Comshaw
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Interesting...not the premise of the thread but the reactions to the posts in the thread.
As far as the premise, I've never read any of Samuel's work, so I really can't express an opinion on it. As far as learning something from him, I've expressed an opinion on that before. My take on it, I can learn something from almost everyone I come into contact with. It may be just a verification of a thing I already do or believe, but even a small nugget like that is worth a listen.
Do I think LC's take on it, that we should learn to be less invested in what other's think of our work, an "I don't give a flying fuck what you think" attitude? Maybe. For me what Samuel can teach me is more along the lines of learning to be less sensitive to trolls, less vested in the judgement of others via scores and comments. That does not mean I'm going to dismiss all my scores and thumb my nose at comments. I'll be honest, I like a nice high score or a warm fuzzy comment. And yes I'd be sad or upset if one takes a nose dive because some asshole decided to 1 bomb a story.
Through my life I've always projected an outward persona of a stoic tough guy, that "I don't give a fuck what you think" look, while inwardly a word could cut me deeply. So working on being less obsessed with scores and such, being a bit more on the "so what" side helps me to desensitize myself a little. So when a cowardly anon decides to do something like a 1 just because, I have a choice. If I have something I can do about it I will. If not, if there is nothing I can do, with a snarled, "Fucking asshole coward!" I'll walk away from it. For me that's a difficult thing that took a lot of practice to do. But it is much better for my well-being than letting it eat at me.
As to the reactions in this thread, Woofta! After a while, after reading numerous posts by those who post, I begin to understand the personalities behind the words, begin to differentiate between what was written and intent. As I said, interesting and educational.
Comshaw
As far as the premise, I've never read any of Samuel's work, so I really can't express an opinion on it. As far as learning something from him, I've expressed an opinion on that before. My take on it, I can learn something from almost everyone I come into contact with. It may be just a verification of a thing I already do or believe, but even a small nugget like that is worth a listen.
Do I think LC's take on it, that we should learn to be less invested in what other's think of our work, an "I don't give a flying fuck what you think" attitude? Maybe. For me what Samuel can teach me is more along the lines of learning to be less sensitive to trolls, less vested in the judgement of others via scores and comments. That does not mean I'm going to dismiss all my scores and thumb my nose at comments. I'll be honest, I like a nice high score or a warm fuzzy comment. And yes I'd be sad or upset if one takes a nose dive because some asshole decided to 1 bomb a story.
Through my life I've always projected an outward persona of a stoic tough guy, that "I don't give a fuck what you think" look, while inwardly a word could cut me deeply. So working on being less obsessed with scores and such, being a bit more on the "so what" side helps me to desensitize myself a little. So when a cowardly anon decides to do something like a 1 just because, I have a choice. If I have something I can do about it I will. If not, if there is nothing I can do, with a snarled, "Fucking asshole coward!" I'll walk away from it. For me that's a difficult thing that took a lot of practice to do. But it is much better for my well-being than letting it eat at me.
As to the reactions in this thread, Woofta! After a while, after reading numerous posts by those who post, I begin to understand the personalities behind the words, begin to differentiate between what was written and intent. As I said, interesting and educational.
Comshaw