What pissed you off today?

[minx1]

*HUGS*, minxie!

If it's any consolation, ya' know the old saying "What comes around, goes around" is oh-sooooo-true!

Thankyou hon

what pissed me off? Crying on the train on the way to work this morning. Bloody intrusive thoughts. Started thinking of that last Friday and what happened..how he tole me he loved me on the phone. How he cried when he was there. But I dont think it means anything.

I tried thinking bad things like how he gave me my keys and literally gave me 45 mins after four years together. How he had probably wanted to go to that con and that was a driving factor.

He used to get annoyed if I ever intimated that he wanted just sex. It used to make him really angry because he loved me he said, but yanno I'm not sure if thats why he got so angry or whether it was because it was a little too close to the truth for his liking.

I need closure and I cant get it

 

[intothewoods]

Thankyou hon

what pissed me off? Crying on the train on the way to work this morning. Bloody intrusive thoughts. Started thinking of that last Friday and what happened..how he tole me he loved me on the phone. How he cried when he was there. But I dont think it means anything.

I tried thinking bad things like how he gave me my keys and literally gave me 45 mins after four years together. How he had probably wanted to go to that con and that was a driving factor.

He used to get annoyed if I ever intimated that he wanted just sex. It used to make him really angry because he loved me he said, but yanno I'm not sure if thats why he got so angry or whether it was because it was a little too close to the truth for his liking.

I need closure and I cant get it

So sorry minx. I know that feeling. If it makes you feel any better at all, most relationships end without closure. I know you are in a lot of pain right now, but it really will get better. Keep talking about it as much as you need to, and keep distracting yourself too. Plan little diversions, things to keep yourself busy. You will get through this.

 

[minx1]

So sorry minx. I know that feeling. If it makes you feel any better at all, most relationships end without closure. I know you are in a lot of pain right now, but it really will get better. Keep talking about it as much as you need to, and keep distracting yourself too. Plan little diversions, things to keep yourself busy. You will get through this.

Thanks hon, I appreciate that and I know you are right.

Uuurgggghh. I hate that its this hard

 

[rida]

Friday afternoon a careless dweeb @@#$#!! drove into my Sister-in-Law killing her instantly. I am so angery. Also my wife is just an emotional wreck about it too.

I live in Alberta Canada, where we have the Alberta Highway Safety Traffic Act. Under such a law we are all obligated to be safe drivers. Driving is a privlidge that is earned and maintained. You are required to have proper breakes, working windshield wipers and wiper fluid. It bugs the hell out of me that some people can't wrap their head around civilized behavior.

Anyway that @#$@@%^&!!! is facing 10 years in jail. As well as a whole town of people who just want to lynch him.

So sorry for yours and your family's loss.

Thankyou hon

what pissed me off? Crying on the train on the way to work this morning. Bloody intrusive thoughts. Started thinking of that last Friday and what happened..how he tole me he loved me on the phone. How he cried when he was there. But I dont think it means anything.

I tried thinking bad things like how he gave me my keys and literally gave me 45 mins after four years together. How he had probably wanted to go to that con and that was a driving factor.

He used to get annoyed if I ever intimated that he wanted just sex. It used to make him really angry because he loved me he said, but yanno I'm not sure if thats why he got so angry or whether it was because it was a little too close to the truth for his liking.

I need closure and I cant get it

You know, if by closure you wish for him to come out and tell you that yeah, he did not love you and used you for his convenience, or to tell you that he wishes he was a stronger man and had the courage to be with you ... it is not going to happen.

But if it helps, I'll tell you both those things as many times as you need.

Hugs!

 

[gypsy*seer]

Friday afternoon a careless dweeb @@#$#!! drove into my Sister-in-Law killing her instantly. I am so angery. Also my wife is just an emotional wreck about it too.

I live in Alberta Canada, where we have the Alberta Highway Safety Traffic Act. Under such a law we are all obligated to be safe drivers. Driving is a privlidge that is earned and maintained. You are required to have proper breakes, working windshield wipers and wiper fluid. It bugs the hell out of me that some people can't wrap their head around civilized behavior.

Anyway that @#$@@%^&!!! is facing 10 years in jail. As well as a whole town of people who just want to lynch him.

Damn! I am SO sorry for your senseless loss. My thoughts & prayers are going out to you & yours, OG.

