Why the after sex bathroom use?

[Legsandassman]

Ladies, what exactly are you doing in the bathroom after sex? I've started dating this girl and after every time we have sex she hops up and goes to the bathroom. A friend told me that she's probably "getting the come out". I don't even come inside her most of the time.

Now that I think about it, this question has plagued me forever since I've been with other women who have done it too...and I've always wondered what is going on in there. Someone please enlighten me.

 

[happybirthday]

I usually really have to pee...

I think it is the excitement or something. Also, it is kind of nice to wipe cum, lubriation, secretions off.

 

[rosebud5446]

 

[BreeCarter]

Ladies, what exactly are you doing in the bathroom after sex? I've started dating this girl and after every time we have sex she hops up and goes to the bathroom. A friend told me that she's probably "getting the come out". I don't even come inside her most of the time.

Now that I think about it, this question has plagued me forever since I've been with other women who have done it too...and I've always wondered what is going on in there. Someone please enlighten me.

a) clean up the mess, and b) if you've actually orgasmed, it usually makes you feel like you have to pee.

 

[glynndah]

Many doctors recommend a bathroom break to avoid UTIs.

 

[GeekySub]

Intercourse can put pressure on the bladder, making one feel the urge to pee.

Also some women do like to clean up (not me though...I enjoy feeling the cum between my legs..)

 

[pinkeden]

Yeup

Unfortunately I'm on of those "break the mood and hop up and pee" girls.

My mum always told me to go pee after sex (to stop Urinary Tract Infections), and I usually regret it if I don't. Friction and bacteria (sweat and bodily) don't go together well.

Plus yeah, usually after sex I do get the urge to pee anyway.

 

[CrazyBitch5]

ya, i usually get a HUGE urge to pee right after sex. if has nothing to do with the guy, its just "something" has been pushing on my bladder for a while so......ya, i gotta pee
didn't realize it prevented UTI's. good to know

 

[tanyachrs]

I don't feel the urge to hop up if the guy didn't come inside me, but I try to remember to do it anyway. UTIs, baby.

 

[abbey_kyle]

keep in mind the differences between male and female reprodcutive systems....I'll add to everyone else here with the comments on UTIs. I don't think men realize how easily women can get them.

 

[Eilan]

What others have said--UTI's. I went through a four-or-five year stretch where I'd get at least three of them every year. They suck. A woman's urethra is much shorter than a man's urethra, so bacteria don't have to travel as far to get to the bladder.

My ex always resented it because I'd get up after sex to go to the bathroom. No, it's not romantic, but neither is a UTI.

 

[Legsandassman]

Thanks everyone. I have always known about the UTI thing in the back of my head, but never really put two and two together. I guess I never realized that you have to deal with it every time you have sex.

One more question...what about when guy cums in you? When you go to the bathroom are you just basically wiping it away for pregnancy issues? Or are you doing it for cleanliness reasons? Or both? I've been tempted to ask the girl I've been dating but haven't figured out how.

 

[Eilan]

When you go to the bathroom are you just basically wiping it away for pregnancy issues?

I keep tissues by the bed for cleaning up before I head to the bathroom, as I don't want to drip down the hallway.

Pregnancy isn't a concern for me, but I'd imagine that cum-wiping is as effective a BC method as a Coca-Cola douche.

 

[Legsandassman]

Pregnancy isn't a concern for me, but I'd imagine that cum-wiping is as effective a BC method as a Coca-Cola douche.

Ha, good point.

 

[Carnevil9]

Probably retching.

 

[M's girl]

Why do men wipe the cum off their belly (or elsewhere) after they ejaculate?
Right. There's your answer probably.

Personally I never go to the bathroom after unless I have to pee (we all go when we have to pee, no?). I don't mind, or better yet, love the feeling of his cum between my legs during the night but we're all different and I have been lucky thus far to never have to deal with UTI's.

Uhm.... why does it bother you so much anyway? You try sleeping in a pool of your own cum all night. Some of us just don't appreciate it that much.

 

[sunandshadow]

Aside from that fact that I gush and tend to be rather slimy and sticky by the time the sex is over, the bed and I also get overheated and sweaty, just getting up for a few minutes gives everything a chance to cool down and dry off until it's comfy for sleeping in again.

 

[Amora]

Personally, it's simply to clean up a little, and to be honest, being a little overweight the additional secretions etc can cause a little ....um....chafing if left for too long after a particularly hot session!

It's a mood killer unless, like me and my DH do you both go to the bathroom together and wash each other off. Done the right way, this simply extends the cuddling time together afterwards and means we can snuggle up together and sleep better (not that sleep is an issue )

Amora

 

[BreeCarter]

Thanks everyone. I have always known about the UTI thing in the back of my head, but never really put two and two together. I guess I never realized that you have to deal with it every time you have sex.

One more question...what about when guy cums in you? When you go to the bathroom are you just basically wiping it away for pregnancy issues? Or are you doing it for cleanliness reasons? Or both? I've been tempted to ask the girl I've been dating but haven't figured out how.

wiping it away for pregnancy issues is stupid, because that will do absolutely nothing. whatever is on the outside is most likely dead by the time you go to wipe anyway, and what is swimming in there is going to stay in there regardless if you pee and/or wipe or not, because it's two completely different holes. generally speaking it's because it's really uncomfortable to get up and walk around and constantly have cum draining out of you. i have to ask how old you are to ask some of these questions. i mean not to sound rude, but you sound pretty young, because these are pretty common sense.

 

[virgin_not]

Just simply to take a leak,wash and clean up...and be all set,fresh and clean for the next round!http://www.websmileys.com/sm/evil/105.gif

 

[Legsandassman]

i have to ask how old you are to ask some of these questions. i mean not to sound rude, but you sound pretty young, because these are pretty common sense.

Ha, if you think those questions were dumb, you should hear some of the others I have. It's not like I'm walking around thinking about this stuff all day, was merely just wondering what was going on. Can see what you are talking about though, walking around dripping cum down your leg would piss me off too.

 

[BreeCarter]

Ha, if you think those questions were dumb, you should hear some of the others I have. It's not like I'm walking around thinking about this stuff all day, was merely just wondering what was going on. Can see what you are talking about though, walking around dripping cum down your leg would piss me off too.

no, i'm not calling you dumb, i just figured that most people having sex would know this much about it. and i'm happy to answer them, no problem.