Who gets a one night stand?

[Marquis]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

 

[Private_Label]

please don't e-touch me.

That's it, we are going to have to change you designation in the Virgin Club. You are now the Chief Brat. That makes you second to Aeroil who is Chief Cookie Thief, and Xelebes, who is... ah... Chief Partner in Crime.

Now If I can just get our official Domme to rubber stamp the changes....

 

[Marquis]

Jesus Christ, didn't they create a thread for you people!!

 

[canadiancutie]

That's it, we are going to have to change you designation in the Virgin Club. You are now the Chief Brat. That makes you second to Aeroil who is Chief Cookie Thief, and Xelebes, who is... ah... Chief Partner in Crime.

Now If I can just get our official Domme to rubber stamp the changes....

.....are you 7? Fuck I'm considering going out and screwing some random guy so you will stop mentioning me in your virgin post things. Yikes

 

[canadiancutie]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

Too bad just oral doesnt count, because then I would have something to contribute

 

[Killishandra]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

Geeze, I don't know about everyone else, but as for me...

Straight sex, yes. I've never had a kinky ONS but I would rather be kinky than not... Except that there's a trust element involved with some kink and you don't have that established in a ONS so that rules out some possibilities.

Oral is out of the question for me, since I require documented proof that someone is D&D free before I go down on them. Which sucks, because at this point I'd take a cock in the mouth over a cock in my pussy anytime. Probably cause I miss serving even more than I miss sex.

Anyway, anal is totally out of the question for me... I can't imagine doing that again with someone until I trust them a great deal. I'd either offer it up as a gift or give it on demand (if it were their right to demand it from me, as in a Dom.)

Oh, and CC, stop being such a little cunt or I'm going to fly to Canada and flay your backside.

 

[canadiancutie]

Oh, and CC, stop being such a little cunt or I'm going to fly to Canada and flay your backside.

That really doesn't discourage me dear. and I'm never a cunt I'm far too kind for that

 

[Killishandra]

That really doesn't discourage me dear. and I'm never a cunt I'm far too kind for that

You are what you eat.

 

[canadiancutie]

You are what you eat.

I'm a tea-sicle? because I totally didn't participate in any oral activities today...that I'm willing to admit publicly

 

[landcruisergal]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

all of the above...
most guys appreciate a little oral,
and they always think they are the best muff divers in history, so who am I to deny them a chance at proving it?
Anal, sometimes, but I always get on top first, or some lads get all carried away with the moment and forget their manners.Never if they are really intoxicated.
If a guy is sweet and hasnt had anal before I often offer it, and see it as a chance to educate them.

 

[Marquis]

all of the above...
most guys appreciate a little oral,
and they always think they are the best muff divers in history, so who am I to deny them a chance at proving it?
Anal, sometimes, but I always get on top first, or some lads get all carried away with the moment and forget their manners.Never if they are really intoxicated.
If a guy is sweet and hasnt had anal before I often offer it, and see it as a chance to educate them.

You're getting me hard.

I gotta pretend I've never done anal before. Do you ask them?

 

[landcruisergal]

You're getting me hard.

I gotta pretend I've never done anal before. Do you ask them?

I usually ask them what they like, what they want, what they have always wanted to try but never have done.
I want a good experience too and I like to know what our expectations are.
I dont want to go by guess work and if they are never going to see me again, they tend to open up a fair bit, and quit the " I'm such a stud" crap.
Most guys have had a "tried anal once but she stopped me cos it hurt too much" and suffer the delusion that they have a cock thats too big for it. They are keen to try on an experienced woman who acually likes it!
If I take the lead and show them, then they know how to go about it in the future.

I actually scared a guy by demanding anal once....he did.. but used to run away if he ever saw me after that...oops! small town. I was pretty merciless with him.
( but he was a geek too..too soft)

 

[Marquis]

the " I'm such a stud" crap.
Most guys have had a "tried anal once but she stopped me cos it hurt too much"

Most girls too, only they suffer the delusion that their ass is too tight, or anal is especially painful for them for some reason.

 

[landcruisergal]

Most girls too, only they suffer the delusion that their ass is too tight, or anal is especially painful for them for some reason.

