Why do women like anal sex?

[lustatsea]

Does anyone orgasm just with anal? Like no touching pussy at all, just anal?

My wife does occasionally. At the right angle, my cock or a toy hits a spot that starts her pussy drooling and squirting. She says she's a big fan of her anal orgasms.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

So I have been with a few ladies. In MY experience anal is a no go. Maybe we tried a it was painful, some we did it but wasn’t interested after that. Only 2 have enjoyed it. Only 1 of those was it a common occurrence the other one enjoyed it but said it was painful going in so I never pushed the topic. But if she drank too much she would want to. I would tell her no, in my opinion it’s not real fair to take advantage. After a couple of times of me turning her down she talked to me (while sober) explaining she wanted to and that it was ok. So every once in a while we would. BUT end of the night, no prep, hammered, microwave bar food eating anal not the best. I’m just sayin.

 

[Britva415]

An abuser doesn't have to have the intent to harm or the awareness that they are harming.

And I speak for myself lol can I not have opinions on a thing that I'm not apart of?

But you haven't been clearly just speaking for yourself. You've been appearing to label every anal sex haver as an abuser or as abused. You've been appearing to label all anal sex as harmful.

That's why you're getting push-back.

If you want to roll it back and make real good and clear that you're not projecting harm and abuse onto other people, onto the exact very same ones who are telling you they don't experience what you say is happening, only to see you say back to them that they're wrong, then you're free to go ahead and roll it back.

You can have opinions. But when the person you have the opinion about tells you you're uninformed and wrong about it, I don't know why you'd double down instead of believing them.

 

[Britva415]

you're uninformed and wrong about it

#inb4 ❝No THEY'RE wrong❞

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Well in a more extreme example, a person who prefaces a racist comment with the phrase "I'm not racist, but..." might still very well be racist. Just because a person says a thing isn't a thing, doesn't mean it's not that thing.

Your wife can say there is no power dynamic but there is a power dynamic whenever you interact with a person. Factors of age, wealth and status always, no matter what, play a role in the way you interact with people in the world.

And my point is that submission in any case is degrading to varying degrees. And I don't think degradation and submission is inherently bad either. Just that when one person puts themselves in a dominant position of control over another, they are raising their profile while reducing the other's.

You just said no one can be equal because there is always a power dynamic whenever you interact with another person.

 

[mousberry]

But you haven't been clearly just speaking for yourself. You've been appearing to label every anal sex haver as an abuser or as abused. You've been appearing to label all anal sex as harmful.

No, I didn't say that.

You can roll it back and reread the thread because I'm not going to repeat myself.

You just said no one can be equal because there is always a power dynamic whenever you interact with another person.

Correct. Life isn't fair!

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

No, I didn't say that.

You can roll it back and reread the thread because I'm not going to repeat myself.


Correct. Life isn't fair!

I’m sorry you feel that way. You don’t always have to win because it’s not always game. Usually people who feel that way are trying to fill some void in themselves that’s insatiable. You will always loose looking at things that way. Thats sad. How isn’t life fair.

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

You have nerves all over your body. The existence of nerves in and around the anus doesn't demand that it be seen as a sexual organ. The sexual pleasure is projected by the imagination, which involves some level of submission and domination.


A person larger than you with more muscles has more power than you. I believe everyone should be treated equally too but real life doesn't always play out that way.

Nope I don’t allow anyone to have power over me I could care less there size weather they have a gun a bomb whatever

 

[tristantrotsky]

Mmmmm can i join? I'd love tongue on my pussy too

Don't be greedy, RealNiceGirl, I've already had my tongue deep inside your pussy...

 

[tristantrotsky]

Does anyone orgasm just with anal? Like no touching pussy at all, just anal?

Even when I'm taking you anally, Lily, I'm overwhelmingly tempted to give your pussy some attention too. It seems unfair to neglect such a beautiful pussy.
Does that invalidate your question...?

 

[LMWM321]

But you haven't been clearly just speaking for yourself. You've been appearing to label every anal sex haver as an abuser or as abused. You've been appearing to label all anal sex as harmful.

That's why you're getting push-back.

If you want to roll it back and make real good and clear that you're not projecting harm and abuse onto other people, onto the exact very same ones who are telling you they don't experience what you say is happening, only to see you say back to them that they're wrong, then you're free to go ahead and roll it back.

You can have opinions. But when the person you have the opinion about tells you you're uninformed and wrong about it, I don't know why you'd double down instead of believing them.

well said.

@mousberry is a bully and a sexual bigot. ..And certainly NOT a feminist as no feminist would tell all women who enjoy anal sex that they are essentially too dumb to know that they are being degraded.

@mousberry... Please don't set your career sights on becoming a sex therapist or a sex educator.

 

[mousberry]

well said.

@mousberry is a bully and a sexual bigot. ..And certainly NOT a feminist as no feminist would tell all women who enjoy anal sex that they are essentially too dumb to know that they are being degraded.

Water off a duck's back. Some men really can't stand having a woman disagree with them. If you don't agree with me, that's fine, but if you're going to continue posting in this thread, I'd prefer you to actually contribute to the discussion rather than throw around these childish names.

And I certainly won't let a man define for me what feminism is.