What’s the strangest request you’ve had in the bedroom?

Mon épouse m'a demandé de jouir sur son visage et elle est ensuite allée faire des courses sans se nettoyer.
 
To put it in please......

I kid you not, I had to ask him to repeat what he said.
 
Had a fling with a co-worker about 20 years ago, she was African American, and this sort of cropped up when we were traveling together (as those things do).

Second night of work trip (and second night we were together), we polished off way too much wine, and once back in the bedroom, she was insistent (very vocal) about exploring race-play, which to me, a caucasian guy was completely out of left field. That said, I *did* have a lot of alcohol in my system that evening....
 
Can you pee while you blow me off? It's obvious he's not the one who washes the sheets...
If you're willing to satisfy this request and I don't want to take this blowjob into the bathroom, you can rest assured that I'll take care of the bedding. It's the gentlemanly thing to do
 
I totally get that you’re coming from a different generational lens, and you’re older than me, but I don’t agree that things like choking are automatically linked to misogyny or some incel-fueled, anti-feminist culture. I’m a 1999 baby, (I’m 26) and despite growing up with the internet, I didn’t start watching porn to get off until my early 20s. And I wasn’t exposed to BDSM dynamics until then either, it wasn’t some formative influence… 🤣

Also it’s a stretch to say choking is ‘mainstream’. Maybe in my circle of friends it is, since we’re all kinky little fuckers but I know that there are portably more people who don’t enjoy it.

When I started exploring things like choking, it was with someone I trusted, in a safe, communicative space. It wasn’t about violence or power over someone. it was about mutual intensity, trust, and connection.

Framing kinks like choking as inherently misogynistic kind of erases the agency of the women who actively enjoy and ask for it. That doesn’t sound very feminist to me.

It’s fine if it’s not your thing, of course, but kink isn’t new, and it isn’t automatically toxic just because more people are open about it now.

I’m so happy to be a part of a generation that isn’t surrounded in shame. I pay for porn made by women and Id like to say I only participate in online porn that is ethical, consensual, and creator-owned. I think it’s powerful that we can explore our sexuality without guilt and shame. 🤍

just to add your comment regarding the idea that “porn hadnt yet morphed into the misogynistic incel fueled anti-feminist laced fuck fest it is today”

To say porn today is just a misogynistic, incel-fueled, anti-feminist mess kind of ignores the massive rise in ethical, female-led, queer-inclusive, and kink-positive porn that exists now and is often created by women for women.

(Like the porn I mentioned earlier)

Sites like Bellesa, Afterglow and Erika Lust, didn’t even exist when older porn was still dominated by male producers and tired, unrealistic tropes.
If anything, I think this generation is more thoughtful about consent and boundaries than ever before. We’re not just mimicking what we see, we’re choosing what works for us.

The internet also didn’t kill feminist porn it actually gave it the room to thrive. Gave women ( like me ) who do content creation the chance to take back a part of us that was taken away by misogynistic values in your decades where being a sex worker was frowned upon. And while there’s definitely extreme, problematic content out there (always has been), it’s not the whole story.
I feel like it is mainstream. And I do think this generation is just more extreme and less sensitive to hardcore stuff. Most women I speak to (online mostly) want more bdsm. Spitting in their mouthh, tying up, etc... And I associate that with treating someone bad and being angry. And I'm not angry or want to hurt any woman I'm with. It's a sexy thought and I get why submissive women like it but it it doesn't turn me on like of this generation. Obviously just my opinion. Maybe I'm just a lil more submissive than I thought😉
 
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