i know people are either reading WAY too much into it or simply don't have any clue about my situation. *sighs* i hate the computer sometimes. people ALWAYS read me the wrong way.

If people don't get it, they don't get it. It doesn't reflect on you if they are too ignorant to understand or to even try to understand another's thoughts or feelings. You shouldn't ever have to feel that you made a mistake by posting anything, especially here...

 

[Guest]

If people don't get it, they don't get it. It doesn't reflect on you if they are too ignorant to understand or to even try to understand another's thoughts or feelings. You shouldn't ever have to feel that you made a mistake by posting anything, especially here...

it was the "i'm sick of this shit" thread

i was just venting and hoping to find others who might....to some extent....understand....*sighs*

 

[Sirens_Daughter]

it was the "i'm sick of this shit" thread

i was just venting and hoping to find others who might....to some extent....understand....*sighs*

Would you mind if I asked what you were venting about? I'll listen and try to understand...

 

[Guest]

this..........

I have finally realized that there are no honest, caring, nice, sweet men out there. (And if there is....they are married or gay or have a girlfriend).

All they ever want to do is cyber on here and I'm fucking sick of this.

I want someone who is seriously looking for a long-term relationship and frankly, they don't exist.

I'm not going around "looking" but I'm sick to death of cybering online when I'd much rather feel a naked body next my skin, touching and stroking my body.

This cyber sex shit is stupid to me and I'm sick of it.

I want a real connection....not something false and cold. And don't tell me that's how you get to know someone because it isn't. I get horny like everyone else but goddamn! What ever happened to meeting people in person?? Is it a lost art now?

I'm just sick of men being so false. Be honest and upfront! I'd rather someone just come right out and say what they really want at that moment then waste my time with sex chat when we could actually be fucking.


(PS. I'm not against other who like to cyber and such. It's just that I'm sick of cyber for myself.)

 

[SexSweetheart]

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[Sirens_Daughter]

this..........

I understand how you feel. I guess as much as I cyber, maybe I don't have much room to talk, but it would be nice for men to just come out and say what they want and then come and get it. Skip the cyber and just fuck or whatever. Have real conversations. Again, as much as I cyber, I'm being a bit hypocritical, but I know how you feel, and where you're coming from

 

[Guest]

I understand how you feel. I guess as much as I cyber, maybe I don't have much room to talk, but it would be nice for men to just come out and say what they want and then come and get it. Skip the cyber and just fuck or whatever. Have real conversations. Again, as much as I cyber, I'm being a bit hypocritical, but I know how you feel, and where you're coming from

thank you very much

*sighs* the computer makes some people false

 

[Scribbleros]

Ladies, wish you both a good night.

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[Guest]

If it makes you feel better, I know there are at least a few of us guys out there who want the same thing you do. We're just...not in your general area.

of course not, that would be too easy

 

[Valkyrie2006]

And Noor is correct. Becoming invisible doesn't make problems invisible. You have fiends that are always willing to talk, or more importantly, listen. Don't cut yourself off from that resource.

Im still around ...sorta...just took my links to my pics down for now...

but I know last night I got a small glimmer of hope...Im not going to jump to high or scream from any mountain tops yet...it was a very simple night...

but I did get one thing I have wanted for a long time....just someone to sit and talk to...and cuddle with...to me it meant more then anything....

I felt a bit of optimism come back...but Im not going to jinx anything by getting my hopes up just yet

 

[Guest]

Im still around ...sorta...just took my links to my pics down for now...

but I know last night I got a small glimmer of hope...Im not going to jump to high or scream from any mountain tops yet...it was a very simple night...

but I did get one thing I have wanted for a long time....just someone to sit and talk to...and cuddle with...to me it meant more then anything....

I felt a bit of optimism come back...but Im not going to jinx anything by getting my hopes up just yet

we're always glad for those spots of sunshine {{{{hugs}}}}

 

[Valkyrie2006]

this..........

I so agree with your post and feel the same way...Thursday night I basicaly just stopped it all. Now I'm the big bad bitch cause I did this....

Its become cold and heartless...I hate it now...there is no emotion to it...

But I think in doing that it opened up some doors for me in real life

 

[Guest]

I so agree with your post and feel the same way...Thursday night I basicaly just stopped it all. Now I'm the big bad bitch cause I did this....

Its become cold and heartless...I hate it now...there is no emotion to it...

But I think in doing that it opened up some doors for me in real life

just a damned shame how some people can be though. most don't truly understand the situation and simply say things like, 'it will get better' or 'hang in there'.

frankly, i don't want to hear someone's opinion, sometimes it simply helps to find others that feel the same way and to know you're not alone.

*raises her glass* here's to wishing the best for both of us.

 

[Valkyrie2006]

just a damned shame how some people can be though. most don't truly understand the situation and simply say things like, 'it will get better' or 'hang in there'.

frankly, i don't want to hear someone's opinion, sometimes it simply helps to find others that feel the same way and to know you're not alone.

*raises her glass* here's to wishing the best for both of us.

Yes...Im keeping things real right now...and optimistic...but my roommate thinks good things will come from this... she knows the guy well...*laughs* it's her cousin...,

 

[Guest]

Yes...Im keeping things real right now...and optimistic...but my roommate thinks good things will come from this... she knows the guy well...*laughs* it's her cousin...,

lol, thats good. i'm just glad that you have some 'sunshine'

 

[pink]

Good Sunday morning, everyone. Hope the sun is shining where you're at.

 

[pink]

i am posting this link for everyone's use. Bookmark it please and pass it to someone who needs help.


http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

 

[elizabeth22673]

i am posting this link for everyone's use. Bookmark it please and pass it to someone who needs help.


http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

Pink, I just read that and I have definitely bookmarked it. Thank you

 

[pink]

Pink, I just read that and I have definitely bookmarked it. Thank you

Hopefully, others will too.