 

[gypsy*seer]

Thankyou hon

what pissed me off? Crying on the train on the way to work this morning. Bloody intrusive thoughts. Started thinking of that last Friday and what happened..how he tole me he loved me on the phone. How he cried when he was there. But I dont think it means anything.

I tried thinking bad things like how he gave me my keys and literally gave me 45 mins after four years together. How he had probably wanted to go to that con and that was a driving factor.

He used to get annoyed if I ever intimated that he wanted just sex. It used to make him really angry because he loved me he said, but yanno I'm not sure if thats why he got so angry or whether it was because it was a little too close to the truth for his liking.

I need closure and I cant get it

Sometimes we just have to take the bull by the horns and create our own closure. REPEAT: He didn't even know your middle name, sweetie.

You can do this

BREATHE

You are one of the strongest, smartest, and NICEST people on Lit. I have monumental faith in you!

 

[minx1]

Sometimes we just have to take the bull by the horns and create our own closure. REPEAT: He didn't even know your middle name, sweetie.

You can do this

BREATHE

You are one of the strongest, smartest, and NICEST people on Lit. I have monumental faith in you!

awww thankyou gs, for saying that. Means a lot

 

[RawHumor]

You are one of the strongest, smartest, and NICEST people on Lit. I have monumental faith in you!

I'll add awesomest to this list, though my Firefox seems to insist that that's not a word.

 

[minx1]

I'll add awesomest to this list, though my Firefox seems to insist that that's not a word.

lol stuff Firefox...I like the word!

Thanks Raw, I appreciate that too.

 

[shewolf3003]

So you think/thought it was a great idea to threaten your kid that if they weren't good the dr/nurse would give them a shot. Then comes the very real times in life where a shot/lab work is essential in your childs life. Now, you are going to yell at the kid for crying and fighting when a shot/labs are vital. I have to add to the anxiety because now I have to forcibly hold down this child to do what has to be done, while you standby and won't help at all. Great job.. you have instilled life long mental anguish to someone who most likely will now have this fear of needles forever. Perhaps if you hadn't amped up the mental image of this as a horrid punishment your child's psyche and mine would be much better. After all I am both human and a mother, I don't like to see that level of fear in any child.

 

[the captians wench]

12 hours baking Tuesday.

4 hours baking today.

half an hour ago, I dropped one of the cakes on the floor.

 

[Seurat]

This day to day shit with thte back is really starting to piss me off.

That, and today is mom's birthday, I miss her, and it's really, really going to suck.

 

[KoPilot]

I found out yesterday that I live with children.

My roommate's 19 year old girlfriend threw a TEMPER TANTRUM when she found out that I don't want her living here for nothing. Sorry, but I don't believe in being charitable to spineless, selfish, and self-entitled assholes.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I found out yesterday that I live with children.

My roommate's 19 year old girlfriend threw a TEMPER TANTRUM when she found out that I don't want her living here for nothing. Sorry, but I don't believe in being charitable to spineless, selfish, and self-entitled assholes.

That wouldn't be charity; it would be being spineless yourself.

You could explain it to her this way: When there were two of us living here (you and roommate), we split the bills - rent, power, water, etc. - and each paid half. If *you* are going to live here, there will be three of us, and those bills will be split three ways. If that doesn't meet with your approval, then get your skanky ass out the door. And if you don't stop jacking my [yogurt, milk, frozen pizzas, whatever], you *will* regret it.

ETA: Or, depending on your rental agreement/lease on your facility, you could point out to her that she and your roommate are violating the lease and they could *both* end up being homeless if you report them to the landlord.

 

[KoPilot]

That wouldn't be charity; it would be being spineless yourself.

You could explain it to her this way: When there were two of us living here (you and roommate), we split the bills - rent, power, water, etc. - and each paid half. If *you* are going to live here, there will be three of us, and those bills will be split three ways. If that doesn't meet with your approval, then get your skanky ass out the door. And if you don't stop jacking my [yogurt, milk, frozen pizzas, whatever], you *will* regret it.

ETA: Or, depending on your rental agreement/lease on your facility, you could point out to her that she and your roommate are violating the lease and they could *both* end up being homeless if you report them to the landlord.

After confronted with "what the fuck are you giving US to stay here?" it was suggested she pay the cable bill (she'd only be living here 2 days a week). What pissed me off, though, is that the whole arrangement was mentioned to me in passing after promises were already made, and that she never actually wanted to speak to me about it directly. I had to communicate to her through her boyfriend, who is equally as spineless and immature.

