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- May 12, 2004
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It's a good thing I like to read!
I want to thank everyone again for the absolute wealth of information that you have all provided, not to mention the sage and very accessible advice.
When I first began to seriously think about this I was intimidated and overwhelmed to say the very least. Stereotypes abounded in my preconcieved notions of what this lifestyle was and what exactly it involved. Stereotypes which were in all honesty not particularly flattering. I am pleased however to say that the good people here continue to disprove virtually all those preconcieved notions and have been so very helpful and supportive of the little baby steps I am taking to allow the growth of my inner Domme.
DSV~ I am in 100% agreement with you about taking it slowly. While I have no doubt my sweet husband would absolutely die of happiness if I jumped into it whole hog on the first try I'm just not wired that way. It's my anal retentive attention to detail that slows me down and makes certain I'm doing it not just well, but to the very best of my ability. So for now, I take baby steps and test the waters, making little mental notes about what makes him squirm, where his tolerance levels are,and where my tolerance levels are as well.
I look at it this way, in any sexual experimentation practice is half the fun!
I want to thank everyone again for the absolute wealth of information that you have all provided, not to mention the sage and very accessible advice.
When I first began to seriously think about this I was intimidated and overwhelmed to say the very least. Stereotypes abounded in my preconcieved notions of what this lifestyle was and what exactly it involved. Stereotypes which were in all honesty not particularly flattering. I am pleased however to say that the good people here continue to disprove virtually all those preconcieved notions and have been so very helpful and supportive of the little baby steps I am taking to allow the growth of my inner Domme.
DSV~ I am in 100% agreement with you about taking it slowly. While I have no doubt my sweet husband would absolutely die of happiness if I jumped into it whole hog on the first try I'm just not wired that way. It's my anal retentive attention to detail that slows me down and makes certain I'm doing it not just well, but to the very best of my ability. So for now, I take baby steps and test the waters, making little mental notes about what makes him squirm, where his tolerance levels are,and where my tolerance levels are as well.
I look at it this way, in any sexual experimentation practice is half the fun!
