What to do? Health question

[Mamid]

How do I go about getting my sweetie some help with a problem he may have developed.

See, he's on blood thinners and other meds - 9 pills a day - until he gets his heart fixed hopefully this month. Which has caused some .. er... problems.

I stuffed his stocking with some Durex non-latex and of course he had to try them out and see if he fit tonight. One problem... in the middle of his climax, instead of cumming, he peed. He just about flipped. Me? I squick over urine and excrement - especially during sex.

See, one of my exs "accidentally" shat on me, but the way he treated it afterwards, it was as if he did it on purpose - he did NOT help me clean myself up and didn't seem to care that much that he got any one me, almost as if it was my fault he did it! That and something happened to me as a child which really squicks me about giving head and knowing that men urinate through penises has just made my head spin today.

Anyway, could there be a urological problem? I'm really worried for him. This isn't good whatever it is.

 

[boston_bbw]

I personally think him being unable to perform sexually for a while is the least of your worries. I would mention it to his doctor. Get that heart issue taken care of, maybe that will lessen some of his medications and then see if the problem continues. He has so much going on right now it would be hard to say if this related to everything else or something completely new. If it was still an issue after all is said and done then yep follow up with the doctor.

 

[thrity]

It sucks

Did he ever see a doctor?

 

[SexyChele]

I would suggest you forego intercourse until his doctors can remedy the heart problems. If he is on blood thinners and other medications, anything could be interferring with sexual performance. You could talk to his doctor and find out - sometimes these questions can be handled with a phone call. But it sounds as if your husband is under a doctor's care, and perhaps your focus should be on getting him well first.

Oh, and just a helpful tidbit? The male reproductive system produces a fluid (clear in color) that passes through the uretha and out of the end of the penis as a man becomes aroused. The function of this fluid is to kill off any bacteria that might be left from urine so as not to harm the sperm in the ejaculate. It's a cleansing agent, so to speak. So even though a man urinates through his penis, his own body has a way of cleansing itself prior to orgasm. His body will also "cut off" the uretha from the bladder, which is also why it is normally (operative word here is "normal") difficult to impossible for a man to urinate during arousal. If he is able to urinate during an erection, then it is most likely a medical condition - which would appear to be the case here.

I would suggest talking to his doctor and see what is suggested.

 

[SweetErika]

Mention it to his doctor now, and ask about getting a referral to a urologist after he's recovered from the heart surgery if he can still pee during an erection. The more important issue is how both of you are dealing with this mentally. Can you put it out of your minds next time by chalking it up to his medical problems and drugs/ a freak occurence?