What Is Fear To You?

[sassykat]

Fear is not being able to leave the past, not moving on with life, not ever truly being yourself. You make all the right moves, but your head keeps all the dark stuff, never letting go.

 

[69forever]

Brings feelings of not being good enough, makes you doubt your own abilities and can stop you from reaching out again.

For Sassy...that pretty much sums it up doesn't it?

But then I'd bet you've heard it before.

My biggest fear is that loved ones bearing the scars of being
deeply hurt and abused, will never allow themselves to love again.

Prayers and wishes for peace to all who are in pain.

We all have demons that come to prey in times of pain,
for the human heart is a fragile thing. Having been hurt, we
enclose it in layers upon layers of protection. Then that very
protection turns on us, smothering out the light.

It is the willingness to live whole again that allows us to reach
out, however tentatively, for a loving hand to help in unwrapping
our souls, so that the light shines again.

I pray that everyone in need finds that loving hand.

 

[Henry]

Bump back up for a good friend...

 

[daiseelady]

I fear being lonely.

Not alone... I love being alone... but it is those nights when the wind is howling... and you have a bit of a chill... and you want nothing more than to feel someone next to you... the loneliness creeps in and makes you question the decision to be alone...

 

[Henry]

I fear being lonely.

Not alone... I love being alone... but it is those nights when the wind is howling... and you have a bit of a chill... and you want nothing more than to feel someone next to you... the loneliness creeps in and makes you question the decision to be alone...

{{{{Daiseelady}}}}

lol it may seem strange but on those nights when you are feeling lonely think of angels from above wrapping their wings around you to comfort and protect you in your time of need.


Hope that made some sense.

 

[daiseelady]

{{{{Daiseelady}}}}

lol it may seem strange but on those nights when you are feeling lonely think of angels from above wrapping their wings around you to comfort and protect you in your time of need.


Hope that made some sense.

It made perfect sense...

And thank you for trying to comfort me... without knowing a thing about me... that was very sweet of you.

xo

 

[Henry]

It made perfect sense...

And thank you for trying to comfort me... without knowing a thing about me... that was very sweet of you.

xo

~~smiles~~ my pleasure... I am always happy to help people out if i can in anyway.




~Henry~

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

I fear being lonely.

Not alone... I love being alone... but it is those nights when the wind is howling... and you have a bit of a chill... and you want nothing more than to feel someone next to you... the loneliness creeps in and makes you question the decision to be alone...

{{{Daisee}}} my friend I love you sweetie, and today as a matter of fact I was just talking about you to our mutual friend, we agreeded that you have never seemed happier to either of us, and he of course tells me how beautiful you are..
being alone goes though stages hun, and lonliness is a huge thing to over come, I promise you it will pass, and you will be happy again once you find your nitch in all this.. Until then, know Iam always there for you, might have to come find me, but when it comes to those I care about.. I will be there hun, Hugs and many kisses sweetie

 

[69forever]

fear.....

to me is getting that phone call or finding out that a dear one has passed, without the opportunity to make amends if harm has been done. Or a dear freind who I've been meaning to get in touch with, but never did. Peace to all.

 

[lrisheyes]

Moving into my apartment next week........not seeing my kids when I awaken..................

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Re: fear.....

to me is getting that phone call or finding out that a dear one has passed, without the opportunity to make amends if harm has been done. Or a dear freind who I've been meaning to get in touch with, but never did. Peace to all.

{{{{69Forever}}}}}} hey darlin read your own sig line, Love is the answer, Comunication the key
if we can only teach ourselves to make the time in this life, well we will carry less guilt into the next one

But then you know this, your only voicing a fear Goddess slipps close, wraps her arms around you, kisses you sweetly, while stroking your hair, soothing your soul

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Moving into my apartment next week........not seeing my kids when I awaken..................

{{{IE}}} hey my sweet lovely one! just a thought here, hoping to make things a bit easier, knowing you as I do, perhaps it would be a most lovely thing for you if you had them spend the night with you and help put the place in order, it will give them the feeling of closeness to you as well, I know how difficult this has all been for you, and I imagine its just the same for the children, making them a part of it will ease them into the reality.

adding something here, Mothers are never forgotten, they sometimes don't see there children enough as the busyness of life overtakes them, but they NEVER FORGET how much they love her, nor how much they need her Hugs my Sweet

 

[MindFire]

Im afraid of losing a person that means so much to me.
and he doesnt know it..

 

[69forever]

Re: Re: fear.....

{{{{69Forever}}}}}} hey darlin read your own sig line, Love is the answer, Comunication the key
if we can only teach ourselves to make the time in this life, well we will carry less guilt into the next one

But then you know this, your only voicing a fear Goddess slipps close, wraps her arms around you, kisses you sweetly, while stroking your hair, soothing your soul

{{{{{{{{{{GoS}}}}}}}}}} Thanks hon I needed that.
Thinking about my Mom and how long it's been sinse we've seen each other. Distance and money. My kids, you know the story.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Im afraid of losing a person that means so much to me.
and he doesnt know it..

