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seela said:
We last met up on Sunday for some fun times, and everything was fine. Then on Monday I did the thing, after that crickets. I asked today if something's up, and now he's blocked me everywhere as far as I can see. So pretty unlikely it's just bad timing.

We'd been talking for over a month and met up for sexy fun times 5 times, a few times just for coffee/beer before that. I thought it was all dandy. I really don't know what happened and I feel pretty bad about jumping through the particular hoop that I did on Monday.
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Ugh, that’s a shitty deal.

If you want to nuke him, here’s a useful link:
https://nuclearsecrecy.com/nukemap/
 
seela said:
We last met up on Sunday for some fun times, and everything was fine. Then on Monday I did the thing, after that crickets. I asked today if something's up, and now he's blocked me everywhere as far as I can see. So pretty unlikely it's just bad timing.

We'd been talking for over a month and met up for sexy fun times 5 times, a few times just for coffee/beer before that. I thought it was all dandy. I really don't know what happened and I feel pretty bad about jumping through the particular hoop that I did on Monday.
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I am sorry. I've had people ghost me without explanation a couple of times and it really sucks, trying to figure out what went wrong without any clues. Sounds awfully like he got what he wanted and then moved on :-/
 
Bramblethorn said:
I am sorry. I've had people ghost me without explanation a couple of times and it really sucks, trying to figure out what went wrong without any clues. Sounds awfully like he got what he wanted and then moved on :-/
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Yes, it sucks big time. :(

I’ve been ghosted before online, and while it also wasn’t pleasant, it was nothing compared to this. We had actually met, several times. And then *poof*.

At least the last, scary thing I did wasn’t anything sexual or outrageous. Just something that’s a really big hurdle for me. Dude was curious about non-sexual humiliation tasks feeding into a sexual dynamic. For a little while I legit thought his no contact was an uninformed way to make the situation suckier for me on purpose, but clearly not.

I won’t be doing that particular thing again for years, if ever. Also keeping away from new people and humiliation games for a good, long time.
 
seela said:
Yes, it sucks big time. :(

I’ve been ghosted before online, and while it also wasn’t pleasant, it was nothing compared to this. We had actually met, several times. And then *poof*.

At least the last, scary thing I did wasn’t anything sexual or outrageous. Just something that’s a really big hurdle for me. Dude was curious about non-sexual humiliation tasks feeding into a sexual dynamic. For a little while I legit thought his no contact was an uninformed way to make the situation suckier for me on purpose, but clearly not.

I won’t be doing that particular thing again for years, if ever. Also keeping away from new people and humiliation games for a good, long time.
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That is shitty, I am sorry!

💋
 
seela said:
Yes, it sucks big time. :(

I’ve been ghosted before online, and while it also wasn’t pleasant, it was nothing compared to this. We had actually met, several times. And then *poof*.

At least the last, scary thing I did wasn’t anything sexual or outrageous. Just something that’s a really big hurdle for me. Dude was curious about non-sexual humiliation tasks feeding into a sexual dynamic. For a little while I legit thought his no contact was an uninformed way to make the situation suckier for me on purpose, but clearly not.

I won’t be doing that particular thing again for years, if ever. Also keeping away from new people and humiliation games for a good, long time.
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Don't be too hard on yourself. You met with him more than once, so he was not a complete stranger. This is not because of something you did and I am not saying this just to make you feel better. Trust me, I don't do that. But the man clearly lacks confidence and maturity, and no communications skills. He could've ended it in an adult and mature way but clearly he doesn't know how to deal with that. If I knew him, I actually would feel sorry for him. He's got issues.
 
Orchidea73 said:
Don't be too hard on yourself. You met with him more than once, so he was not a complete stranger.
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Mmh, I agree. Perhaps he was out of his own comfort zone and didn’t know how he would react and obviously not how to handle it well or perhaps he was an asshat. Either way, that’s not on you. You did your part.
 
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