Will my wife actually cuck me someday? I feel like there’s momentum..

[Domwoodsman]

I’ve had a long, twisting journey since admitting my Hotwife/cuck fetish to my wife of 10 years. Her first thought was shock, and maybe even a little anger. She expressed that she made it feel like I didn’t really love her, or that I was trying to justify an open marriage in general - which, I’ve never wanted to sleep with someone else.

However, little by little, she has begun to understand it more. Originally we used a dildo, before she even knew I was interested in hotwifing. It was primarily for me to see how she would react to more size. Long story short, she really enjoyed it despite denying it at first and now it’s a regular part of the rotation. Would love to elaborate in DMs or on here if there’s interest but want to keep moving for sake of brevity.

When she learned about my fetish and had that initial repelled reaction, the dildo was shelved for a bit. Until, we did finally use it again and the dirty talk was more intense than ever. She called it a big cock, said it was gonna make her cum harder, etc. it was electric and made me wonder if she started to somewhat see the potential sexiness of the idea.

Flash forward a bit to like a few months ago. Wife and I watched porn for the first time (not literally, but for the first time while masturbating together.) She has really taken to this. We started with more typical clips and videos, but steadily I’ve incorporated Hotwife/cuckold clips (particularly from Reddit) and it’s gotten a lot more intense. Now, we will dirty talk during the porn sessions, she’ll talk about “how good that would feel,” and “I wish I was her.” The other night, I asked her while we were watching if doing this has made her think about getting fucked more often, think about bigger cocks more often, and she said yes. Will move on, but again if anyone would like to know more about the clips I’ve shown her or how this part has gone I’m happy to elaborate.

Now, I’m left wondering if there really is a chance she would do this someday. I don’t have that expectation of her, and as I have repeatedly told her about many things, the only reason I would enjoy it is if she wants to. Otherwise it’s not appealing to me. However, I do wonder if her mind is opening to it. While the dirty talk is much, much more intense while we watch porn or use the dildo, she is saying and doing more outside of that now. Pretty casual, “oh that celebrity is hot, I’d fuck him” type stuff which is not a big deal but nothing like she would have said even a couple years ago.

Thanks for reading, just wanted to share and vent the journey so far. I’m excited but very deliberately not pushing things fast (or at all, really) and letting them play out how she wants it too. Would love to know if anyone has similar experiences, or what they think my odds are etc.

I've been a bull for many years ( started getting regulars on Craigslist before it stopped personals) and have enjoyed many wives, often in front of their men. The key thing for you guys is that you choose her first bull wisely as a misstep at that stage could set her back, or worse, stop the adventure all together.
Also just be careful what you wish for as I've often started with a new couple, where the lady is shy and unadventurous, but by pushing her boundaries over a few visits she can be turned into a proper slut. Once she's at that level, they'll be no turning her back.
I'd suggest your next stage is setting her up with a bull online where she can test her boundaries ( texting, photos, videos etc) in the comfort/ safety of her own home. If he's any good she'll be creaming herself constantly.

 

[Rugburn349]

Slippery slope but an exciting one.

Tell me more

 

[Rugburn349]

I've been a bull for many years ( started getting regulars on Craigslist before it stopped personals) and have enjoyed many wives, often in front of their men. The key thing for you guys is that you choose her first bull wisely as a misstep at that stage could set her back, or worse, stop the adventure all together.
Also just be careful what you wish for as I've often started with a new couple, where the lady is shy and unadventurous, but by pushing her boundaries over a few visits she can be turned into a proper slut. Once she's at that level, they'll be no turning her back.
I'd suggest your next stage is setting her up with a bull online where she can test her boundaries ( texting, photos, videos etc) in the comfort/ safety of her own home. If he's any good she'll be creaming herself constantly.

Does the wife become sluttier because of greater attraction to the bull? Or because of the newness? Both?

 

[docoral]

She hasn’t even slept with anyone else yet nor agreed to lol. Just her and I tonight, though she wants to dress slutty.

