Why do women like anal sex?

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[LMWM321]

Why can I not speak for others? Why can a person not comment on anything outside their immediate perception and experience? Why can no one answer these questions?


What I'm saying isn't even that insane or controversial. I genuinely think you're just too stupid to understand.

LOWIQ321

Again.. more conflation.

No one is saying you can't comment on YOUR perception; it's the blanket statement about how ALL women feel, that makes it hard to take you seriously.

And why did you have to mention my low IQ? I was hoping to keep that a secret.

 

[mousberry]

Again.. more conflation.

No one's saying you can't comment on YOUR perception; it's the blanket statement about how ALL women feel, that makes it hard to take you seriously.

Oh it's as if the question 'why do women like anal sex?' isn't prone to generalities. Tell me how you answer that question without speaking in generalities.

 

[bijedi]

Does anyone orgasm just with anal? Like no touching pussy at all, just anal?

Well I don't have a pussy, but I know I have orgasmed many time just with anal without anything touching my cock. These are anal orgasms, not prostate orgasms. I have had both, there is a difference.

I have had anal sex with women who have claimed to have an orgasm without any other contact.

I would say yes. It is definitely possible to achieve orgasm purely through anal sex. And it is amazing.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Oh it's as if the question 'why do women like anal sex?' isn't prone to generalities. Tell me how you answer that question without speaking in generalities.

The post is looking for women's personal experiences. Women expressing their experience is how this post is answered without generalisation.

 

[Amazonian_Mistriss]

I enjoy the feeling of anal, but it also makes me feel vulnerable with no control unless I'm on top. So that's typically the only position I'll do that in.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I have talked to a number of guys about anal and I think the big thrill for them is that the woman is willing to let them fuck her ass. I guess it is like swallowing their cum. Something that they are excited that a woman will do for them.

Every story or mention about things a particular woman will not do or have done to her adds to the anticipation when the woman you are with indicates she is willing to do/be done, which instantly turns into excitement when whatever act begins and produces just a little more pleasure (and cum) when you're orgasming.

Great insight, I55. I don't think enough girls/women consider the anticipation/excitement/release effects, thinking guys get 99% of their enjoyment from physical sensations. Those that do are the ones we dream about--or sleep next to--the rest of our lives.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

If you insist that really women just love anal because it feels good, I think you are being wilfully blind to the mental aspect. It's unsanitary and physically uncomfortable, if not painful; without these realities being incorporated into the imagination as a play on the submissive/dominant dynamic, I see no way to reconcile the act with pleasure.

I love anal because it feels good simply because it does for me. Anal plugs feel good for me too.

I've enjoyed anal sex with 2 partners. One was my vanilla with sprinkles ex husband, the other with my current Master. With my ex husband, he was no where near Dom type. The first time I allowed him to enter the exit was a birthday present. I was unsure, and unprepared for how much I would enjoy it. After that it was reasonably often for quite a while because we both enjoyed it.

With Master there is that element of He can use any of my holes element, but I sulk if he goes more than 2.play sessions without anal. I thoroughly enjoy the physical sensation regardless of whether or not I am in subspace. Yes it hurts at first, yes it's unsanitary, but it's not uncomfortable for me.

While your generalisation may cover a proportion of the women who experience anal sex, it's not enough of a portion to be accurate

 

[UtilityCurve]

Is it really that rare. It seems that quite a few women will do it at least once in awhile.

Surveys have always indicated that more girls/women will or have done it. (No one ever seems to ask if it becomes more or less enjoyable/tolerable with repetition [maybe that's too intrusive even in 2026?] but I'd sure like to know.)

"Once in a while" is a form of rarity when you think about it.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I take it you like to slip into her back door.

I think the vast majority of penis-owners either do or wish they could.

 

[ridesforfew]

That wonderful prostate that guys love so much pushing dildos and cocks in and around
hmm, we don't have one - just the place where pop comes out. and yeah those muscles that keep pop in most the time.
what's not to like? some guy pushing his fat cock into a small hole expanding the opening until he can go balls deep.

 

[mousberry]

While your generalisation may cover a proportion of the women who experience anal sex, it's not enough of a portion to be accurate

You failed to understand my words.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

You failed to understand my words.

You failed to be clear then. If you're having to tell multiple people in a thread they failed to understand you, the communication failure is yours.

 

[mousberry]

You failed to be clear then. If you're having to tell multiple people in a thread they failed to understand you, the communication failure is yours.

Gosh what are the chances that multiple people are stupid? You're stupid.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Gosh what are the chances that multiple people are stupid? You're stupid.

Oh my god! What a devastating insult! How will I get through my day knowing you think so little of me?! Oh the horror.