{{{Mind}}} darling friend we never really loose what we hold close to our hearts ..but I know what you mean perhaps telling him how you feel is a good path to follow

I love you Girlie be happy be safe, and always be you, as its the best person I know

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Re: Re: Re: fear.....

{{{{{{{{{{GoS}}}}}}}}}} Thanks hon I needed that.
Thinking about my Mom and how long it's been sinse we've seen each other. Distance and money. My kids, you know the story.

yup I know the story Hugs you long and sweet

 

[Henry]

I fear i have hurt a special and dear friend but i really don't know how i have. What really hurts is i have tried talking to them and contacting them other means but all means are being shut off by them with no response.

I love to help people but right now i feel that i wish i wasn't so empathic towards everyone. I feel pain from my friend but without knowing whats going on i don't know what to do or say to them.

Not sure if answers can be given, i just needed to get this out somewhere and GOS thank you for providing a thread in which to do so..

 

[Henry]

I fear i have hurt a special and dear friend but i really don't know how i have. What really hurts is i have tried talking to them and contacting them other means but all means are being shut off by them with no response.

I love to help people but right now i feel that i wish i wasn't so empathic towards everyone. I feel pain from my friend but without knowing whats going on i don't know what to do or say to them.

Not sure if answers can be given, i just needed to get this out somewhere and GOS thank you for providing a thread in which to do so..

 

[Henry]

I fear i have hurt a special and dear friend but i really don't know how i have. What really hurts is i have tried talking to them and contacting them other means but all means are being shut off by them with no response.

I love to help people but right now i feel that i wish i wasn't so empathic towards everyone. I feel pain from my friend but without knowing whats going on i don't know what to do or say to them.

Not sure if answers can be given, i just needed to get this out somewhere and GOS thank you for providing a thread in which to do so..

 

[lrisheyes]

{{{IE}}} hey my sweet lovely one! just a thought here, hoping to make things a bit easier, knowing you as I do, perhaps it would be a most lovely thing for you if you had them spend the night with you and help put the place in order, it will give them the feeling of closeness to you as well, I know how difficult this has all been for you, and I imagine its just the same for the children, making them a part of it will ease them into the reality.

adding something here, Mothers are never forgotten, they sometimes don't see there children enough as the busyness of life overtakes them, but they NEVER FORGET how much they love her, nor how much they need her Hugs my Sweet

{{{{{{{{{GoS}}}}}}}}}}}}}

thanks so much.......you really are a sweet and caring friend......I'm honored to know you

 

[Henry]

Bump back up for an awesome and helpful thread and a great friend..

 

[Icey*Fire]

I fear that I will lose someone very special to me..because of my lack of being able to trust anymore. I have been hurt so bad in the past, its hard to trust my judgment in this new relationship. And I fear that he will not understand.
LOL I dont even know if any of that made any sense...

 

[Henry]

I fear that I will lose someone very special to me..because of my lack of being able to trust anymore. I have been hurt so bad in the past, its hard to trust my judgment in this new relationship. And I fear that he will not understand.
LOL I dont even know if any of that made any sense...

{{{{{{{{{{ICEY}}}}}}}}}}.

Have you thought about talking to this someone special and telling them how you feel...Trust is not something to be taken for granted and i can understand what you are saying. It all makes sense to me as i have travelled that road a few times. I've become stronger from it. Sitting down and talking with your someone special letting them know your fears could help, if they love you they will understand and be there for you if and when you need it.

Hope this makes sense.

P.S. My shoulder or ear is always available if needed.

 

[Icey*Fire]

Thank you very much Henry...I know that you are there if I need someone to talk with..you have already been there for me in the past. And yes I am talking with this person..I know how much communication between two people means,,but the words are so hard to say sometimes...hopefully I wont screw everything up and say the wrong words...words do not come easy to me...that is why I rarely venture off the game threads. LOl but even on there I screw up at times...
Thanks again....

 

[Henry]

Thank you very much Henry...I know that you are there if I need someone to talk with..you have already been there for me in the past. And yes I am talking with this person..I know how much communication between two people means,,but the words are so hard to say sometimes...hopefully I wont screw everything up and say the wrong words...words do not come easy to me...that is why I rarely venture off the game threads. LOl but even on there I screw up at times...
Thanks again....

My pleasure Icey.....I will always be there for my friends as much as i can be. soft smiles. can understand about the words too. the right words can usually be the first ones that come to mind....words don't come easy to me either...lol i have screwed up my words more times than i can remember...i think most people have. After all we are only human.

My pleasure