Why do women like anal sex?

[Cardinal]

Maybe a topic for a new thread but I think from my time on here and other sites that men actually enjoy anal play more than women do

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I get your point. ..I suppose I don't tire easily when engaged in such debates. And while I accept that others don't feel the same way, I happen to find threads about sexuality - including sexual ethics - more interesting than threads meant mostly for titalation. So I'm happy to continue debating this so long as it doesn't devolve into mere name-calling. ..I don't mind a little bit of that but if it becomes just that, well... I lose interest. Those who are more interested in *gifs and pictures can find those in several other threads about anal sex.

In slight defense of @mousberry, the depictions of anal sex in Porn are mostly fucking horrific and do suggest that its appeal stems mostly from humiliation and anger. Usually a woman wincing in pain, and a douche-bag dude looming over her with a menacing look on his face, as if he's punishing her. Fucking gross. My experience with the act looks nothing like that.

Porn is a terrible publicist for many sexual acts, with anal being the worst example. BJ's are a close second with all the gagging and head trapping. Also fucking gross and also bearing little resemblance to what BJ's look like in my life.

The problem with the debate being in this thread, is this thread started with a specific set of questions, none of them being is anal an act of domination. The thread was derailed and the debate doesn't belong here.

I will own my part of continuing the derailing. I also didn't appreciate the argumentative cow calling me stupid and suggesting I am a sex worker or a man. She seemed to insinuate both. (If I were a man I have kept the act up really well for many years. I doubt I would let it slip inan argument with someone I had never encountered before. If I were a sex worker I wouldn't hide it here on Lit. I did one night as a prostitute when I was 19, if I'd tried anal before then I would have made a lot more money that night. Now I'm derailing more. Whoops)

 

[dkak001]

Porn is a terrible publicist for many sexual acts, with anal being the worst example. BJ's are a close second with all the gagging and head trapping. Also fucking gross and also bearing little resemblance to what BJ's look like in my life.

No disagreement there, or about porn in general. I agree these are the sorts of threads that I find most interesting.

I would like to state that in some instances I find my wife prefers things quite rough during a blowjob, especially before she comes. These are the sorts of things you learn about each other over years or decades. It's an act that happens with the utmost trust, but it can be quite aggressive. You never really know what your kinks may be, and if it works go with it. Carefully and respectfully, that is.

The problem with the debate being in this thread, is this thread started with a specific set of questions, none of them being is anal an act of domination. The thread was derailed and the debate doesn't belong here.

Enjoy hearing the responses to the OP, and even most of the follow up. Especially from people like yourself who have a positive opinion of it. But when it gets to the point of wanting to unsubscribe to a thread because it's deteriorated...

Again, I appreciate the input that both of you have had regarding the OP. I love hearing others feelings on such topics. Personally this is a huge area of interest of mine, both giving and receiving. I can say with 100% certainty that women can enjoy anal. That doesn't mean that all will like it, or that everyone should try it. We're all built differently. Butt for some, it can be amazing.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Does anyone orgasm just with anal? Like no touching pussy at all, just anal?

Anal is even better with a little pussy-stimulation too!