I stand by my previous statement. The communication failure is yours.

 

[mousberry]

Oh my god! What a devastating insult! How will I get through my day knowing you think so little of me?! Oh the horror.

I stand by my previous statement. The communication failure is yours.

You think very little of yourself if you allow your "master" to sodomise and disrespect you in such a way.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

You think very little of yourself if you allow your "master" to sodomise and disrespect you in such a way.

You are the most pathetic attempt at a troll I have seen in a long time, but I'm bored so here a some bread crumbs.

Actually I think quite highly of myself. I know my positive and negative traits, and worth. Yes Master sodomises me however he treats me in a way that is respectful, caring, considerate and above all everything we do is consensual.

Just because you don't enjoy anal or understand D,/s or M/s relationships doesn't make you right

 

[LMWM321]

yes it's unsanitary,

About this...

This gets mentioned often as a reason NOT to engage in anal sex - not by you, @MissMaidenMinx, but by others.

But here's the thing... PIV sex can be unsanitary too. If an uncircumcised man doesn't wash his penis properly, it will accumulate bacteria and dead skin cells under the foreskin (smegma) which can give a woman a UTI. The same is true if a partner - man or woman - exercises poor oral hygiene and performs cunnilingus.

My point? Sex can be fucking gross. So most conscientious adults take reasonable steps to mitigate the grossness. Men wash their foreskins, and partners brush their teeth regularly... And those who engage in anal sex can take the simple precaution of never going from ass to vagina without first showering or vigorously cleaning the dick with multiple anti-bacterial wipes.

As I've pointed out before... I rim my wife pretty much EVERY time we have sex (2+ times per week) and I have NEVER become sick from doing it. Why? ..Because she exercises good hygiene - ie., showering or using a bidet before sex. Likewise, there has never been a negative health consequence from the handful of times we've engaged in anal-sex.

By comparison, my wife and I routinely pass colds and other minor respiratory viruses back and forth just by hugging, kissing and sleeping beside each other.. And yet, we've NEVER considered not doing those things.

So will those who don't care for anal sex please dispense with the "it's unsanitary" argument? It's weak.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

About this...

This gets mentioned often as a reason NOT to engage in anal sex - not by you, @MissMaidenMinx, but by others.

But here's the thing... PIV sex can be unsanitary too, if a man doesn't exercise good hygiene. For example, men who are not circumcised and don't wash their penis properly will accumulate bacteria and dead skin cells under their foreskin (smegma) which can easily contribute to a woman getting a UTI. The same is true if a partner - man or woman - exercises poor oral hygiene and performs cunnilingus.

My point? Sex can be fucking gross. So most conscientious adults understand they need to take reasonable steps to mitigate the grossness. Men wash their foreskins, and partners brush their teeth regularly... And those who engage in anal sex can take the simple precaution of never going from ass to vagina without first showering or vigorously cleaning the dick with multiple anti-bacterial wipes.

As I've pointed out before... I rim my wife pretty much EVERY time we have sex (2+ times per week) and I have NEVER become sick from doing it. Why? ..Because she exercises good hygiene - ie., showering or using a bidet before sex. Likewise, there has never been negative health consequence post penetrative anal-sex.

By comparison, my wife and I routinely pass colds and other minor respiratory viruses back and forth just by hugging, kissing and sleeping beside each other..

So will those who don't care for anal sex please dispense with the "it's unsanitary" argument?

I wish they would be more blunt and say "the risk of having to directly deal with shit is very high". And it is. And when shit happens, you clean up, laugh, and either get back in the mood or do something different.

Being human means dealing with revolting and unsanitary situations.

 

[SirSparky]

I wish they would be more blunt and say "the risk of having to directly deal with shit is very high". And it is. And when shit happens, you clean up, laugh, and either get back in the mood or do something different.

Being human means dealing with revolting and unsanitary situations.

I love having anal sex, although my ex wife wasn't as keen. Not becuase of any mess, you just deal with it and clean up with wipes etc, but she just felt it uncomfortable most of the time especially as she got older.

 

[Islander55]

Every story or mention about things a particular woman will not do or have done to her adds to the anticipation when the woman you are with indicates she is willing to do/be done, which instantly turns into excitement when whatever act begins and produces just a little more pleasure (and cum) when you're orgasming.

Great insight, I55. I don't think enough girls/women consider the anticipation/excitement/release effects, thinking guys get 99% of their enjoyment from physical sensations. Those that do are the ones we dream about--or sleep next to--the rest of our lives.

It probably only comes with age and experience but it is important to understand what your partner may like. You can almost see the excitement when you ask them if they would like to fuck your ass.