I stand corrected! When posters talk about date night it's usually the wife stepping out on her own. Both of you going on a play date, kool. Have fun!!! I know what you're going through, I'm sure you're excited. Feel free to PM me with details, maybe compare notes LOL

 

[danbuff]

I've been a bull for many years ( started getting regulars on Craigslist before it stopped personals) and have enjoyed many wives, often in front of their men. The key thing for you guys is that you choose her first bull wisely as a misstep at that stage could set her back, or worse, stop the adventure all together.
Also just be careful what you wish for as I've often started with a new couple, where the lady is shy and unadventurous, but by pushing her boundaries over a few visits she can be turned into a proper slut. Once she's at that level, they'll be no turning her back.
I'd suggest your next stage is setting her up with a bull online where she can test her boundaries ( texting, photos, videos etc) in the comfort/ safety of her own home. If he's any good she'll be creaming herself constantly.

Wish I could fine a guy like you!

 

[Domwoodsman]

Does the wife become sluttier because of greater attraction to the bull? Or because of the newness? Both?

In my experience, a wife who may often be the dominant force in the couple will enjoy being owned by her bull, and become incredibly submissive with him. She often enjoys humiliating her husband by comparing him. Not in all cases of course. Some just enjoy putting on a show for their man

 

[Domwoodsman]

Wish I could fine a guy like you!

Always happy to help

 

[docoral]

Does the wife become sluttier because of greater attraction to the bull? Or because of the newness? Both?

Domwoodsman is spot on. If she sees you're comfortable with her fucking, being ravaged by another man, you can bet your ass she'll become sluttier. She may have episodes of guilt, be there for her. You're assuring her it's OK for her to explore her sexuality to the fullest. Just keep hedonistic sexcapades separate from your intimate lovemaking with your wife.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

My wife craves presenting me, her sub kinky cock whore, dressed sexy slutty in fetish wear to our bull cock doms.....

 

[Domwoodsman]

Unfortunately it's that cheeky wife I want

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Unfortunately it's that cheeky wife I want

She would be more than willing......yours for the taking.....any way.....any where you wish.......

 

[Domwoodsman]

Now we're talking. I'll multiple spunk that bitch in all her holes while you watch cucky boy. I'll let you clean up the mess

 

[dz2681]

Date night tonight: excited!

How was date night?

 

[Rugburn349]

How was date night?

It went great! Nothing too crazy happened. I’ve been wanting to make sure not to push anything too hard on the wife. She’s been wanting real romantic connection and I don’t want to forget about that in obsession over what is still just a fantasy.

However, she did dress slutty with a low shirt that really showed off her tits. And guys were checking her out, one even talking to her when she stepped away to a line in order to get another drink. I asked if she noticed that she gets checked out, and she said she does. I asked her how often she thinks this happens and she basically said, “not to brag about myself but all the time.” She said she gets hit on a lot but just has never brought it up; I told her I’d love to her about it whenever it happens and that it’s hot to me.

The next night, she out of nowhere started to give me head. But, she pulled out the vibrator and used it on herself as she took care of me. It was extraordinarily hot to see her pleasure overwhelm her, causing her to for brief moments “forget” about my cock as she was just trying to process how good she felt. After she was done she said she wanted to use the dildo on the wall and do that but was too shy to ask. I told her we absolutely will do that soon.

So, nothing too crazy update wise. But, as I’m not embellishing/exaggerating and genuinely just telling the story as it goes it may be moments of slower pace.

 

[dz2681]

It went great! Nothing too crazy happened. I’ve been wanting to make sure not to push anything too hard on the wife. She’s been wanting real romantic connection and I don’t want to forget about that in obsession over what is still just a fantasy.

However, she did dress slutty with a low shirt that really showed off her tits. And guys were checking her out, one even talking to her when she stepped away to a line in order to get another drink. I asked if she noticed that she gets checked out, and she said she does. I asked her how often she thinks this happens and she basically said, “not to brag about myself but all the time.” She said she gets hit on a lot but just has never brought it up; I told her I’d love to her about it whenever it happens and that it’s hot to me.

