What pissed you off today?

[Crescent_Kit]

This girl was telling me about how she had all these problems and how her life sucked, I said she shouldn't feel sorry for herself because that wouldn't help, she called me a stupid kid and blocked me.

I was so pissed off I made sure she was able to see my message back even if it meant posting in the forum rp she had made. (Not good judgment on my part)

I mean I was so upset that I was trying to help her, maybe snap some sense into her so she didn't wallow in self pity, that I completely let etiquette fly out the window.

 

[unknooown]

Glad you think so ....... but sarcasm doesn't refute the obvious no means no and if you don't take it as such it's rape

That's enough.

 

[Crescent_Kit]

That's enough.

That's what she-

 

[MisterSir]

Glad you think so ....... but sarcasm doesn't refute the obvious no means no and if you don't take it as such it's rape

Oh bloody hell, shut up. I notice you don't feel the same compunction to rag on Homburg or some other well-known person who does exactly that (I say Homburg simply because I remember him expressing similar sentiments).

 

[intothewoods]

Oh bloody hell, shut up. I notice you don't feel the same compunction to rag on Homburg or some other well-known person who does exactly that (I say Homburg simply because I remember him expressing similar sentiments).

Yeah, on a bdsm board, I'm going to assume that we're talking about consensual acts, unless there is evidence to the contrary.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

You know, if I'm not in the right mood, going over to the GB pisses me off. It's like walking into a bar fight: sometimes you're in the mood to start punching, and sometimes you just wanted to drink a beer without blood and teeth landing in it.

 

[chy_girl]

the fact that her written assignments get to the very heart of it every fucking time and i can't *not* do it, even when i know what's happening. even when i'm obstinate and petulant about it. it's like dumping a 20 pound carp onto the dock and watching it flop around.

pisses me off.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Nothing so far, but my day just started so..

 

[Bi_Kitty]

EC463...DIE!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[MisterSir]

People who walk slowly in crowded train stations. I missed a Tube connection because a woman stopped in the middle of a packed walkway to check a map - I mean, right in the middle, bags spread all over, just pissing off everybody. Couldn't have stepped out of the way first, no. And the doctor wonders why I've got high blood pressure.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Oh bloody hell, shut up. I notice you don't feel the same compunction to rag on Homburg or some other well-known person who does exactly that (I say Homburg simply because I remember him expressing similar sentiments).

I actually like Homb a lot but I would still say the same to him that non consent by a woman is rape ....... and who the shit do you think you are to tell me to shut up? My opnions are as important as yours and no arse hole like you will make me think any different about non consensual sex. How the hell would you like a cock shoved up you when you obviously didn't want it? Until the day comes that you would welcome that sort of intrusion keep your trap shut!

 

[MisterSir]

I actually like Homb a lot but I would still say the same to him that non consent by a woman is rape ....... and who the shit do you think you are to tell me to shut up? My opnions are as important as yours and no arse hole like you will make me think any different about non consensual sex. How the hell would you like a cock shoved up you when you obviously didn't want it? Until the day comes that you would welcome that sort of intrusion keep your trap shut!

Your opinions are coming from the pretext that unknooown's relationship with his girlfriend doesn't account for non-consensual sex. Like ITW, I'm assuming that's not the case because there's no evidence to the contrary and common sense says we're probably right - why would he bother coming here if the relationship were completely nonconsensual?

P.S. You can have "my opinions are as important as yours" or "keep your trap shut", not both at the same time. Pick.

 

[Cattypuss]

Never thought I'd ever be moved to say this, but.... people picking on MisterSir here and in the D/s celebrity heroes (or whatever it's called) thread.

He's young, he's outspoken in a way only the young are, he often rubs people up the wrong way, but he also has a lot of valid opinions.

 

[subish2009]

Oh bloody hell, shut up. I notice you don't feel the same compunction to rag on Homburg or some other well-known person who does exactly that (I say Homburg simply because I remember him expressing similar sentiments).

Never thought I'd ever be moved to say this, but.... people picking on MisterSir here and in the D/s celebrity heroes (or whatever it's called) thread.

He's young, he's outspoken in a way only the young are, he often rubs people up the wrong way, but he also has a lot of valid opinions.

Thank you! I just sent him a PM to this effect. I'm glad I'm not the only one getting pissed off by the recent let's-beat-up-on-the-younger-D-types vibe I'm seeing around here lately. D-types aren't exactly known for stating their opinions delicately. I like them rough around the edges.

 

[MisterSir]

I like them rough around the edges.

Unless that's a euphemism for "scruffy", I'm going to be a disappointment, but thank you ladies for the support anyway.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Never thought I'd ever be moved to say this, but.... people picking on MisterSir here and in the D/s celebrity heroes (or whatever it's called) thread.

