Time to Stop Lurking

BabyBlue2005 said:
The UK has a couple of nudist beaches but most public beaches are not topless. It is strange how topless woman are considered such a threat to society. Rather like a man's erect penis ... flaccid is fine but erect is a no-no. You can show all types of violence on screen but a film with an erect penis is straight to the porn section ... very funny.

I guess the UK really is like the USA when it comes to sexual things.

Okay, I'm not saying a porn movie should be shown at around 3:00 in the afternoon when most children watch TV, but peoiple don't have over react to seeing a boob or an erected penis.

I'm also not saying there shouldn't be some restriction to protect children from molestation and forced prosituation, but society doesn't have to be so uptight either.

They don't make that big of a deal out of nudity here in Holland and showing violence isn't one of their main goals. There are alot of happy things that are shown on the news.

Holland does have its' bad qualities though.
 
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BabyBlue2005 said:
The UK has a couple of nudist beaches but most public beaches are not topless. It is strange how topless woman are considered such a threat to society. Rather like a man's erect penis ... flaccid is fine but erect is a no-no. You can show all types of violence on screen but a film with an erect penis is straight to the porn section ... very funny.

It's called 5000 years of religious repression. After it led to two world wars and the Holocaust, Europe had enough of it, and is just coming out of it; in many ways, the US hasn't yet. Blood and guts is good, war is glorious, bare breasts and hard cocks are bad, naked pussies are very, VERY bad!

KKE and I went to a nude beach in Hawaii, we thought it would be fun to be around others comfortable about being nude around each other. We hoped it would't be just one or two couples, but enough to feel comfortable in the anonimity of EVERYONE being naked.

We were the only ones there, which also was fine with us, as that let us not only be nude, but also very privately reenact the surf lovemaking scene made famous in From Here to Eternity. That was fun!

KKE gets SUCH a kick out of this current commercial where they show a woman in a "dress" made of soap bibbles and then showering ot off but being careful to show ONLY her shoulders. He once spent a couple of months working in Germany,, and he laughs that the same types of commercials showed breasts and (oh, no! it's the end of civilization!) even nipples and ass cheeks. He says it was just no big deal over there, the way less than 10 seconds of Janet Jackson's breast was here. He told me that late-night NETWORK (not cable) TV even shows porn movies (breasts, ass, bush, but no cock or pussy--that's for cable--of course, American cable doesn't show that much!) I dont think I've EVER seen a cock on TV, even on the raciest cable channels!
 
Crazy_Jezabel said:
Thank you for the link.

He's got a nice butt. ;)


Purrrr! Mmmmmm-hmmmmmmm! He sure DOES! *SIGH!*

But it's OK, my husband's butt is also VERY nice, and I get to touch it and pinch it and kiss it and....mmmmmmmm! well anyway, not just daydream about it!
 
Crazy_Jezabel said:
I guess the USA really is like the USA when it comes to sexual things.

Okay, I'm not saying a porn movie should be shown at around 3:00 in the afternoon when most children watch TV, but peoiple don't have over react to seeing a boob or an erected penis.

I'm also not saying there shouldn't be some restriction to protect children from molestation and forced prosituation, but society doesn't have to be so uptight either.

They don't make that big of a deal out of nudity here in Holland and showing violence isn't one of their main goals. There are alot of happy things that are shown on the news.

Holland does have its' bad qualities though.

Most molesters and rapists turn out to be VERY sexually repressed. If we were more open and honest about our sexuality I think there'd be a lot LESS of this, not MORE. Look at how many priests molest school boys! Every molestation puts on stricter anti-porn klaws and teh rate keeps climbing, maybe MORE rather than less freedom might be a saner response?

If sex was seen as a nomal and healthy part of being human, it WOULD be no big deal and the abuses, while not elimiated, I suspect would be a whole lot rarer. It would put prorn tapes and men's magazines out of business though...no need to sneak a dirty peek OR go to the extreme of porn at 3 in the afternoon, when sex is just another aspect of life like eating or breathing (you woud then no more think of creating a 2-hour film of nothing but sex, than you would a 2-hour film of just peple breathing). In fact, eating is a great example: ever since "thin is in" look at the explosion in eating disorders, the bigger deal we make about it, the worse it seems to get.

