Thinkings, feelings and...doings ~ 2013

As for the female writers you assume I'm attempting to write with, there's only one and she actually understood what the storyline required. Those that responded to the joke weren't the type I'd want to write with. Nice to hear your assumptions about a person you have no clue about.

He was just joking with those assumptions. I thought that was obvious? I can't believe you fell for it.
 
I see all that study has made you a smart ass

*smiles* :rose:

LT: That was hilarious - a joke using the premise of someone supporting a person with a disability.

Ha ha fucking ha.

I was a smart ass before the studying Fishie!

Sooooo much studying.

Well, according to him, he IS a person with a disability. But I'm just being 'assumptive' by believing what he says so I'm really not very smart so ignore me

*squeezes*
 
Well, according to him, he IS a person with a disability. But I'm just being 'assumptive' by believing what he says so I'm really not very smart so ignore me

How can I ignore you AND stalk your writing? :confused:

:rose:

I have comments I could make, but I can't be bothered. Also, I don't hide behind a screen when I want to be an asshole - I sort of like to do that stuff face to face. You know, just in case I have to face up to it *shrugs* Just saying...
 
Thoughts: Mmmm. Snowed in with a sexy gal?
Feelings: : *sticks ICE COLD FEET upon someone*
Doings: Playing Metroid Fusion
 
I have Muscular Dystrophy thank you and to just put it out there bluntly. What any of you think is of little importance to me. You that have responded can't seem to tell what was my storyline and what was the joke. You're in luck I'll not waste my time on the likes of you here, have a nice life here in your little land of escapism. You obviously need this place for more than I do, a little psychological examination might help you also. Just saying it's a possibility being everyone is a little insane obviously i'm no exception from such myself.

I'm sorry for your condition, but I'm not sorry that I didn't find any humour in your "joke". You are not unique in having your issues to face. You'll find there are many people on here that have their own issues to deal with in regards to disability, either as caregivers or having a disability. I know what that is like only too well - I don't begrudge them any little tiny bit of escapism they can get.

In the meantime, take care of yourself and good luck.
 
I have to take this in bits and pieces, because well, I am.

I have Muscular Dystrophy thank you and to just put it out there bluntly.

Dude that sucks. Like hardcore sucks. You know.. maybe there are those of us who aren't familiar with MD and would like to see how you'd portray that, like in the challenge thread or like your own thread?

What does that look like? You have a unique perspective.


What any of you think is of little importance to me. You that have responded can't seem to tell what was my storyline and what was the joke. You're in luck I'll not waste my time on the likes of you here, have a nice life here in your little land of escapism. You obviously need this place for more than I do, a little psychological examination might help you also.

This is just false. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have posted, nor fought for your views. You do care what we think and only the thin veneer of not caring is present. This isn't a bad thing, but rather than throw up defenses and say cruel things, you might try reaching out to one or two of us, you'd be amazed at how amazing most of the people here are.

Just saying it's a possibility being everyone is a little insane obviously i'm no exception from such myself.

And there we see through the veneer. Just chill, okay? Not everything is about you. Not everything is bad news, and most of us were just playing with you.

I've been a focal point for many big dramatic moments here and there are many who'd say I'm a bad guy. But shrugs I like being here, I like my friends and those I care deeply about. Most people are pretty rad, here.

So relax. Stay. Have a drink. And show us your perspective.
 
I enjoy a lot of peoples signatures here...thinking I may try and get a new one, but what do I want, and what should it say?

Ponders the possibilities.
 
Well, according to him, he IS a person with a disability. But I'm just being 'assumptive' by believing what he says so I'm really not very smart so ignore me

I have to take this in bits and pieces, because well, I am.



Dude that sucks. Like hardcore sucks. You know.. maybe there are those of us who aren't familiar with MD and would like to see how you'd portray that, like in the challenge thread or like your own thread?

What does that look like? You have a unique perspective.




This is just false. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have posted, nor fought for your views. You do care what we think and only the thin veneer of not caring is present. This isn't a bad thing, but rather than throw up defenses and say cruel things, you might try reaching out to one or two of us, you'd be amazed at how amazing most of the people here are.



And there we see through the veneer. Just chill, okay? Not everything is about you. Not everything is bad news, and most of us were just playing with you.

I've been a focal point for many big dramatic moments here and there are many who'd say I'm a bad guy. But shrugs I like being here, I like my friends and those I care deeply about. Most people are pretty rad, here.

So relax. Stay. Have a drink. And show us your perspective.

Oh ok...I guess I do get a bit defensive without cause, I apologize if anyone is willing to accept it. No excuse for being so obnoxious and overbearing, no excuse for me saying the things I have. In hindsight I should have just taken the advice I was given as it was meant.
 
Oh ok...I guess I do get a bit defensive without cause, I apologize if anyone is willing to accept it. No excuse for being so obnoxious and overbearing, no excuse for me saying the things I have. In hindsight I should have just taken the advice I was given as it was meant.

I'm trying to be more tolerant. Still, I can't take that to a dishonest place. The reality of this situation is that you were being a jerk and you got called for it. Then you cried off and pretended it was just a joke.

Now, you're using your disability as a smokescreen to call off the wolves.

I'm not a particularly easy man to like. But, if you're willing to extend me the benefit of the doubt and understand this post isn't meant to belittle you, then I'll be willing to do the same for you. You don't have to man up and say you were just in over your head. You don't have to man up and say you were embarrassed and trying to save face.

It's obvious.

But what you do have to do, in this moment, is decide for yourself what you're trying to do here and stick to that. Your disability is horrific. I can't imagine the challenges that it presents to you. But, I think, Alice (who is absolutely lovely) gave you the most honest and carefully phrased critique as to how to improve your approach when it came to your concept.

You replied by becoming defensive.

You should have just listened to what she was saying.

Here's another chance. Don't get defensive. Listen to what I'm saying. Don't be afraid to come off as a jerk here. Speak with conviction, even if you're wrong, because standing up for yourself and having a backbone is an inherently positive thing.

In the future, though, don't be afraid to say you were an idiot and you were wrong. People make mistakes. Handling them honestly and with courage can be a bit terrifying (because, for some reason, everyone wants to be "liked" so damned badly on here) but it'll generally pay off.

You don't seem the type with a bad heart. So, apology accepted.
 
I can honestly agree with almost all of that, but I have not used my disability to call off anyone. I just wanted it to be clear I am disabled, I deserved the wolves snapping at my ass disabled or not. Thanks for accepting the apology.
 
Yeah, it's time to let this go, but just wanted to say: no worries, Wolfias. If you'll forgive me for being a bit crabby, we'll call it even, okay? :rose:

Why...WHY can't the puppy let me sleep past dawn?...Mmmm, Dawn.

He's preparing you for parenthood! :D



LT: Please forgive me, writing partners. I've been having a rough couple of days, but will be getting posts up as soon as I can. :kiss:
 
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