I wouldnt recommend a ONS for a female anal virgin, unless you are willing to go slow, and work her up to a point where she really wants to do it.
And have lots of lube on hand. Not something you carry around in your wallet.
And besides I like to be clean first.(a gay friend used to say he "didn't want a guy he's picked up to strike mud" and it made me rather paranoid.) so I always prep'd before I went out, just in case.

 

[wildfyre]

no art really,...the younger and dumber they are, the easier they are..
Its simple pussy power. I have one, they want one.
And most younger, dumber lads jump at the chance of "no strings sex" with a woman with no hangups.
They know I have experience and they wont have to take the lead....its too attractive an offer.

It's like shooting fish in a barrel! One of the bars I went to it was almost too easy to find a hookup....almost took the fun out of the hunt!

 

[wildfyre]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

It depends on the guy and how much he's been drinking. Usually just straighter sex, can't get too kinky with someone I've just met and don't have that level of trust with. Anal is out for an ONS, that's something I reserve for my special friends....goes back to trust. Oral is always a possibility, but again, depends on the guy and our general level of horniness. Sometimes it's just about the getting in and getting off! One of my best "oral" memories is with an ONS.....he took 69'ing to a high art form!

 

[TaintedB]

I did a couple of one-night-stands when I was much younger, mostly because I was insecure and wanted reaffirmation that I was sexy and wanted, but these days I don't see the point of them, well at least with strangers. I might do one with someone who was already a good friend, as that would just be another way of expressing friendship. Part of my problem is I don't get off on vanilla sex (no vaginal orgasm for me--I have to work at it, and during vanilla with a stranger, unless he's got an unusually sexy and creative personality, that's awfully hard work :/ ) and bdsm sex usually takes a number of... sessions? to work out the awkwardness and to get to know the other person well enough for it to be really hot.

 

[Killishandra]

I did a couple of one-night-stands when I was much younger, mostly because I was insecure and wanted reaffirmation that I was sexy and wanted, but these days I don't see the point of them, well at least with strangers. I might do one with someone who was already a good friend, as that would just be another way of expressing friendship. Part of my problem is I don't get off on vanilla sex (no vaginal orgasm for me--I have to work at it, and during vanilla with a stranger, unless he's got an unusually sexy and creative personality, that's awfully hard work :/ ) and bdsm sex usually takes a number of... sessions? to work out the awkwardness and to get to know the other person well enough for it to be really hot.

And herein lies my current problem. I think it would be really good for me to go out and get laid, or get a fuckbuddy. But, vanilla sex holds marginal appeal to me. Rough "vanilla" sex.. lots of dirty talk and hair pulling and stuff would be just grand, but in a one-night-stand you can't really know what you're going to get. And I don't know many male friends that I think would be comfortable treating me that way and also happen to be single.

Vanilla sex would at least give me someone to cuddle with at night, which might make it worth it, but so far I havent' been able to motivate myself to find someone. *sigh!* *shrugs*

I'm interested in exploring the more dominant side of my switchy personality, so I've set up a collarme profile looking for (preferably) a cute little lesbian petling... (Or a male, but he'd have to be exceptionally submissive and intelligent, and likely several years younger than I.) Someone to cuddle with and spoil and perhaps experiment on as a top. But someone pointed out to me that I could end up "rebounding" and breaking someone's heart... So it's a little complicated. =\ I'm not looking to be anyone's "Mistress," but more like a Mommy and/or a top. I could see a relationship like this eventually becoming poly if the right Dom came along afterwards. Or I could see something like this being short-term, with someone who is, say, in the military here and leaving Hawaii in a matter of months.

Oh dear. Life is so complicated sometimes.

 

[catalina_francisco]

" I never ran, I always knew what I was getting myself into so I had no excuse to run"

Exactly where I was coming from. You cant play the tease to that extent and trust someone you dont know to stop if you change your mind. Its all or nothing.
The sexually frustrated male is a dangerous creature, and the dumber they are, the less self control they often have.

Worst case scenario is when they cant get it up and get irrationally frustrated and potentially violent...then you have to play the counselor role, or keep him drinking until he passes out with promises of "in the morning" then get the fuck out of there.
I made sure the guy was under no illusion to what the situation was before we left together.

and back to the condom issue, if you indulge in ONS you carry your own. I know guys dont like them, and rarely carry them. Protect yourself.

My b/f was a 23 y/o ONS. I was 32, recently single and just having fun again.
Certainly wasnt looking for a relationship, esp. with a guy that much younger.
6 years later, still together...go figure...

