Why do women like anal sex?

[NightBirdNYC]

I never got to fuck an ass yet, but have always wonder how it would feel on my cock

Oh but you must! My hubby once told me his cock felt like he was fucking my pussy and getting sucked at the same time I’ve grown to love anal, and often include it even when masturbating… Do your woman a favor! Go slow and use lots of lube, she’ll thank you for it!
https://vlix.io/video/2900fe129741a9c0f385/

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

Oh but you must! My hubby once told me his cock felt like he was fucking my pussy and getting sucked at the same time I’ve grown to love anal, and often include it even when masturbating… Do your woman a favor! Go slow and use lots of lube, she’ll thank you for it!
https://vlix.io/video/2900fe129741a9c0f385/

Very nice ! Lucky neighbor

 

[9to5]

Oh but you must! My hubby once told me his cock felt like he was fucking my pussy and getting sucked at the same time I’ve grown to love anal, and often include it even when masturbating… Do your woman a favor! Go slow and use lots of lube, she’ll thank you for it!
https://vlix.io/video/2900fe129741a9c0f385/

I have used a finger on her so I must go to something bigger like me. Im not a lot bigger lol

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Oh but you must! My hubby once told me his cock felt like he was fucking my pussy and getting sucked at the same time I’ve grown to love anal, and often include it even when masturbating… Do your woman a favor! Go slow and use lots of lube, she’ll thank you for it!
https://vlix.io/video/2900fe129741a9c0f385/

I always lube her up for an hour or two with my tongue first.

 

[Codlingsby]

Most don't. It's a myth that most do. Although I would suggest that most men would like to think most women do.

Yes, I reckon you're 100% right

 

[Oldswan81]

I know girls who hate it, no matter what. I’ve fucked a woman up the arse on a first date, glorious.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Because it brings out the inner slut in them.

Not necessarily. For some women the inner slut doesn't exist.

 

[liqueur]

I definitely feel violated after anal sex, not in the way that It hurt, but definitely used and dirty.

As a man (well, sort of), that's exactly how i feel. And I love it.

I like that feeling although I do worry about what that says about me.

I kind of hope he spreads the word about what a slut I am like I spread my cheeks for him.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I enjoy it a lot, very often during masturbation as well
https://vlix.io/video/c0cde8eca4b86a8fe1df/

 

[NapierBone]

Usually because I’ve been rimming her for a while.

 

[LMWM321]

"Why do [some] women like anal sex?

Maybe they're able to enjoy it because they've freed themselves from this mistaken belief that it's inherently degrading and misogynistic.

In college, that was the prevailing view among self-anointed feminists. I struggled to understand this because I wanted to do it with my GF, and yet I had ZERO interest in humiliating or degrading her! Indeed, I adored her and hoped she would enjoy it as much as I did.

...And this same woman, who is now my wife, often pegs me and I don't feel the least bit degraded, or feminized by it. Nor does it stir any interest in having sex with a man. Nope, I'm a fully heterosexual male who enjoys how it feels when my wife pushes something - eg., a finger, dildo, buttplug, etc.. - up my ass. So I don't find it the least bit surprising that there are women who enjoy it, too.

Thankfully, most people regard anal sex differently now. Even if they have little interest in engaging in it, themselves.

 

[mousberry]

"Why do [some] women like anal sex?

Maybe they're able to enjoy it because they've freed themselves from this mistaken belief that it's inherently degrading and misogynistic.

In college, that was the prevailing view among self-anointed feminists. I struggled to understand this because I wanted to do it with my GF, and yet I had ZERO interest in humiliating or degrading her! Indeed, I adored her and hoped she would enjoy it as much as I did.

...And this same woman, who is now my wife, often pegs me and I don't feel the least bit degraded, or feminized by it. Nor does it stir any interest in having sex with a man. Nope, I'm a fully heterosexual male who enjoys how it feels when my wife pushes something - eg., a finger, dildo, buttplug, etc.. - up my ass. So I don't find it the least bit surprising that there are women who enjoy it, too.

Thankfully, most people regard anal sex differently now. Even if they have little interest in engaging in it, themselves.

If you discount the mental aspect, I'm not sure what a woman has to get out of anal sex. If a woman does get pleasure from just anal then it's the penis rubbing up against the g spot which is much more accessible through vaginal sex.

Even from a male perspective without the mental part I'm not sure why you would want anal sex when the vaginal is so much easier.

To be clear I think it's fine that it's degrading and stuff as long as everyone is consenting. I just don't think you should pretend. You can degrade in the bedroom and be respectful in normal life

And not to be too gross but you are penetrating an unclean hole where she defecates from and it's likely to be quite painful regardless of the amount of lube and it won't give her any pleasure on its own. How is that not degrading?

