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I am so sick of monogamy being shoved down my throat.

Just seems like every where I turn lately there's a discussion going on about why a man (most often) would be seeing more than one girl at a time (again big assumptions) and why would she put up with it.

And OMG heaven forbid some one date more than one person at a time, let alone something long term.

gah!
 
the captians wench said:
I am so sick of monogamy being shoved down my throat.

Just seems like every where I turn lately there's a discussion going on about why a man (most often) would be seeing more than one girl at a time (again big assumptions) and why would she put up with it.

And OMG heaven forbid some one date more than one person at a time, let alone something long term.

gah!
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Looking for something else, eh? ;)
 
the captians wench said:
I am so sick of monogamy being shoved down my throat.

Just seems like every where I turn lately there's a discussion going on about why a man (most often) would be seeing more than one girl at a time (again big assumptions) and why would she put up with it.

And OMG heaven forbid some one date more than one person at a time, let alone something long term.

gah!
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Of course, no woman would ever want to date two men (or people) at once because women are, by nature, sexless. And a woman would only ever put up with a man having more than one girlfriend because she's so desperate not to be alone that she'll do anything to keep from losing him, not because she, y'know, really doesn't give a shit.

Don't you know these things by now, woman? :mad:
 
the captians wench said:
I am so sick of monogamy being shoved down my throat.

Just seems like every where I turn lately there's a discussion going on about why a man (most often) would be seeing more than one girl at a time (again big assumptions) and why would she put up with it.

And OMG heaven forbid some one date more than one person at a time, let alone something long term.

gah!
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Because that's how we're socialized. <sigh>

I'm poly-inclined mostly because I'm bi. Our lives have been too complicated, lately, to let us pursue this properly. I remain optimistic.

When I wasn't attached, I played the field and dated more than one guy at a time. Isn't that what early dating is all about?

Later I ended up serving two different doms at the same time...both knew about each other, and I had clearly defined levels of commitment to each of them. There was a lot of criss-crossing with play partners, protectors, and 'family' and a good time was had by all.

There are times when I miss that kind of structure, but overall I think I'm too old for that much work, any more. ;)

In principal, though, I think whatever kind of caring, open arrangement someone wants to get involved in can be a good thing. Honesty and communication are vital. I just figure the more love we put into the universe, the better it can be. :rose:
 
It's been a heroic effort for me to restrain myself from going into the "Doms, what names do you like to be called?" thread and saying, "'Your Majesty,' obvs."
 
Adding my applause to MWY! :D (I'm partial to Fred, but George is ok too.)

Master said I scare him today, cracked me up! All I did was to suggest that he finish what we started (weird combined cleanup/research project involving his desk-mess). We never did find the document that started it all, but a bunch of other stuff got found/done and we terrorized several dustlephants in the process.

I got a swat because I mentioned that my going rate for tech support is $80/hr. He's happily reading a new book, now, and I guess I'll just have to take it out in trade. :cattail:
 
desertslave said:
Adding my applause to MWY! :D (I'm partial to Fred, but George is ok too.)
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I meant that to be a riff on the interview scene from A Hard Day's Night, in which George is asked what he calls his hairstyle. I had always thought that his answer was "George" but it was "Arthur." Oh well.
 
midwestyankee said:
I meant that to be a riff on the interview scene from A Hard Day's Night, in which George is asked what he calls his hairstyle. I had always thought that his answer was "George" but it was "Arthur." Oh well.
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LOL I remember that!

My Fred thing started wayyyy back in high school. Goofy circumstances that ended in someone saying "let's name it Fred" in a very silly way. I've been fond of Fred ever since. The twins in Harry Potter sent me into giggles every time.

Imagine my delight when I discovered a bottled water brand, back in PA, simply named Fred. I have bottles in two sizes and cherish them. :cool:
 
BiBunny said:
It's been a heroic effort for me to restrain myself from going into the "Doms, what names do you like to be called?" thread and saying, "'Your Majesty,' obvs."
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I always get "you can call me Al" stuck in my head with those threads.
 
midwestyankee said:
Looking for something else, eh? ;)
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Always. :cattail:

BiBunny said:
Of course, no woman would ever want to date two men (or people) at once because women are, by nature, sexless. And a woman would only ever put up with a man having more than one girlfriend because she's so desperate not to be alone that she'll do anything to keep from losing him, not because she, y'know, really doesn't give a shit.

Don't you know these things by now, woman? :mad:
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Guess I'm a slow learner. :rolleyes:

desertslave said:
Because that's how we're socialized. <sigh>

I'm poly-inclined mostly because I'm bi. Our lives have been too complicated, lately, to let us pursue this properly. I remain optimistic.

When I wasn't attached, I played the field and dated more than one guy at a time. Isn't that what early dating is all about?

Later I ended up serving two different doms at the same time...both knew about each other, and I had clearly defined levels of commitment to each of them. There was a lot of criss-crossing with play partners, protectors, and 'family' and a good time was had by all.

There are times when I miss that kind of structure, but overall I think I'm too old for that much work, any more. ;)

In principal, though, I think whatever kind of caring, open arrangement someone wants to get involved in can be a good thing. Honesty and communication are vital. I just figure the more love we put into the universe, the better it can be. :rose:
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Multi domly types at the same time have sometimes caused conflict, depends how big the egos are really.

I'm such a needy thing, that multiple people to give me attention tends to ease both the stress on my partners, and my need for constant attention.

Of course, if Jounar ever got the notion to take me up and move me to his side of the world, I'd go mono in a heart beat. But in that situation, I'd have a live in, where as now I live alone, so I believe one could fit my needs.
 
Driving earlier through the one way system in town, there was an old guy in the car in front. He suddenly stopped, short of the junction, seemingly oblivious to the fact that I was close behind him. He called to a passerby and, from the arm movements, had obviously asked directions to his destination and the pedestrian was describing how to get there.

But, being a pedestrian, he was carelessly waving the wrong way up the one way system.

I sat behind and waited for the inevitable, and sure enough, the old guy started to turn the wrong way.

I flashed my lights and sounded my horn in an attempt to warn him, but he was oblivious to that too and carried on driving. So I had to leave him to it - hope he was ok...
 
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