Why do people contact you for private chat?

Hmmm. I have had different experiences. Most folks have read my profile or are responding to another post I made, so that usually lets them start with a decent question. Only a few people have been deceptive, and it was somewhat obvious - if they were pressuring me into something that didn’t feel right.

I also remember how nervous I was when I started out, so if they are new to Lit, I offer to answer questions or see what they are looking for on here.

It’s helped me make a lot of friends!
Agreed. When I get a private message contact that is related to something I've posted or commented on, it usually results in a conversation. It may not last forever, but I don't necessarily expect that. I interpreted the original question being related to those out of the blue messages that relate to nothing.
 
I do it to get to know someone better. Share things you don’t want to a group to know. And the conversation should flow better when it just one on one. Not sure why people go MIA. I know life gets in the way. Maybe that’s it. So hit me up if you wanna chat. lol! And I will do my best not to bring the crickets along. 🤣🤣
 
I seem to get a fair amount of PM's from other men who read my profile and then want to chat about it and/or ask to talk about my wife and/or kids....to which I always say absolutely not. Otherwise, the rest are usually catphish....🤷‍♂️
 
I think it is a Mr or Mrs Right NOW situation.

I have had many wonderful first encounter and long thread then zippo.

It is frustrating as fuck but the ones that continue are worth it imo
 
I often get DMs sliding into my inbox providing their opinion of my beloved wife. Knowing most probably looking for a 3some opportunity or hoping I was a cuck but I'm definitely not into the latter 🙄

I've gotten to know a couple of guys who's been nothing but respectful and cool so the day she agrees she'd want said 3some or " moresome " I'll be letting them know when ahem 🙂
 
I often get DMs sliding into my inbox providing their opinion of my beloved wife. Knowing most probably looking for a 3some opportunity or hoping I was a cuck but I'm definitely not into the latter 🙄

I've gotten to know a couple of guys who's been nothing but respectful and cool so the day she agrees she'd want said 3some or " moresome " I'll be letting them know when ahem 🙂
I appreciate the Sean Connery reference
 
Then when you respond, contact you once again to draw you into conversation...... then *crickets*.

Nothing pisses me off more.
I get the same. They DM you a request, say a few typical responses like
yea
mmm
yeah and obviously came or lost interest
 
Mostly they want a quick nut or want me to give them a dirty fantasy and send them gifs. Then after that they ghost so I don’t rush or force anything I just go back to posting on threads
 
Mostly they want a quick nut or want me to give them a dirty fantasy and send them gifs. Then after that they ghost so I don’t rush or force anything I just go back to posting on threads
I try to put a little effort into my posts so if I go into a long post about doing xyz to someone I expect mor than
mmmmmm or
yeah or that’s nice…
And then it stops.
Did someone walk in on you?
Do u have narcolepsy???
did u cum??
 
I try to put a little effort into my posts so if I go into a long post about doing xyz to someone I expect mor than
mmmmmm or
yeah or that’s nice…
And then it stops.
Did someone walk in on you?
Do u have narcolepsy???
did u cum??
Same especially if it’s chemistry there and I’m into it
 
I rarely get PM’s. When I do they all seem to eventually turn into AI bot looking to chat on Telegram or WhatsApp. Then when you do chat there they will want you to send them money to “see more of their content”.
 
I rarely get PM’s. When I do they all seem to eventually turn into AI bot looking to chat on Telegram or WhatsApp. Then when you do chat there they will want you to send them money to “see more of their content”.
That’s one reason with some of those bots I play along if i don’t hear again I know something was up
 
Seems to be a lot of AI on here with the How are you... But sometimes i think people chat, maybe they dont care for each others chat and move on ? Drop pm to people to ask some questions, chat and sometimes to help each other out lol
 
I've had the good fortune to actually have some meaningful conversations over time. I do get the occasional contacts trying to lure me off of here and onto other sites for chat. I don't do that and those go away quickly.
I do enjoy chatting with others who share my interests.
 
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