The next night, she out of nowhere started to give me head. But, she pulled out the vibrator and used it on herself as she took care of me. It was extraordinarily hot to see her pleasure overwhelm her, causing her to for brief moments “forget” about my cock as she was just trying to process how good she felt. After she was done she said she wanted to use the dildo on the wall and do that but was too shy to ask. I told her we absolutely will do that soon.

So, nothing too crazy update wise. But, as I’m not embellishing/exaggerating and genuinely just telling the story as it goes it may be moments of slower pace.

Might not sound too crazy but in relation to your fantasy I’d say it’s good and nice progress. She opening up more and obviously enjoying the attention she’s receiving. You two tried something new and she brought something she’s been wanting to do but for what we reason couldn’t bring herself to tell you about and now she did, I’d say a very hot date and good progress and good for you for not trying to force things and let you both go at a pace that’s comfortable, especially for your wife.
Did she mention anything during or after the surprise blowjob? Was she inspired from an encounter or thoughts?

 

[Rugburn349]

Might not sound too crazy but in relation to your fantasy I’d say it’s good and nice progress. She opening up more and obviously enjoying the attention she’s receiving. You two tried something new and she brought something she’s been wanting to do but for what we reason couldn’t bring herself to tell you about and now she did, I’d say a very hot date and good progress and good for you for not trying to force things and let you both go at a pace that’s comfortable, especially for your wife.
Did she mention anything during or after the surprise blowjob? Was she inspired from an encounter or thoughts?

I honestly have no idea where it came from. It was random, she said it was just impulsive but I almost have to wonder if it actually was inspired from something she read or saw.

 

[dz2681]

I honestly have no idea where it came from. It was random, she said it was just impulsive but I almost have to wonder if it actually was inspired from something she read or saw.

Can always bring it up to her again another time, my wife was same way at first. After a day of work and flirting or a brief but memorable encounter with a coworker she’d be very charged up at night and be the aggressor for a change. In the beginning she’d wouldn’t give any reason for the change but after asking her a few times she opened up and especially after seeing how aroused and horny it made me to hear about it she started to enjoy coming up and confessing

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Tell me more

Sexy but stretches you into allowing a woman to be free. Some can handle it some can not. Either way growth occurs which is important. Be strong and you free yourself too.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

It went great! Nothing too crazy happened. I’ve been wanting to make sure not to push anything too hard on the wife. She’s been wanting real romantic connection and I don’t want to forget about that in obsession over what is still just a fantasy.

However, she did dress slutty with a low shirt that really showed off her tits. And guys were checking her out, one even talking to her when she stepped away to a line in order to get another drink. I asked if she noticed that she gets checked out, and she said she does. I asked her how often she thinks this happens and she basically said, “not to brag about myself but all the time.” She said she gets hit on a lot but just has never brought it up; I told her I’d love to her about it whenever it happens and that it’s hot to me.

The next night, she out of nowhere started to give me head. But, she pulled out the vibrator and used it on herself as she took care of me. It was extraordinarily hot to see her pleasure overwhelm her, causing her to for brief moments “forget” about my cock as she was just trying to process how good she felt. After she was done she said she wanted to use the dildo on the wall and do that but was too shy to ask. I told her we absolutely will do that soon.

So, nothing too crazy update wise. But, as I’m not embellishing/exaggerating and genuinely just telling the story as it goes it may be moments of slower pace.

Epic

 

[docoral]

It went great! Nothing too crazy happened. I’ve been wanting to make sure not to push anything too hard on the wife. She’s been wanting real romantic connection and I don’t want to forget about that in obsession over what is still just a fantasy.

However, she did dress slutty with a low shirt that really showed off her tits. And guys were checking her out, one even talking to her when she stepped away to a line in order to get another drink. I asked if she noticed that she gets checked out, and she said she does. I asked her how often she thinks this happens and she basically said, “not to brag about myself but all the time.” She said she gets hit on a lot but just has never brought it up; I told her I’d love to her about it whenever it happens and that it’s hot to me.

That's really hot, brings back memories. Now she knows you know and she knows you're OK with it. I'm pretty sure when she's alone in her thought she's going to come to the realization that she can make this happen if she wants.