LOL, while F was never going to be a ONS, he certainly worked hard at convincing me the 9 year age gap with him being the younger, was good...and he was right.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

LOL, when I was into ONS's on a regular basis it was way pre-AIDS days and I was young and stupid about protection so didn't often use a condom....that also was partly because in the 70's it was more difficult to get them and not exactly what a shy teen girl was about to go ask about in the pharmacy. I indulged in it all.....trad, anal, and oral. The worst time was when I arrived home only to have my mother spot the dry leaf inside the leg of my stockings and ask how it got there.......hmmm, I couldn't tell her I must have picked it up in the park by the river in the dark while I was getting dressed again....so as she knew the place I had been to was fairly basic and on the river I said it must have been in the outside toilets and gotten in there somehow.

Catalina

 

[landcruisergal]

LOL, while F was never going to be a ONS, he certainly worked hard at convincing me the 9 year age gap with him being the younger, was good...and he was right.

Catalina

yep I took a long time to convince as well.

Back to one nighters....Its a lot easier when you take the more dominant/teacher role.
Pre bdsm days, I had no trouble finding guys who wanted it really rough.
(my first spanking was with a ONS.)
or to satisfy that m/m/f thing that a lot of guys like...
But you dont have the safety net of negotiated limits, or safewords.
Its a dangerous game..
Don't expect anything in the way of after care,always have money for a cab home and be willing to live with yourself afterwards...

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

A question to all the one night stand giving, gang banging random dude fucking bless your heart you make the world a better place sluts:


On what criterion do you select a person for easy one time sex like this? Is there a particular personality type you go for, or a certain look?

I have to imagine this is likely to be different attributes than the people you'd want to pursue in a relationship, or at least different priorities.

Hmmm back when I was the fucking queen of one nighters I based my choice on 3 things...

1. availability: whether or not they came to the club (or where ever) with someone else and whether or not they had a vehicle of thier own.

2. looks: the more cut up and diesel (men) they appeared, the more apt I was to look once, twice or thrice.

3. Safer Sex sane: If I said "I got a condom, wanna fuck?" and they balked at the word condom...it was a no go.

That being said, interestingly enough, I have never indulged my taste for ONS with a female...probably because I liked them too much. I never had much respect for the guys I picked up...I just got bored playing with my toys...

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Hey, here's a question.


What do you generally do during a one night stand?


Straight sex?

Ever work oral in at some point?

Is anal out of the question?

Generally, ONS were quite basic..I took top position, stayed that way til I got off and then maybe I allowed the guy to get off in that same podsition. They got no head from me..(though if they wanted to give it I didn't really care) and ass shots were outta the question..(unless I was the one robbing the ass). Like I said earlier a one nighter was about me...the guys just THOUGHT it was for them...

 

[Aeroil]

That really doesn't discourage me dear. and I'm never a cunt I'm far too kind for that

haha, indeed, Boss is the kindest person I know .

...unless she decides she doesn't like someone, then she turns evil.

We chose an excellent leader, really.

 

[canadiancutie]

And herein lies my current problem. I think it would be really good for me to go out and get laid, or get a fuckbuddy. But, vanilla sex holds marginal appeal to me. Rough "vanilla" sex.. lots of dirty talk and hair pulling and stuff would be just grand, but in a one-night-stand you can't really know what you're going to get. And I don't know many male friends that I think would be comfortable treating me that way and also happen to be single.

Vanilla sex would at least give me someone to cuddle with at night, which might make it worth it, but so far I havent' been able to motivate myself to find someone. *sigh!* *shrugs*

I'm interested in exploring the more dominant side of my switchy personality, so I've set up a collarme profile looking for (preferably) a cute little lesbian petling... (Or a male, but he'd have to be exceptionally submissive and intelligent, and likely several years younger than I.) Someone to cuddle with and spoil and perhaps experiment on as a top. But someone pointed out to me that I could end up "rebounding" and breaking someone's heart... So it's a little complicated. =\ I'm not looking to be anyone's "Mistress," but more like a Mommy and/or a top. I could see a relationship like this eventually becoming poly if the right Dom came along afterwards. Or I could see something like this being short-term, with someone who is, say, in the military here and leaving Hawaii in a matter of months.

Oh dear. Life is so complicated sometimes.

move to canada