 

[LMWM321]

I'm not sure what a woman has to get out of anal sex.

Do you doubt those women who say they enjoy it? Indeed, there are some (Nikki Glaser being one famous example) who claim to enjoy it more than PIV sex. And like I said, I very much enjoy being pegged so I have NO difficulty believing there are women who enjoy it.

o be clear I think it's fine that it's degrading and stuff as long as everyone is consenting. I just don't think you should pretend.

Are you doubting me when I tell you that I don't have degradation in mind when I'm engaging in anal sex with my wife? Or that I feel degraded when she pegs me?? And what about Gay men? ..Most (though not all) engage in anal sex. Are you saying that they all should feel degraded by the act? That seems homophobic to me.

And not to be too gross but you are penetrating an unclean hole where she defecates from

Yes, I'm aware. And not to be too gross, either... This is why we don't engage in it if there is "stuff" in our rectum. ..You know, kinda like the way my wife doesn't give me head when her mouth is full of food. If you have a healthy diet and are having completely bowel movements, there should be little, if anything, in your rectum. Is there bacteria there? Yes, of course. So the dude should wash his dick before sticking it anywhere else.

 

[mousberry]

Do you doubt those women who say they enjoy it? Indeed, there are some (Nikki Glaser being one famous example) who claim to enjoy it more than PIV sex. And like I said, I very much enjoy being pegged so I have NO difficulty believing there are women who enjoy it.


Are you doubting me when I tell you that I don't have degradation in mind when I'm engaging in anal sex with my wife? Or that I feel degraded when she pegs me?? And what about Gay men? ..Most (though not all) engage in anal sex. Are you saying that they all should feel degraded by the act? That seems homophobic to me.

Yes, I'm aware. And not to be too gross, either... This is why we don't engage in it if there is shit in our rectum. ..You know, kinda like the way my wife doesn't give me head when her mouth is full of food. If you have a healthy diet and are having completely bowel movements, there should be little, if anything, in your rectum. Is there bacteria there? Yes, of course. So the dude should wash his dick before sticking it anywhere else.

Men have prostates so it makes sense that it feels good for them. As I said there is no reason why a woman would want anal sex over vaginal if we're talking pure sensory feeling. There has to be some mental turn on behind the sensory feeling that makes it pleasurable.

I think women, including myself, enjoy it for the same reason some women like hair pulling or choking. It's an expression of submission and domination. It firmly puts the woman in a lower, more vulnerable and degrading position.

And yeah any manifestation of sub/dom dynamics is degrading to varying degrees which is FINE to be clear. But you have to be honest with yourself.

Also pointing to a female porn star saying anal feels good is such a malebrained thing to do lol. She is a performer and will say anything to make your dick hard.

 

[liqueur]

Also pointing to a female porn star saying anal feels good is such a malebrained thing to do lol. She is a performer and will say anything to make your dick hard.

• I don't think mental and physical can be so easily divided as you seem to believe.
• Heard from plenty of women who say they like anal as much or more than vaginal.
• She's not a porn star. I think she be pretty amused at being called one.

 

[mousberry]

• I don't think mental and physical can be so easily divided as you seem to believe.
• Heard from plenty of women who say they like anal as much or more than vaginal.
• She's not a porn star. I think she be pretty amused at being called one.

My argument doesn't depend on the isolation of physical and mental pleasure.
I'm not discounting that anal might feel better than vaginal for some women, but that would be heavily dependent on the imagination that comes with the sensory feeling. I'm saying that more often than not, the imagination involves submission and degradation.
And my bad but she's a comedian and still a performer and still liable to say outlandish things for attention.

 

[liqueur]

I'm not discounting that anal might feel better than vaginal for some women, but that would be heavily dependent on the imagination that comes with the sensory feeling. I'm saying that more often than not, the imagination involves submission and degradation.

I've encountered many women— on FetLife, for instance where women tend much more strongly toward feminism— who would take umbrage with this statement. Personally. I love submission and degradation, and I enjoy having my anal linked with them. But what I like is irrelevant, because I don't have a vagina.

I think what rankles is not your idea in itself, but your assumption that you can speak for all women when you say it. And I will agree, before you even say it, that no non-vagina person should presume to speak for women on this or any other issue. That's a huge problem wherever men are gathered.

 

[mousberry]

I've encountered many women— on FetLife, for instance where women tend much more strongly toward feminism— who would take umbrage with this statement. Personally. I love submission and degradation, and I enjoy having my anal linked with them. But what I like is irrelevant, because I don't have a vagina.

Oh well I know of a spaceman who says the moon is made of cheese...