The next night, she out of nowhere started to give me head. But, she pulled out the vibrator and used it on herself as she took care of me. It was extraordinarily hot to see her pleasure overwhelm her, causing her to for brief moments “forget” about my cock as she was just trying to process how good she felt. After she was done she said she wanted to use the dildo on the wall and do that but was too shy to ask. I told her we absolutely will do that soon.

She's shaking all the taboos out of her head. I think your wife's first adventure will be for her to give a guy she finds attractive a nice blowjob right in front of you. Be prepared to cum in your pants watching her.

So, nothing too crazy update wise. But, as I’m not embellishing/exaggerating and genuinely just telling the story as it goes it may be moments of slower pace.

Dare her to do things. Ask her to invite the guy to your table. Let her dance with the guy. When you're home alone in your bedroom devouring her pussy tell her you know a guy that wants to fuck her brains out. Let that sink in. Most of all tell her she's in charge.

 

[Whispor]

I wish that our wives/women truly understood how our sexual arousal is triggered visually. I enjoy reading accounts of women who are into cuckolding that they enjoy being their husband's own personal porn star. They'd rather be the object of their husband's masturbatory fantasies than some porn actress.

I think the dildo action is perfect to use as a stepping stone. I've never seen my own wife orgasm as hard as when I used a truly large dildo on her. I told her how beautiful and sexy she was when she climaxed with it inside of her, how much it turned me on to see it "disappear" inside of her, etc. I showed her "proof" by letting her see how hard it made me to observe it.

Empirical evidence, y'know?!

For now all I have are the visual images of her cumming on that big dildo to combine with my own fantasies of her fucking and sucking her well-hung boyfriend before we were together. It's a fantasy that still turns me on like no other. I'd love to see her worship a massive cock with her mouth while making eye contact with me and swallowing its cum.

I'd kiss her more passionately than I ever have afterward!

 

[docoral]

I wish that our wives/women truly understood how our sexual arousal is triggered visually. I enjoy reading accounts of women who are into cuckolding that they enjoy being their husband's own personal porn star. They'd rather be the object of their husband's masturbatory fantasies than some porn actress.

I think the dildo action is perfect to use as a stepping stone. I've never seen my own wife orgasm as hard as when I used a truly large dildo on her. I told her how beautiful and sexy she was when she climaxed with it inside of her, how much it turned me on to see it "disappear" inside of her, etc. I showed her "proof" by letting her see how hard it made me to observe it.

Empirical evidence, y'know?!

For now all I have are the visual images of her cumming on that big dildo to combine with my own fantasies of her fucking and sucking her well-hung boyfriend before we were together. It's a fantasy that still turns me on like no other. I'd love to see her worship a massive cock with her mouth while making eye contact with me and swallowing its cum.

I'd kiss her more passionately than I ever have afterward!

The real thing is even more exciting than fantasy

 

[Whispor]

The real thing is even more exciting than fantasy

Trust me - I'm jealous!

 

[Rugburn349]

That's really hot, brings back memories. Now she knows you know and she knows you're OK with it. I'm pretty sure when she's alone in her thought she's going to come to the realization that she can make this happen if she wants.

She's shaking all the taboos out of her head. I think your wife's first adventure will be for her to give a guy she finds attractive a nice blowjob right in front of you. Be prepared to cum in your pants watching her.

Dare her to do things. Ask her to invite the guy to your table. Let her dance with the guy. When you're home alone in your bedroom devouring her pussy tell her you know a guy that wants to fuck her brains out. Let that sink in. Most of all tell her she's in charge.

I agree that the taboos are starting to wash away. This women used to even tell me who her celebrity crushes were. And now she’s really enjoying teasing me about the guys (still just celebrities) that she would hook up with.

I would love her to give someone a blowjob as a nice jumping off point. I don’t remember if I posted about this, but she sent me a wonderful video of her sucking our big dildo one day. It was such a tease of what the real thing could be!

 

[Rugburn349]

Would love to share some of the porn clips my wife has really enjoyed, PM if you are interested - would love thoughts