What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

They may talk about it voluntarily or they are not embarrassed to talk about it if asked. I know a lot hold back either they wish to let that past go or they don't want to make you jealous perhaps or you may think they are some slut. Truth is a lot of men may appear not interested but deep down harbour this secret fantasy of watching, hearing every details of their partners past or wishing they would be seduced by someone else or be the seducer. Its better than porn but its not for everybody to make it s reality. Definitely for me watching a girlfriend being the seducer is pretty erotic.

Would love to hear more about how you get to watch your girlfriend being the seducer....thats something thats a big thing for me!!!
 
Would love to hear more about how you get to watch your girlfriend being the seducer....thats something thats a big thing for me!!!
I started with a fantasy of watching my beautiful girlfriend make out with another man but only if I was present to watch.

Months of teasing followed, accumulated in watching her give hand action to a complete stranger in the backseat of my car. The erotic intensity I honestly couldn't describe.
 
At my age 70 the thought of her with another man turns me on to no end!! Why??? WTF knows just weird I guess lol

We been with others before and when I need a little boost (age) she talks about these past adventures of ours and sure as shit my dick ends up hard by the end of her talking about it
 
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At my age 70 the thought of her with another man turns me on to no end!! Why??? WTF knows just weird I guess lol

We been with others before and when I need a little boost (age) she talks about these past adventures of ours and sure as shit my dick ends up hard by the end of her talking about it
I don't know either but likewise huge turn on.

Just seeing her wrap her hand over another man's cock sends me to heaven ;)
 
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The thrill lies in watching her make out with another man, the whole visual aspects and the touching, kissing and the sounds of their excitement. His excitement being with another man's girl/wife. Her being overwhelmed touching another man, really turns me on, particularly her facial expressions and the sounds she makes.
 
The thrill lies in watching her make out with another man, the whole visual aspects and the touching, kissing and the sounds of their excitement. His excitement being with another man's girl/wife. Her being overwhelmed touching another man, really turns me on, particularly her facial expressions and the sounds she makes.
I think for me the the ultimate is when she takes his pants down and looks at his cock the for the first time
 
Seeing the look on her face during all the firsts . The first time she sees his cock , the first time she wraps her fingers and hand around it .The first time she wraps her lips around it and tastes it noticing the differences from yours . When she feels the difference in how he cums in her mouth . Did it surprise her , did he erupt like a rocket or did he dribble his load into her mouth . Did she like his taste or was it bitter to her delicate taste buds .

And finally when he slides it into her dripping wet sex . Watching her eyes roll back as she bites her lip form the way he stretches her wide . And the ultimate look on her face when she starts to cum on his thick cock as her own cream adds to his personal lube .

It's all the looks she displays .
 
I think for me the the ultimate is when she takes his pants down and looks at his cock the for the first time
Yes...in my real life scenario I observed her make out with him in the back seat. The intense breathless thrill of watching her her right hand massage his cock through his pant before revealing how hard and wet he became.
 
That was one of my favorite things. Seeing and hearing her and comparing what she's like with me when we have sex. The more excited and animated she was the more exciting it was for me, her to, I'm sure. Different body type different ways of fucking all new. Didn't bother me one bit that he fucked her better than me I got off on it
 
I have masochistic tendencies, so the humiliation of another man claiming my woman definitely plays a role. I find the difference in her behavior to be a turn on. She has orgasms with her lover easier than she does with me. I like the thought of another man kissing her, sucking her tits, going down on her. I picture her sucking his cock, spreading her legs for him and becoming one with him. She wants his semen one way or the other. That is important to her. Whether it is a cum shot or a cream pie, she needs his essence. And then she comes back to me.
 
That was one of my favorite things. Seeing and hearing her and comparing what she's like with me when we have sex. The more excited and animated she was the more exciting it was for me, her to, I'm sure. Different body type different ways of fucking all new. Didn't bother me one bit that he fucked her better than me I got off on it
Most definitely. I got off knowing what she was really like. Then seeing her hold another man's cock and knowing how she will stroke it.

Yes different person, different reactions but same technique like how she is with me is a real turn on for me, seeing him experience the same.
 
I have masochistic tendencies, so the humiliation of another man claiming my woman definitely plays a role. I find the difference in her behavior to be a turn on. She has orgasms with her lover easier than she does with me. I like the thought of another man kissing her, sucking her tits, going down on her. I picture her sucking his cock, spreading her legs for him and becoming one with him. She wants his semen one way or the other. That is important to her. Whether it is a cum shot or a cream pie, she needs his essence. And then she comes back to me.
I believe my 2nd girlfriend was very much "hotter" with him. Maybe he was simply a different man. I could tell be how excited she became, maybe me watching really excited her cause I certainly was.

I like the thoughts of another man doing different things to her but honestly part of arousing thing was seeing her enthusiasm when she was with him.
 
while mainaining eye contact woth me
In this real scenario, having your girl touch another man's cock, gripping it and stroking it like she is with my cock, was erotic enough but watching her face, seeing her blush beautifully and making eye contact with me everyso often, like she was teasing you or asking for my approval was so so thrilling.
 
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