I'm not super interested in what these other vague parties say. Referencing their existence isn't a very strong argument. And I wouldn't say your opinion on the topic is irrelevant at all; if I weren't interested in what you had to say, I wouldn't have replied.

 

[LMWM321]

My argument doesn't depend on the isolation of physical and mental pleasure.
I'm not discounting that anal might feel better than vaginal for some women, but that would be heavily dependent on the imagination that comes with the sensory feeling. I'm saying that more often than not, the imagination involves submission and degradation.
And my bad but she's a comedian and still a performer and still liable to say outlandish things for attention.

I still don't understand your skepticism. As a woman, I'd think you'd be inclined to simply take other women's word for it when they say that it feels good for them. That doesn't mean it feels better than PIV, or that it's part of their usual sexual routine. And it's NOT supposed to be painful. If it is, it's not being done properly. This point has been asserted over and over again by sex therapists.

And not all men have prostates. Men who have enjoyed receptive anal sex and end up having prostatectomies for prostate cancer will generally continue to enjoy how it feels. So it isn't necessarily about the prostate.

My wife absolutely loves being rimmed. And she insists it simply feels good and has nothing whatsoever to do with any power dynamic. Do you doubt this as well? Some women truly enjoy giving head, claiming it's inherently enjoyable for them - ie., rather than done to merely please their partner. Do you doubt this as well?

And I am NOT speaking for women, but rather referring to statements made by women.

 

[mousberry]

I still don't understand your skepticism. As a woman, I'd think you'd be inclined to simply take other women's word for it when they say that it feels good for them. That doesn't mean it feels better than PIV, or that it's part of their usual sexual routine. And it's NOT supposed to be painful. If it is, it's not being done properly. This point has been asserted over and over again by sex therapists.

Well in a more extreme example, a person who prefaces a racist comment with the phrase "I'm not racist, but..." might still very well be racist. Just because a person says a thing isn't a thing, doesn't mean it's not that thing.

Your wife can say there is no power dynamic but there is a power dynamic whenever you interact with a person. Factors of age, wealth and status always, no matter what, play a role in the way you interact with people in the world.

And my point is that submission in any case is degrading to varying degrees. And I don't think degradation and submission is inherently bad either. Just that when one person puts themselves in a dominant position of control over another, they are raising their profile while reducing the other's.

 

[liqueur]

I'm not super interested in what these other vague parties say. Referencing their existence isn't a very strong argument.

But why is it that you think that for you to speak for other women is any more valid?

As for myself, I am interested, because for me they're not vague parties at all, they’re people I know or have known of— and respected— for years, whereas you (to me) are a “vague party” who only appeared here out of the blue a month ago.

 

[mousberry]

But why is it that you think that for you to speak for other women is any more valid?

Because I have confidence in myself as an educated woman who has studied this topic.

I have no idea who these people are or what they say. Their existence as 'feminists' doesn't mean anything to me personally.

If you were able to relay their arguments that would be more helpful. I also know of feminists who would agree with me, but again I have confidence in myself to not need to mention that they exist.

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

If you discount the mental aspect, I'm not sure what a woman has to get out of anal sex. If a woman does get pleasure from just anal then it's the penis rubbing up against the g spot which is much more accessible through vaginal sex.

Even from a male perspective without the mental part I'm not sure why you would want anal sex when the vaginal is so much easier.

To be clear I think it's fine that it's degrading and stuff as long as everyone is consenting. I just don't think you should pretend. You can degrade in the bedroom and be respectful in normal life

And not to be too gross but you are penetrating an unclean hole where she defecates from and it's likely to be quite painful regardless of the amount of lube and it won't give her any pleasure on its own. How is that not degrading?

Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they all stink

 

[KinkStevens]

I have had anal sex a number of times over the years. Early on it was a form of birth control. I tend to enjoy variety so anal sex is different and a welcome change now and then. And yes I have had orgasms just from anal fucking. I have talked to a number of guys about anal and I think the big thrill for them is that the woman is willing to let them fuck her ass. I guess it is like swallowing their cum. Something that they are excited that a woman will do for them.

Bingo

 

[KinkStevens]

If you discount the mental aspect, I'm not sure what a woman has to get out of anal sex. If a woman does get pleasure from just anal then it's the penis rubbing up against the g spot which is much more accessible through vaginal sex.

Even from a male perspective without the mental part I'm not sure why you would want anal sex when the vaginal is so much easier.

To be clear I think it's fine that it's degrading and stuff as long as everyone is consenting. I just don't think you should pretend. You can degrade in the bedroom and be respectful in normal life

And not to be too gross but you are penetrating an unclean hole where she defecates from and it's likely to be quite painful regardless of the amount of lube and it won't give her any pleasure on its own. How is that not degrading?

The degradation is part of why I love it so