He's young, he's outspoken in a way only the young are, he often rubs people up the wrong way, but he also has a lot of valid opinions.

I'm not attacking MasterSir for being young or whatever but the original guy who started all this said he wasn't 'A Master' he was just pissed off that he thought she was locking him out of his bedroom as a way to 'push his buttons' and make him angry. So he went in there and gave her one so she locked him out again and he hoped by the time he got back in again he hoped he was still that angry to do it again ........well if that's not rape what is? It's all very well being in a relationship that allows for all that and I got nothing about what anyone wants to do in private ....... but forcing sex on a woman because you are angry at her is RAPE

 

[MisterSir]

I'm not attacking MasterSir for being young or whatever but the original guy who started all this said he wasn't 'A Master' he was just pissed off that he thought she was locking him out of his bedroom as a way to 'push his buttons' and make him angry. So he went in there and gave her one so she locked him out again and he hoped by the time he got back in again he hoped he was still that angry to do it again ........well if that's not rape what is? It's all very well being in a relationship that allows for all that and I got nothing about what anyone wants to do in private ....... but forcing sex on a woman because you are angry at her is RAPE

You are on a board where a lot of active members either have forced sex upon their partners or have had sex forced upon them by their partners within a relationship that both they and their partners understands carries a degree of power exchange that allows that to be. Why aren't you crusading against them as well? I remember ataxia.girl once wrote about being anally raped by her Daddy until she bled, there's a good starting point for you.

If that's too much effort, go back to what I originally said and read it until it sinks in.

 

[subish2009]

I'm not attacking MasterSir for being young or whatever but the original guy who started all this said he wasn't 'A Master' he was just pissed off that he thought she was locking him out of his bedroom as a way to 'push his buttons' and make him angry. So he went in there and gave her one so she locked him out again and he hoped by the time he got back in again he hoped he was still that angry to do it again ........well if that's not rape what is? It's all very well being in a relationship that allows for all that and I got nothing about what anyone wants to do in private ....... but forcing sex on a woman because you are angry at her is RAPE

He has a whole thread where he has recently outlined the exact details of their D/s relationship. He's not her Master, but he is a D-type. And in his thread, he shares the details of a conversation he JUST had with her in which they BOTH laid out exactly what they expect and want from their relationship, and this behavior of his is well within that to which she's consented. Happily.

The scuffle here isn't that you need to agree with how he runs his relationship, but throwing around the word "rape" in an accusatory fashion with someone you don't know, in a relationship you clearly are unfamiliar with, is a bit hot-headed and Judgey McJudgey Pants. You're not the first one to jump down his throat about his relationship, but I'm sick of him being the newest pariah around here.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

sigh ........ you're not listening are you? The orignal guy said he wasn't a master or in that sort of relationship, nor did he do it for that reason. I do understand what you are saying but you won't or can't listen to me either

 

[subish2009]

sigh ........ you're not listening are you? The orignal guy said he wasn't a master or in that sort of relationship, nor did he do it for that reason. I do understand what you are saying but you won't or can't listen to me either

He said he didn't ID as her Master, not that he wasn't in a D/s relationship. Go read his humiliation as punishment thread if you actually want to know where he's coming from.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

There can be a larger consensual "container" that holds specific, non-consensual acts.

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Being awakened this morning by various things, like cats and phones, no less than five times before I actually had to be awake. bah.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Seems my piano adapter just died.

And I was so looking forward learning to play that song today.

 

[chy_girl]

So come to find out that the general consensus among all the neighbors is that I must have a secret boyfriend that I don't want anyone to meet. Why? Because I go out at night... dressed like a girl... and I've been bitchy.

Yeah, god forbid I dress in something other than jeans and a t-shirt. And bitchy? The bitchy couldn't possibly have anything to do with being at the end of my depo cycle. Or having the schedule from hell for the last month. Or being sleep deprived. Or being a single parent of two emotionally disturbed children - one of which isn't in school yet. Or having to deal with a ton of extra crap because none of my neighbors can seem to act enough like a fucking grown up to take care of their own shit...

Sleep deprived, exhausted, hormonal and in desperate need of enough alone time to take a shower with the bathroom door open has absolutely nothing to do with being bitchy. It has to be a secret boyfriend.

I'd almost love to point out to people that I don't have a boyfriend, I have a Mistress and a Sir and I'm actually in a much better mood after they flog the shit out of me... look at the pretty bruises!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I have just read an article about foreigners working in Czech republic and 53 842 of them lost their job here past year, because of the world crisis. I mean, how the hell can I find a job for A. here when SO MANY people loosing their jobs. Foreigners and Czechs as well. It just seems so impossible.

But I want him here.. NEED HIM HERE. sigh


So yes I am pissed off, because I cannot see it happening anytime soon. Makes me hate every second of this fucking life.