Why do older men become bi-curious?

[kismet999]

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[Intoanythin]

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[Intoanythin]

I'm 44 feel the same way

 

[Intoanythin]

Love to chat with others that feel like this too.

 

[Jerseyshore]

This is turning out to be an interesting affternoon!

 

[Intoanythin]

Lol, it sure is!

 

[MarineStacy]

I only made to 22 before I got curious. Now I want to spend my free time being a man's girlfriend.

 

[Intoanythin]

Lol, nice!

 

[Y_Diner]

Who wants to get off right now? I give good phone, and am sane and trustworthy... PM me.

 

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Thanks for that info, kismet!

Glori.

 

[loverofintersex1]

No longer just curious, certainly bi -- maybe gay!

From what I can see, all of us have gone well past being curious -- we've had sex with other men. If we live in a sexless marriage, maybe by now sex with men is what we desire. I don't know. It seems those of us who're fully out to ourselves -- at the least -- feel better about everything. Including the way we feel about panties - yes!

 

[LoftyCraig]

From what I can see, all of us have gone well past being curious -- we've had sex with other men. If we live in a sexless marriage, maybe by now sex with men is what we desire. I don't know. It seems those of us who're fully out to ourselves -- at the least -- feel better about everything. Including the way we feel about panties - yes!

i totally agree, including yr philosophy bout bi sex

 

[oralgami]

I was in my mid-forties and in a sexless marriage. Long story short, the idea of finding another married guy in the same situation and discretely giving each other exactly what we wanted simply for the taboo hedonistic exciting pleasure of it with no emotional component seemed thrilling.

When you get older, sex becomes more challenging. Everybody has their baggage and women don't have the same appeal they did when they were younger. Getting laid takes time, is expensive, and otherwise is a lengthy process with no assurance of success. Finding a guy and cutting directly to the chance without any bullshit has a definite appeal. Plus, you don't give a shit and are willing to take chances and find excitement in doing something different for a change.

When I accepted the fact that the idea of exchanging oral with a guy turned me on, I allowed myself to fantasize about it. I pictured myself pulling a guy's underwear down and seeing his dick for the first time and hearing, in my voice, the words "I want to suck your dick" escape my mouth. When the moment came when that actually happened and I was able to freely experience being with another guy and pleasuring each other for a couple of hours before going our separate ways, it was intense and liberating.

There are still many things I can only get through the companionship and intimacy shared with a women, but a quick dirty romp with a good male partner is quite fun for me.

 

[Y_Diner]

I was in my mid-forties and in a sexless marriage. Long story short, the idea of finding another married guy in the same situation and discretely giving each other exactly what we wanted simply for the taboo hedonistic exciting pleasure of it with no emotional component seemed thrilling.

When you get older, sex becomes more challenging. Everybody has their baggage and women don't have the same appeal they did when they were younger. Getting laid takes time, is expensive, and otherwise is a lengthy process with no assurance of success. Finding a guy and cutting directly to the chance without any bullshit has a definite appeal. Plus, you don't give a shit and are willing to take chances and find excitement in doing something different for a change.

When I accepted the fact that the idea of exchanging oral with a guy turned me on, I allowed myself to fantasize about it. I pictured myself pulling a guy's underwear down and seeing his dick for the first time and hearing, in my voice, the words "I want to suck your dick" escape my mouth. When the moment came when that actually happened and I was able to freely experience being with another guy and pleasuring each other for a couple of hours before going our separate ways, it was intense and liberating.

There are still many things I can only get through the companionship and intimacy shared with a women, but a quick dirty romp with a good male partner is quite fun for me.

Although single, I'm bi, and thoroughly enjoy the differences in sex with each gender. Amen to your last several paragraphs.

 

[crash197177]

I was in my mid-forties and in a sexless marriage. Long story short, the idea of finding another married guy in the same situation and discretely giving each other exactly what we wanted simply for the taboo hedonistic exciting pleasure of it with no emotional component seemed thrilling.

When you get older, sex becomes more challenging. Everybody has their baggage and women don't have the same appeal they did when they were younger. Getting laid takes time, is expensive, and otherwise is a lengthy process with no assurance of success. Finding a guy and cutting directly to the chance without any bullshit has a definite appeal. Plus, you don't give a shit and are willing to take chances and find excitement in doing something different for a change.

When I accepted the fact that the idea of exchanging oral with a guy turned me on, I allowed myself to fantasize about it. I pictured myself pulling a guy's underwear down and seeing his dick for the first time and hearing, in my voice, the words "I want to suck your dick" escape my mouth. When the moment came when that actually happened and I was able to freely experience being with another guy and pleasuring each other for a couple of hours before going our separate ways, it was intense and liberating.

There are still many things I can only get through the companionship and intimacy shared with a women, but a quick dirty romp with a good male partner is quite fun for me.

Amen. Sexual encounters with men are much simpler. My first encounter was at a drunken New Years Eve party. My next was in a spa steam room. And they were both about realizing that it's ok to give in to a carnal desire. Taboo Schmaboo. I'm horny. It really is as simple as that if you just allow yourself to go with it.

