What should I do

I don't think you have to end your relationship. It's not your boyfriend's fault that his dad can't control himself. Considering you're in a committed, long-term relationship, you should definitely tell your boyfriend about this. I'm sure he'd do something to put a stop to it.
 
My boyfriend is so pissed with his dad that he is looking for a place of his own to live. I'm so glad me and my boyfriend are staying together. I don't know what I would do without him.
 
Having lived this scene before, I must say there had to be a hint or spark put out by the girlfriend :devil: In my case there was all sorts of signs being sent... Maybe the boyfriend wasn't man enough?:p
 
Lifer that s a pretty lame excuse. Even if you imagine signs are being "sent" , did you ever think to actually -talk- to the person first? I don't think it has anything to do with the boyfriend, but quite possibly does involve the father wanting to sabotage a relationship of his sons, especially since he has done this before to a different son.
 
There comes a time when talking isn't whats needed? You start thinking with the head between your legs, instead of the one on your shoulder... I know where I'm cuming from... Actions speak volumes:p
 
Having lived this scene before, I must say there had to be a hint or spark put out by the girlfriend In my case there was all sorts of signs being sent... Maybe the boyfriend wasn't man enough?


And the award for most useless advice goes to Lifer:rolleyes:
 
I'm only speaking from experience. Had I NOT responded my way, nothing would have happened... From the mouth of babes...
 
liferguy said:
Having lived this scene before, I must say there had to be a hint or spark put out by the girlfriend :devil: In my case there was all sorts of signs being sent... Maybe the boyfriend wasn't man enough?:p

--------
There comes a time when talking isn't whats needed? You start thinking with the head between your legs, instead of the one on your shoulder... I know where I'm cuming from... Actions speak volumes

Justifying actions with "she was sending signals" and "she wanted it" and "I was following what my penis wanted to do" is typical of rapists.
 
SweetErika said:
Justifying actions with "she was sending signals" and "she wanted it" and "I was following what my penis wanted to do" is typical of rapists.

Erika's right. Any sensible, caring human being would see that Charlie could potentially be in a dangerous situation. She came here asking for help and advice. It's wrong to justify what her boyfriend's father did to her by saying she was asking for it in any way, shape or form. It makes me sick to think that there are people out there who think like this.
 
I'm only speaking from experience. Had I NOT responded my way, nothing would have happened... From the mouth of babes...


STFU newbie, pull your head out your ass and fuck off
 
Yeah I totally agree there, Lifer's an asshole. If my dad ever did that to Mary I swear I'd beat the hell outta him no questions asked. People who do that are just sad pathetic losers who need to force themselves on girls till they're intimidated enough to indulge the worthless assholes.
 
liferguy said:
Having lived this scene before, I must say there had to be a hint or spark put out by the girlfriend :devil: In my case there was all sorts of signs being sent... Maybe the boyfriend wasn't man enough?:p


My boyfriend is plenty man enough. i didn't send out any sparks to his father. i don't like is father like that. his dad is like a father to me.
 
Back
Top