Hmm, that might not work, either. If sex became no big deal, what would make it special and magical when you DO find your one true love?

I guess like everything else in life, there's no easy answer to a complex problem.
 
What a stupid ass rant you posted

bangmywalls said:
If sex was seen as a nomal and healthy part of being human, it WOULD be no big deal and the abuses, while not elimiated, I suspect would be a whole lot rarer. It would put prorn tapes and men's magazines out of business though...no need to sneak a dirty peek OR go to the extreme of porn at 3 in the afternoon, when sex is just another aspect of life like eating or breathing (you woud then no more think of creating a 2-hour film of nothing but sex, than you would a 2-hour film of just peple breathing). In fact, eating is a great example: ever since "thin is in" look at the explosion in eating disorders, the bigger deal we make about it, the worse it seems to get.

Hmm, that might not work, either. If sex became no big deal, what would make it special and magical when you DO find your one true love?

I guess like everything else in life, there's no easy answer to a complex problem.
I love how you stupid ass liberals think that someone is sexually repressed because they refuse to stick their dicks in anything with a hole.
 
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Two hours til I go home and snuggke in KKE's ams to go to sleep. Long day...tired.
 
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bangmywalls said:
Hmm, that might not work, either. If sex became no big deal, what would make it special and magical when you DO find your one true love?
I guess like everything else in life, there's no easy answer to a complex problem.

its true. when you tell people NO they freak out....
if people didn't fear what comes natural to them it wouldn't be sucha big deal.
sex is a natural habit... shouldn't be anything wrong with people sharing it.
i'm not condoning molester or rapists.

but if you're not forbidden from the fruit youaren't tempted to break the barrier.

(Bang i think we think alike? how scarey is that)
 
dawn_of_night said:
:cathappy:

its true. when you tell people NO they freak out....
if people didn't fear what comes natural to them it wouldn't be sucha big deal.
sex is a natural habit... shouldn't be anything wrong with people sharing it.
i'm not condoning molester or rapists.

but if you're not forbidden from the fruit youaren't tempted to break the barrier.

(Bang i think we think alike? how scarey is that)

Not scary at all, dear. I find that friendshps develop between people of similar interests (sex!) and philosophies (sex!)

(Hmm.... are you old enough to remember that subliminal (sex!) message (sex!) gag from Satuday Night Live? (sex!)
 
bangmywalls said:
Not scary at all, dear. I find that friendshps develop between people of similar interests (sex!) and philosophies (sex!)

(Hmm.... are you old enough to remember that subliminal (sex!) message (sex!) gag from Satuday Night Live? (sex!)


uhm i dont' do snl... but i heard OLD NAVY does the same thing!!!
i still made me laugh either way :D
thanks!
 
dawn_of_night said:
uhm i dont' do snl... but i heard OLD NAVY does the same thing!!!
i still made me laugh either way :D
thanks!

You're very welcome. Laughter always brigthens a day, doesn't it?

Finally got through all my PMs (85 of them today!) and scuccessfully fended off two real CREEPS! (what part of NO can't these jerks understand?)

Oh and looks like you and clutch are well on your way toward chapped lips with all that cyber-kissing! Way to GO, girl! :)

One last thing...forgot to mention I really like your avatar, you have the prettiest green eyes (or eye?)

:rose: BMW
 
bangmywalls said:
You're very welcome. Laughter always brigthens a day, doesn't it?

Finally got through all my PMs (85 of them today!) and scuccessfully fended off two real CREEPS! (what part of NO can't these jerks understand?)

Oh and looks like you and clutch are well on your way toward chapped lips with all that cyber-kissing! Way to GO, girl! :)

:rose: BMW
Hi Bang I just wanted to say sorry again I won't bother you again, Sorry
 
jake453 said:
Hi Bang I just wanted to say sorry again I won't bother you again, Sorry

Ok, no harm done, and anyway, you aren't one of the 2 creeps I was talking about. You were only a LITTLE bit creepy! ;) LOL
 
bangmywalls said:
Ok, no harm done, and anyway, you aren't one of the 2 creeps I was talking about. You were only a LITTLE bit creepy! ;) LOL
Oh good to hear!!!! well I'll still not bother you, unless you want me too, HA HA HA HA!!!
 
