Are you a lurker?

[yankee13]

Me three! What is it you hope for??

Sorry for not getting back sooner. Hoping to find regular chat, mutual arousal. I am a bit sub and seems finding someone a little more on the Domme side seems difficult at best

 

[cookiecat]

I was jk about Elle causing trouble.
She's highly thought of and respected on the gb.
As she should be.

I enjoy lurking on the GB quite a bit.

Elle is a breath of fresh air there!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[skinnysinner]

I see you post a lot! I'll have to go check you out. Thanks for posting here.

It's interesting people seem to lurk a lot in the beginning. Figuring out how to jump in to the conversation, I guess!!

I think I lurked for ages, awed by the experience others seemed to give off when I was new to the threads, to the kinks they were clearly (?) more experienced at. Only when I got comfortable with my own experiences could I join in.

 

[pensivepoet]

Darling, I'm sure that sounded great before you typed it. To non goers it's a bit like ' they love her in hell, she's just their type!' . I know I am NOT universally liked, and that's fine by me.

No, it didn't even sound right before I typed it.
Busted.

 

[skinnysinner]

Seems like a lot of lurking going on, little posting, here at least!

A dip in, dip out day for me.... No pun intended sadly!

 

[Jamiegeo]

Interesting thread, from what ive read.
When i first came onto Lit forums, i jumped straight in and enjoyed trying to contribute and get onow people, then over a very short time i started to see 'Cliques' and 'teams' and groups just like in so many of real lifes mixing pot areas where people gather regularly and i guess i realized that as i dont play very well in groups or diverse social situations i would probably be the same here and in the next couple of months i stopped posting so widely and only pop up and post when the mood strikes or it takes my liking.
I dont feel i lurk but iam NO social butterfly either
I like to read,think,look, and generally explore, there is one thread i contribute to regularly, mayne more than i should, it is my addiction here..
J.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[makemewet69]

Mostly I spend my time posting in PG, but I B once around and look at a lot of threads on different boards and just don't post there.

 

[cookiecat]

Interesting thread, from what ive read.
When i first came onto Lit forums, i jumped straight in and enjoyed trying to contribute and get onow people, then over a very short time i started to see 'Cliques' and 'teams' and groups just like in so many of real lifes mixing pot areas where people gather regularly and i guess i realized that as i dont play very well in groups or diverse social situations i would probably be the same here and in the next couple of months i stopped posting so widely and only pop up and post when the mood strikes or it takes my liking.
I dont feel i lurk but iam NO social butterfly either
I like to read,think,look, and generally explore, there is one thread i contribute to regularly, mayne more than i should, it is my addiction here..
J.

I checked ya out That thread was interesting to read through!

Sometimes I feel like I'm jumping in to the middle of someone else's conversation, so I get what you're saying about groups of people. I don't see it as cliquey though... more just figuring out where to jump in. But you have to do what feels comfortable, right?

Thanks for posting here.

 

[cookiecat]

Mostly I spend my time posting in PG, but I B once around and look at a lot of threads on different boards and just don't post there.

bouncing around is fun!

 

[mnbreastluver]

I've been known to lurk from time to time. I stalk people's posts ever once in awhile as well.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[cookiecat]

I've been known to lurk from time to time. I stalk people's posts ever once in awhile as well.

haha! I've been known to stalk a few folks, too and generally, it takes me to some pretty interesting places.

 

[Tallcajun]

I agree, cookie. I am generally a man of few words. I followed a few posters and have found theads that become favorites. I read stories on lit for a long time before finding the forum. Now I visit here when I can. It so nice to see the open exchanges of thoughts, ideas and pics in a very friendly fashion. No pretenses, mostly. A helping, nurturing community.

 

[Farawyn]

I agree, cookie. I am generally a man of few words. I followed a few posters and have found theads that become favorites. I read stories on lit for a long time before finding the forum. Now I visit here when I can. It so nice to see the open exchanges of thoughts, ideas and pics in a very friendly fashion. No pretenses, mostly. A helping, nurturing community.

How was the vermouth?

 

[cookiecat]

I think it's natural for groups to form where people gather. We share jokes over time, get to know each other, form opinions. I expect 'cliques' to form. I think a key difference can how these function and how 'closed' and entrenched they are.

I felt welcomed, and a new flush of new posters, new to this board literoticans and returnees has brought new vigour here I think.

I like how you put that, Elle - that it's natural for groups to form where we gather. Even though I joined 10 years ago, I haven't been here much. Now that I'm "back" -- I still have that newbie feeling. But I like to lurk, look at old threads and posts and figure things out. Get to know people through their writing. I guess I have the time to do it now, which helps. It's a lovely distraction and in many real ways, an even lovelier way to connect.

Hi! My name is Richard and I am a lurker.

The first step is to admit it. Hi Richard!

 

[Tallcajun]

How was the vermouth?

I'll report back one "drunk" thread. Lol
But it got me thru Friday night.

 

[cookiecat]

I agree, cookie. I am generally a man of few words. I followed a few posters and have found theads that become favorites. I read stories on lit for a long time before finding the forum. Now I visit here when I can. It so nice to see the open exchanges of thoughts, ideas and pics in a very friendly fashion. No pretenses, mostly. A helping, nurturing community.

It's funny how we came for the stories and landed in the forums.

I'm glad you're inclined to post here. I like the though that you "visit" - it seems so pleasant among our conversations / pics about control, domination, etc.

I can't stop staring at your AV, by the way.

 

[Farawyn]

It's funny how we came for the stories and landed in the forums.

I'm glad you're inclined to post here. I like the though that you "visit" - it seems so pleasant among our conversations / pics about control, domination, etc.

I can't stop staring at your AV, by the way.

Yea, I want to flick his uvula.

 

[Tallcajun]

Ha. It's a King Crimson album cover, but don't you feel like that sometimes?

 

[Farawyn]

Ha. It's a King Crimson album cover, but don't you feel like that sometimes?

Yes. All day yesterday.

One of my best friends growing up is into King Crimson. I should have known.
Or maybe you're him...?

 

[cookiecat]

Yea, I want to flick his uvula.

Or nostrils. Begging to be probed.

 

[Farawyn]

Or nostrils. Begging to be probed.

*inserts my pinky toe*

 

[cascadiabound]

Hi! My name is Richard and I am a lurker.

Hi Richard...Lurkers welcome...lol