What makes your S o u l F u l l?

[blulilacgrl]

these words are the truest spoken "keep walking"...…..and don't look back, because if he/she lets you walk then they were never your soulmate to begin with.

I don't walk away but if they do, I don't stop them. And I tend to close the door after they leave.

 

[Lily13]

these words are the truest spoken "keep walking"...…..and don't look back, because if he/she lets you walk then they were never your soulmate to begin with.

Never your anything really, right?

I completely agree.

My head always knows this. My heart often has a hard time letting go.

The biggest battle - head vs heart

 

[Lily13]

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[PattiJolene]

I completely agree.

Thank you.

My head always knows this. My heart often has a hard time letting go.

Sass l know exactly what you are saying. Been through the same emotions.

I don't walk away but if they do, I don't stop them. And I tend to close the door after they leave.

Best thing to do is close that door and lock it.

Never your anything really, right?

So true....

Thanks ladies for the replies...much appreciated.

 

[beachbaby179]

^^^this is a very tough lesson to learn. But I think I've got it now.

 

[Lily13]

I don't walk away but if they do, I don't stop them. And I tend to close the door after they leave.

Makes perfect sense

Thanks ladies for the replies...much appreciated.

You're most welcome

^^^this is a very tough lesson to learn. But I think I've got it now.

It sure is

 

[SassySheDevil]

Never your anything really, right?







The biggest battle - head vs heart

Damn my heart almost always winning.

 

[Lily13]

Damn my heart almost always winning.

Mine too

 

[Lily13]

https://pics.me.me/campfires-and-beer-the-perfect-way-to-forget-shitandsoothe-the-4941896.png

 

[Misshotndeep]

https://pics.me.me/campfires-and-beer-the-perfect-way-to-forget-shitandsoothe-the-4941896.png

* Sounds like a plan.

 

[Eisranac]

For me, the sad part is finally relenting to giving myself wholly and completely to a person who seems to want it, which is rare for me; and when that trust and vulnerability that I give is abused by the other person through no fault of my own, the hurt is beyond unbearable.

I do thankfully emerge even stronger than before once that horrible pain subsides. I am equipped with more knowledge about relationships than before and become more cautious. I may even question my usually strong self esteem, but that is only temporary.

But I also question whether the possibility of a soulmate is actually for real. I am not sure I am ever ready to give up on the concept despite the potential heartache because one never knows what life brings, and I do not want to miss out if that opportunity ever presents itself again. The thought of having a soulmate is such a wonderful feeling.

I try to keep an open mind and remind myself to never say never, but, at times, that can be really difficult to do. A strong and caring support system works wonders, and I am more than happy to offer to be a part of one for someone else if anyone needs it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

For me, the sad part is finally relenting to giving myself wholly and completely to a person who seems to want it, which is rare for me; and when that trust and vulnerability that I give is abused by the other person through no fault of my own, the hurt is beyond unbearable.

I do thankfully emerge even stronger than before once that horrible pain subsides. I am equipped with more knowledge about relationships than before and become more cautious. I may even question my usually strong self esteem, but that is only temporary.

But I also question whether the possibility of a soulmate is actually for real. I am not sure I am ever ready to give up on the concept despite the potential heartache because one never knows what life brings, and I do not want to miss out if that opportunity ever presents itself again. The thought of having a soulmate is such a wonderful feeling.

I try to keep an open mind and remind myself to never say never, but, at times, that can be really difficult to do. A strong and caring support system works wonders, and I am more than happy to offer to be a part of one for someone else if anyone needs it.

I am not sure that I really believe in them or not. But do you think it's a possibility that what you have described above, just means that you haven't found yours yet?

 

[Eisranac]

Thank you.

You are welcome.

I am not sure that I really believe in them or not. But do you think it's a possibility that what you have described above, just means that you haven't found yours yet?

I have learned that anything is possible, which is why I try to keep an open mind.

Unfortunately, that is just as true for the pain as it is for the euphoria. If you are willing to accept one, you have to be prepared for the other.

 

[ratherabsurd1]

I believe it can be true. I have felt similar but I also agree that I close the door if they leave ..

 

[Lily13]

* Sounds like a plan.

...

 

[Lily13]

For me, the sad part is finally relenting to giving myself wholly and completely to a person who seems to want it, which is rare for me; and when that trust and vulnerability that I give is abused by the other person through no fault of my own, the hurt is beyond unbearable.

I do thankfully emerge even stronger than before once that horrible pain subsides. I am equipped with more knowledge about relationships than before and become more cautious. I may even question my usually strong self esteem, but that is only temporary.

But I also question whether the possibility of a soulmate is actually for real. I am not sure I am ever ready to give up on the concept despite the potential heartache because one never knows what life brings, and I do not want to miss out if that opportunity ever presents itself again. The thought of having a soulmate is such a wonderful feeling.

I try to keep an open mind and remind myself to never say never, but, at times, that can be really difficult to do. A strong and caring support system works wonders, and I am more than happy to offer to be a part of one for someone else if anyone needs it.

Absolutely understandable

 

[Lily13]

I am not sure that I really believe in them or not. But do you think it's a possibility that what you have described above, just means that you haven't found yours yet?

Not sure either, but you just never know

 

[Lily13]

I believe it can be true. I have felt similar but I also agree that I close the door if they leave ..

Agreed

 

[Lily13]

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/71/a8/f7/71a8f70630db3371f8378b893cf791d8.jpg

 

[SassySheDevil]

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/71/a8/f7/71a8f70630db3371f8378b893cf791d8.jpg

That first part fit me. Greatly.

 

[Azuldrgon]

That first part fit me. Greatly.

*hugs sassy*

 

[Girly_girl]

That first part fit me. Greatly.

Same, sometimes I really hate that....

 

[Azuldrgon]

Same, sometimes I really hate that....

*hugs*

 

[Lily13]

That first part fit me. Greatly.

Not a bad way to be. Yup totally me, and I'm cool with it.

*hugs sassy*

Same, sometimes I really hate that....

Yes, because you don't know whether it's a curse or a blessing, right? I hear ya!

 

[Lily13]

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/d1/bd/c2/d1bdc2d08afa6eba929a06268f5c0645.jpg

Neither time nor distance…