It's only about 7 PM here but I'm tired from a very long day. Just want to snuggle into my KKE's arms and go to sleep.

I might not get online tomorrow, or at least not until quite late. Another long busy day.

Well, MAYBE I can get on very early morning for a VERY short time, if I feel up to it, but then not till late afternoon/evening.

I've had fun with all my many new friends here and look forward to keeping it up.

Well, I feel my eyes dropping and I need the comfort of my husband's arms around me, so.....good night now. Sweet dreams, all.

:kiss: from BMW
 
bangmywalls said:
Most molesters and rapists turn out to be VERY sexually repressed. If we were more open and honest about our sexuality I think there'd be a lot LESS of this, not MORE. Look at how many priests molest school boys! Every molestation puts on stricter anti-porn klaws and teh rate keeps climbing, maybe MORE rather than less freedom might be a saner response?

If sex was seen as a nomal and healthy part of being human, it WOULD be no big deal and the abuses, while not elimiated, I suspect would be a whole lot rarer. It would put prorn tapes and men's magazines out of business though...no need to sneak a dirty peek OR go to the extreme of porn at 3 in the afternoon, when sex is just another aspect of life like eating or breathing (you woud then no more think of creating a 2-hour film of nothing but sex, than you would a 2-hour film of just peple breathing). In fact, eating is a great example: ever since "thin is in" look at the explosion in eating disorders, the bigger deal we make about it, the worse it seems to get.

Hmm, that might not work, either. If sex became no big deal, what would make it special and magical when you DO find your one true love?

I guess like everything else in life, there's no easy answer to a complex problem.

I completely agree with you on the first thing you wrote. Holland is a lot more open when it comes to sex and I hear Germany is too. There are a lot less sex crimes here in Holland than there is in the USA. I understand the USA is a bigger country, but there percentage wise there are a lot less sex crimes. And most of the time the sex offenders are Musliums where in their culture sex is also a big no no.

Holland has the red light district and doesn't make a big deal out of sex, but there are still porn shops and men's magazines. It's just not made a big deal out of when someone goes to buy something sexual or a sexual book/magazine.

And I just read I typed in "I guess the USA really is like the USA" rather than "I guess the UK really is like the USA".
 
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A few weeks ago, after my wearing my leopard-print G-string for her led to another wonderful round of fun love-play, my wife photographed my nearly-bare butt as I slept, and I posted it on my thread:

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=740551

Well, last night, "bangmywalls" came home exhausted after an extra-long shift at work (Mondays and Wednesdays are her long days). She told me she just wanted to curl up in my arms and go to sleep. As I'm sure you can imagine, I didn't mind at all, spooning up against her! (Mmmmm! Her round, naked ass feels SO good pressed up against my cock!)

Early this morning, I noticed my wife kind of curled up in a fetal position, and I could see that luxurious thick bush I love so much, right through those big round luscious ass cheeks of hers. So I couldn't resist taking a picture.

I told "bangmywalls" since everyone here had already since MY bare butt while I was sleeping, it was only fair we show HER bare butt in her sleep, too. She agreed, and she said it will be fun to read what people think of this photo of her.

When my wife sleeps, she snores. Not the snorting snore of a man. Really it's just kind of air escaping her mouth as she sleeps, makes a sound like "pooooooooooh!" Like everything else about her, her soft, gentle snore is sweet and kind of charming and very feminine and oh hell, I might as well admit it, I find her soft little "poooooooooh!"while she sleeps to be VERY sexy.

She had to leave for work early this morning, and I won't be able to be online much longer myself, as I have TWO networking events today (to drum-uo clients for my new writing and publishing business), plus I have a potential client I arranged to meet with this afternoon.

Hope you all like this photo.
 
Crazy_Jezabel said:
I completely agree with you on the first thing you wrote. Holland is a lot more open when it comes to sex and I hear Germany is too. There are a lot less sex crimes here in Holland than there is in the USA. I understand the USA is a bigger country, but there percentage wise there are a lot less sex crimes. And most of the time the sex offenders are Musliums where in their culture sex is also a big no no.

