boredVAwife
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Why nice guys are never seen
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's to another one that gets it. 
firefighterscott
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Ive been told i was nice maybe thats what im doing wrong.
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OMG. BRAVO! You, mate, have hit the nail right square on the proverbial head. Well done!
(Ah, that's right, you're Texan. Then I'm not surprised.
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DAVIDSride656
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Ok ... I'm a 27 year old female .. I have dated , screwed , and toyed with all kinds of men shapes sizes ages...
THIS is what I have learned ...
A nice guys are what women want !! It's scary not to be treated like dirt ! Being so broken in and broken down to think a nice guy isnt what we deserve.
I met my man about 4 years ago the best kindest nicest man you will ever meet !
He was broken by someone who TOTALLY did not ! Deserve him. I have seen the man he is ! And was and know how hard it is for him to ever completely be that sweet sweet man .. So yea he is cocky and a dick at times but I am damned and determined to wait for the guy I saw and felt with my heart and soul ..
Forever if it must be ...
GUYS don't Give up and don't be used at the same time there is a good girl or guy for everyone it's the drive and the determination that people lack today to get what or who they want.
THIS is what I have learned ...
A nice guys are what women want !! It's scary not to be treated like dirt ! Being so broken in and broken down to think a nice guy isnt what we deserve.
I met my man about 4 years ago the best kindest nicest man you will ever meet !
He was broken by someone who TOTALLY did not ! Deserve him. I have seen the man he is ! And was and know how hard it is for him to ever completely be that sweet sweet man .. So yea he is cocky and a dick at times but I am damned and determined to wait for the guy I saw and felt with my heart and soul ..
Forever if it must be ...
GUYS don't Give up and don't be used at the same time there is a good girl or guy for everyone it's the drive and the determination that people lack today to get what or who they want.
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I can look at both sides of the spectrum with this thread.Yes.,the prick side of me says.,stop being a pissy cry baby and move on.But alot of people (Statistically) are in situations (Relationships) that they are prisoners of.
It is very simple for me to say "get over it".,but I am not in that situation so realistically I am not qualified to make that statement.Relationships obviously are a mother fucker at times and are very demanding emotionally and they also take their toll on your mind.
It has been proven that emotional damage is as damaging to your mind set as physical abuse.
I could not fathom the idea of coming home from work and walk in the front door and get knocked on my ass because I was a few minutes late.Drastic?.,absolutely.,but it happens.
Woman and men who suffer physical abuse are prisoners.You or I may say.,fucking leave.,simple for us but we are not in their situation.And I understand that there is people @ Lit that have in fact seen this type of abuse and can relate.
Emotional abuse comes in many forms from name calling to cheating.I could not imagine caring so much for someone and put all your heart and soul into pleasing them only to find out they were fucking someone else when they have looked in my eyes professing their love to me.
I could see how someone could become emotionally distraught.That would suck pretty bad.As goofy as it sounds this thread has been on my mind from the time I read it.
I could say what I would do but until I have lived or am living in those conditions I cannot accurately and honestly say what I would do or not do.
Do I think the original poster could have found a different way and place to vent his sorrow and frustration??.,yes
A good guy is someone IMO that provides for his family/himself,loves his mate,treats them as he would like to be treated,is honest and has a level of personal ethics and integrity.That IMO is a great foundation for the construction of a "Good Guy" status.
I really don't think there is a "Nice Guy" book for dummies.A little funny,,not too funny.,open the door,hold your head this way or order from a menu this way.,You can do all these things and still get fucked over or you can have all those things done for you and still get fucked over.
It's the luck of the draw.,IMO of course.
It is very simple for me to say "get over it".,but I am not in that situation so realistically I am not qualified to make that statement.Relationships obviously are a mother fucker at times and are very demanding emotionally and they also take their toll on your mind.
It has been proven that emotional damage is as damaging to your mind set as physical abuse.
I could not fathom the idea of coming home from work and walk in the front door and get knocked on my ass because I was a few minutes late.Drastic?.,absolutely.,but it happens.
Woman and men who suffer physical abuse are prisoners.You or I may say.,fucking leave.,simple for us but we are not in their situation.And I understand that there is people @ Lit that have in fact seen this type of abuse and can relate.
Emotional abuse comes in many forms from name calling to cheating.I could not imagine caring so much for someone and put all your heart and soul into pleasing them only to find out they were fucking someone else when they have looked in my eyes professing their love to me.
I could see how someone could become emotionally distraught.That would suck pretty bad.As goofy as it sounds this thread has been on my mind from the time I read it.
I could say what I would do but until I have lived or am living in those conditions I cannot accurately and honestly say what I would do or not do.
Do I think the original poster could have found a different way and place to vent his sorrow and frustration??.,yes
A good guy is someone IMO that provides for his family/himself,loves his mate,treats them as he would like to be treated,is honest and has a level of personal ethics and integrity.That IMO is a great foundation for the construction of a "Good Guy" status.
I really don't think there is a "Nice Guy" book for dummies.A little funny,,not too funny.,open the door,hold your head this way or order from a menu this way.,You can do all these things and still get fucked over or you can have all those things done for you and still get fucked over.
It's the luck of the draw.,IMO of course.
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Benedict_Arnold
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Because on Lit you have to do 200 posts or something before you can have an av.
firefighterscott
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I think nice guys are here but unless you post alot on threads the woman of lit dont know your out there.Ive been having same problem where its hard to meet people out here when they are only paying attention to the ones that are on here daily.Dont give up guys there is a woman on lit out there for everyone.
Numnuttz
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Have you tried sending a p.m introducing yourself?
firefighterscott
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Many times to many ladies.
LindsayRae
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Ah, yes, the unsolicited PM. How fun.
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And they are not even full of smut
LindsayRae
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Well, my smut is in the written form (if I ever get a new damn story written and submitted, that is). "Smut PMs" are still unsolicited here!