 

[crash197177]

I was in my mid-forties and in a sexless marriage. Long story short, the idea of finding another married guy in the same situation and discretely giving each other exactly what we wanted simply for the taboo hedonistic exciting pleasure of it with no emotional component seemed thrilling.

When you get older, sex becomes more challenging. Everybody has their baggage and women don't have the same appeal they did when they were younger. Getting laid takes time, is expensive, and otherwise is a lengthy process with no assurance of success. Finding a guy and cutting directly to the chance without any bullshit has a definite appeal. Plus, you don't give a shit and are willing to take chances and find excitement in doing something different for a change.

When I accepted the fact that the idea of exchanging oral with a guy turned me on, I allowed myself to fantasize about it. I pictured myself pulling a guy's underwear down and seeing his dick for the first time and hearing, in my voice, the words "I want to suck your dick" escape my mouth. When the moment came when that actually happened and I was able to freely experience being with another guy and pleasuring each other for a couple of hours before going our separate ways, it was intense and liberating.

There are still many things I can only get through the companionship and intimacy shared with a women, but a quick dirty romp with a good male partner is quite fun for me.

Amen. Sexual encounters with men are much simpler. My first encounter was at a drunken New Years Eve party. My next was in a spa steam room. And they were both about realizing that it's ok to give in to a carnal desire. Taboo Schmaboo. I'm horny. It really is as simple as that if you just allow yourself to go with it.

 

[oralgami]

Amen. Sexual encounters with men are much simpler. My first encounter was at a drunken New Years Eve party. My next was in a spa steam room. And they were both about realizing that it's ok to give in to a carnal desire. Taboo Schmaboo. I'm horny. It really is as simple as that if you just allow yourself to go with it.

I love the "transactional" way guys have sex. One sunny weekday afternoon I found myself walking into the woods with another older guy. We had agreed before meeting that we would trade oral and now we were just two guys walking along talking about the weather and other things just to make small talk. One thing that we did NOT talk about was the purpose of us walking into the woods and it was hard to believe that the average looking guy with me would be the sort to do what we agreed to do. The small talk ended when he said "this should be good, don't you think?" I looked around and concurred. We then stood facing each other trying to figure out how to get started. Purely out of politeness and with as much consideration I would give to deciding whether to let another car go before me at an intersection, "I'll suck you first" as I dropped to my knees. He stepped in front of my and quickly had his pants down to his knees, exposing his junk. I immediately took his dick in my mouth and went to work. After a few minutes we traded places and alternated back and forth until we both came. Pants back up, retraced our steps back to the parking area, shook hands and went our separate ways.

 

[Intoanythin]

That's a hot story!

 

[lithos43]

I am also 60 years old and have always loved to wear panties,camisole,etc. Even though I am in a long lasting relationship with a loving wife, she does not have the desire for sex like I do. Since that has happened, I have developed a bi interest. I can not act on it though, because my wife means too much to me. Perhaps talking about with guys with similar situations like my own is what I need to do.

I'm older than you are and, like you, have a loving relationship with my wife. And like you, I love to wear lingerie (I'm wearing black, silky panties now.) A couple of nights ago I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed and when I looked at my image in the mirror - sheer polka dot panties - I couldn't resist stroking my cock until I came. Man, what a mess. My wife goes along with me wearing panties, but I think that deep down she's uneasy with it. Over the years, I've encouraged her to crossdress in men's underwear - thick white briefs and a t-shirt - And she's obliged from time to time, and the sex has been very good. Like you, I'm unwilling to act on my cocksucking fantasies. Chatting on Literotica will have to do.

 

[lithos43]

This thread needs a bump.

 

[dacoach44]

Why bi-curious?

Sissies and CD's are way more sexy than women my age; 71. They love to suck cock, they dont wanna marry or move in. If you take them out to a normal restaurant, they love you to pieces. I just dated a 37 Y O who looked gorgeous. They are shy about being "passable," but I am fearless and dont care what anyone says. They fuck on the first date once you get to know them with email and sending pics. I love it; have had a few dates. They can be hard to find, tho. I dont go to gay bars.

 

[dacoach44]

I'm older than you are and, like you, have a loving relationship with my wife. And like you, I love to wear lingerie (I'm wearing black, silky panties now.) A couple of nights ago I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed and when I looked at my image in the mirror - sheer polka dot panties - I couldn't resist stroking my cock until I came. Man, what a mess. My wife goes along with me wearing panties, but I think that deep down she's uneasy with it. Over the years, I've encouraged her to crossdress in men's underwear - thick white briefs and a t-shirt - And she's obliged from time to time, and the sex has been very good. Like you, I'm unwilling to act on my cocksucking fantasies. Chatting on Literotica will have to do.

Ever get in a chatroom with a sissy or CD and watch a dirty vid together? I fuckin LOVE it.

 

[vacharles]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

Don't know if it's common or not, I do know that I would try. it at least once in my lifetime, either with a TS or Bi male or a male who is gay . BTW I'm a 64 yo mwm.

 

[hubbyinstockings]

I am 68 and after having a very active sex life with my wife whos desires have now waned, I now find the thought of going with another guy just for sexual pleasure giving and receiving very exciting.

 

[blowit]

61yo married male and would love to have a male 'buddy'.