Holland has the red light district and doesn't make a big deal out of sex, but there are still porn shops and men's magazines. It's just not made a big deal out of when someone goes to buy something sexual or a sexual book/magazine.

And I just read I typed in "I guess the USA really is like the USA" rather than "I guess the UK really is like the USA".

About 15 years ago (that is, about 5 years before I met and married my "M" so yes I was still a bachelor), I spent a couple of months working in Germany. I was in line waiting to order dinner at a local McDonald's (the only place to eat near my hotel) when I heard the man in front of me drawl to the cashier "Thank you, ma'am." I instantly realized that drawl could only be from Texas, and we got talking, it was nice to run into another American. Turns out he works for the US Department of Defense and was in Germany to install some new equipment at the local American army base that's been there and active since the end of WW II.

He'd only been in Germany two days, and I'd already been there a couple of weeks. So he asked me if I could show him some of the local historical sites I'd foud in walking aorund, and I agreed. So we walked and I showed him the interesting places I'd found, like Charlemagne's castle built 1200 years ago.

He told me although he'd been in Germany only 2 days, he'd already sought out and found one site of particular interest to him. He then took me over there: the red light district! I was surprised, several buildings with big plate glass windows, the women standing like manequins in the windows in their lingerie, all very out in the open and not at all hidden. I was also surprised to find that the women were all shapes and sizes and ages, not the US obsession that every woman must look like she just stepped out of the centerfold of Playboy. A madam stands out front of each building. The Texan knew just which madam to go to, and he pointed to the woman who interested him (I sensed he'd already been with her before), he handed the madam some money, and he went insde.

Ahhh, our US Defense Department in action: two days in another country and he already knew which madam to go to and which girl to choose. No wonder Americans are so beloved in every country woldwide! LOL

I had NO interest in having a hooker for the night, and to tell you the truth, the place scared the HELL out of me, so I never went inside, I just left the defense worker to his fun, and I high-tailed it back to my hotel room! Turned on the TV to watch Wheel of Fortune, but since the puzzles were all in German, there was no way I could solve them, even WITH my four years of high school German classes. So I settled in for the free (not pay cable) soft-porn channel. I understood enough German to follow the basics of what was going on. This man was undressing a woman and she kept standing there crying "hilfe!" (Help!) to another man, like she was in distres and needed rescue. "Hilfe!". Finally she said something which I think meant "Help! Don't just stand there, HELP him!" and the second man then helped the first to undress her, as they both kissed her all over, and they all tumbled into bed together. They showed EVERYTHING, even her bush, although no cock or pussy.

I stopped trying to translate in my head after that. I don't think her happy smiles and moans as both men pleasured her needed much translating, anyway. Can you imagine such a movie on American network TV, or even on pay cable?

I thought about how the Texan was exposing hmself to who knows WHAT diseases for his fun, while I was having fun safely and more privately.

One of my German coworkers told me the next day that the street I'd been on has been a red-light district for over 1,000 years! In the middle ages, the Catholic church, usually so overbearing about sex, apparently had realized they couldn't stop the already-established trade on that street, and had looked the other way about it with a wink. Between that and the soft-porn on NETWORK (not pay-cable) TV, I realized European sexual attitudes have become much more liberal than in the US. My coworker also told me my fears about the Texan catching venereal diseases from the women was unfounded, These women are government licensed and regulated, and all must have periodic health inspections and use safe sex practices. So I guess the Texan was OK, but it still held no interest for me, I've always felt that sex needs to have true emotions toward the other person, not just the physical arousal, or else what's the point?
 
I'm just stepping in for a moment from my very busy day today, to ask you all nicely, if you must squabble among yourselves, could you NOT hijack my thread to do it? Please start your OWN thread for this nonsense!

Thank you.

:heart: BMW
 
bangmywalls said:
I'm just stepping in for a moment from my very busy day today, to ask you all nicely, if you must squabble among yourselves, could you NOT hijack my thread to do it? Please start your OWN thread for this nonsense!

Thank you.

:heart: BMW

Sorry, M'lady. I love your writing and the give and take you have with kk
:rose:
fred
 
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