DDBustyBrit
Kickboxing Goddess!
- Joined
- Sep 19, 2018
- Posts
- 5,768
The older I get the more cynical I get on this subject.... imho you can think you have found it and then real life shatters the myth again, but I’d love to be proved wrong one more time!
If you’re young and you think you have yours, don’t let anything get in the way of staying together. I made this mistake in my late teens. Both of us have spent a lifetime regretting we didn’t ignore our parents at the time and suffer the consequences and marry despite them.
It has shaped the rest of our lives! We both ended up moving to different continents, alternately making attempts for decades to reach out to each other and repeatedly failing, or giving up when we heard the others situation at that time.
It nearly blew both our lives apart in 2016 when we finally gave up fighting our desires and spent a week together hidden in England away from families. Months later it ended horribly and with both us mentally scarred and needing counseling. He is still there 3yrs later, I have been able to recover and we have talked so he could ask my forgiveness and I gave it, despite him breaking my heart. I want and need us both to be healed after 38 yrs of this mess.
So we are on speaking terms again and have said our mutual apologies. But we could have saved ourselves a lifetime of yearning and ‘what if’ moments, that have ruined other relationships, if we had just fought to stay together from the start.
Don’t let this be you!
If you’re young and you think you have yours, don’t let anything get in the way of staying together. I made this mistake in my late teens. Both of us have spent a lifetime regretting we didn’t ignore our parents at the time and suffer the consequences and marry despite them.
It has shaped the rest of our lives! We both ended up moving to different continents, alternately making attempts for decades to reach out to each other and repeatedly failing, or giving up when we heard the others situation at that time.
It nearly blew both our lives apart in 2016 when we finally gave up fighting our desires and spent a week together hidden in England away from families. Months later it ended horribly and with both us mentally scarred and needing counseling. He is still there 3yrs later, I have been able to recover and we have talked so he could ask my forgiveness and I gave it, despite him breaking my heart. I want and need us both to be healed after 38 yrs of this mess.
So we are on speaking terms again and have said our mutual apologies. But we could have saved ourselves a lifetime of yearning and ‘what if’ moments, that have ruined other relationships, if we had just fought to stay together from the start.
Don’t let this be you!
Last edited:
I'm sorry it ended for you like that