He later had the audacity to tell me that both his girlfriend, AND her family hated me, after the aforementioned tantrum, and not bothering to work out any kind of real solution like real adults.

I guess this is what I get for expecting college students (seniors and sophomore gf) to not act like they're in 4th grade.

 

[CurlyKat]

After confronted with "what the fuck are you giving US to stay here?" it was suggested she pay the cable bill (she'd only be living here 2 days a week). What pissed me off, though, is that the whole arrangement was mentioned to me in passing after promises were already made, and that she never actually wanted to speak to me about it directly. I had to communicate to her through her boyfriend, who is equally as spineless and immature.

He later had the audacity to tell me that both his girlfriend, AND her family hated me, after the aforementioned tantrum, and not bothering to work out any kind of real solution like real adults.

I guess this is what I get for expecting college students (seniors and sophomore gf) to not act like they're in 4th grade.

And this is reason 2006 why I live alone. Do NOT want to deal with that kind of thing again, and it seems it's increasingly common in college towns.

 

[gypsy*seer]

This day to day shit with thte back is really starting to piss me off.

That, and today is mom's birthday, I miss her, and it's really, really going to suck.

*HUGS*

 

[Firebrain]

12 hours baking Tuesday.

4 hours baking today.

half an hour ago, I dropped one of the cakes on the floor.

There there [pats head] What were you baking? I am so due a session.

I couldn't decide if this belonged on the smile or pissed threads, so I've gone with pissed.

Had fabulous nooner with husband. He came upstairs (he runs pub downstairs), threw me over his shoulder and pounded me six ways from Sunday. Poor mattress. I was exhausted and heady and wobbly (I think I squirted a bit. Awesome, but scary at the time). We have to rush out, are flushed and I have bed-made hair...the chef is sat there, brazen as anything, on the step outside our door. No reason for him to be there. Fucker was listening the entire time.

Can you sack someone for being a peeping (listening) Tom?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

There there [pats head] What were you baking? I am so due a session.

I couldn't decide if this belonged on the smile or pissed threads, so I've gone with pissed.

Had fabulous nooner with husband. He came upstairs (he runs pub downstairs), threw me over his shoulder and pounded me six ways from Sunday. Poor mattress. I was exhausted and heady and wobbly (I think I squirted a bit. Awesome, but scary at the time). We have to rush out, are flushed and I have bed-made hair...the chef is sat there, brazen as anything, on the step outside our door. No reason for him to be there. Fucker was listening the entire time.

Can you sack someone for being a peeping (listening) Tom?

Depends on how good a chef he is.

 

[Firebrain]

Depends on how good a chef he is.

He's actually leaving next week, so there wouldn't be much point.

I was so annoyed at how brazen he was being, though. It isn't the first time he has listened to us (the last time, he stayed after work and listened through the window. And admitted it!) I'm all for a bit of "ooh, guess what we heard?" humour but not being so deliberately skanky.

 

[BiBunny]

"I'm bi, but I don't want to date another bi person." Usually, this is female subs (who would never DATE a woman, anyway, just fuck them while some man watches and gets off) talking about how they'd never date a bisexual male dominant.

Goddamn self-loathing bi people.

 

[Firebrain]

"I'm bi, but I don't want to date another bi person." Usually, this is female subs (who would never DATE a woman, anyway, just fuck them while some man watches and gets off) talking about how they'd never date a bisexual male dominant.

Goddamn self-loathing bi people.

Or as I like to refer to them; bi tourists.

 

[BiBunny]

Or as I like to refer to them; bi tourists.

YES. That's perfect! Please take your hypocritical ass and go home. Kthanxbi.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

"I'm bi, but I don't want to date another bi person." Usually, this is female subs (who would never DATE a woman, anyway, just fuck them while some man watches and gets off) talking about how they'd never date a bisexual male dominant.

Goddamn self-loathing bi people.

I did once. And he switched. It was hard to keep up with.

Is it bad to be a bi-tourist though, if you know it and say it?

 

[BiBunny]

I did once. And he switched. It was hard to keep up with.

Is it bad to be a bi-tourist though, if you know it and say it?

Nope. That's perfectly ok. It's the ignorant ones who bug me, and you've never struck me as ignorant.