Unwanted Contact

Jeanne-D-Artois has had some despite her profile identifying 'her' as me.

I think it is because of her AV. Those who send sexy messages don't seem to do any research about the person they are messaging.
 
Not specifying sex helps a lot. I've not even had any impolite contacts on Fetlife, which is presumably down to my lack of portraits and being apparently 97, sex unknown, living in Antarctica. I'm not sure I've ever been sent a dick pic in my life, except when female friends have sent ones to laugh at. Queer male friends claim they aren't really into dick pics of strangers either - they'd like to see the shape of an arse, thighs and torso at the least, if the guy doesn't want to show his face.

I changed my profile here to be basically blank - partly to deter complaints that a woman shouldn't be writing gay sex. I say what I see, is all I'll say about that. Haven't had too many annoying contacts - one the other day going 'do you like submissive men' so I replied 'If they're interesting. Read XXX and tell me what you think.' Didn't expect to hear back.
He comes back with 'my cock is in a cage. I resisted saying 'my cock is in a drawer, so what?' and suggested he might enjoy the first two pages of the aforementioned story - though I'd mentally written him off as a twat.

He replies to say 'i don't like reading' - so what the fuck are you doing on a text-based forum, then? Didn't bother replying.

There's definitely a large contingent of subby men who are really pushy about it and clearly get off on making others witnesses to their fantasies, which really isn't submissive at all. Odd. Bound to be a PhD thesis in that.

I think there are some folks with limited mental capacity who SAY, "I'm submissive" but what they MEAN is, "I'm lazy and want to lie here while you do all the work."
 
I got a dick pic as a Polaroid on my car windshield once. Nothing since has quite beat that for the shear amount of dedication to ensuring that I saw the anonymous dick in question. My boyfriend at the time, outside whose apartment complex I was parked, was more irritated by it than I was, lol.
 
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