Ask a Dominant and/or Master...?

[nh23]

When do we get to the question part?

(Not that the banter between everyone isn't entertaining but...*falls asleep*)

*pokes Keroin with a stick* Wake Up! You're gonna miss it!

 

[JMohegan]

A lot of people don't believe that this goes on in the real world.

Somewhat ironically, my response is to say that the doubters need to get out more.

 

[Keroin]

Whadsguwiutdwuirewqui?

*Wipes drool from chin*

 

[nh23]

Somewhat ironically, my response is to say that the doubters need to get out more.

Oh, I totally believe people do it. It just doesn't make sense to me. I'm slave to Master. That's all. I don't think it would be respectful at all to him to treat every man like they were my domly type.

 

[Keroin]

Somewhat ironically, my response is to say that the doubters need to get out more.

Pffft.

 

[JMohegan]

Oh, I totally believe people do it. It just doesn't make sense to me. I'm slave to Master. That's all. I don't think it would be respectful at all to him to treat every man like they were my domly type.

*paging osg*

 

[JMohegan]

Pffft.

Very eloquent.

Do you have a question, miss?

 

[nh23]

*paging osg*

lmao. I'd say our philosophy on that differs. I'm submissive to ONE man. If you aren't that man, you're just an ordinary person to me.

Oh, Except for CM and I've decided I'm going to call her my lady from now on. BiBunny calls me Princess Peach.

 

[Keroin]

Very eloquent.

Do you have a question, miss?

Should I have a question...sir?

 

[JMohegan]

Should I have a question...sir?

Ha! Absolutely!

pssssst..... Keroin. You're on the "Ask a D-type" thread.

 

[CutieMouse]

*wonders if we've scared off the OP with all the banter...*

 

[Keroin]

Ha! Absolutely!

pssssst..... Keroin. You're on the "Ask a D-type" thread.

I'm not on the Mango Addicts Anonymous thread?

*Scratches head and consults map*

 

[DiscusDave]

I'm not on the Mango Addicts Anonymous thread?

*Scratches head and consults map*

Down the hall, third door on your left. Right next to Pineapple Removal Class.

 

[BiBunny]

lmao. I'd say our philosophy on that differs. I'm submissive to ONE man. If you aren't that man, you're just an ordinary person to me.

Oh, Except for CM and I've decided I'm going to call her my lady from now on. BiBunny calls me Princess Peach.

I want a goofy title! Please, Princess Peach?

In all seriousness, my Owners and I both refer to Mistress as "Mattress" most of the time. Once while we were all lying in bed together, she was trying to say "Master and Mistress," and it all ran together and came out something like "Mattress."

Because none of us can take anything seriously for more than 2.5 seconds, she's "Mattress" more often than she's "Mistress" nowadays. She even refers to herself that way.

 

[nh23]

I want a goofy title! Please, Princess Peach?

In all seriousness, my Owners and I both refer to Mistress as "Mattress" most of the time. Once while we were all lying in bed together, she was trying to say "Master and Mistress," and it all ran together and came out something like "Mattress."

Because none of us can take anything seriously for more than 2.5 seconds, she's "Mattress" more often than she's "Mistress" nowadays. She even refers to herself that way.

Yes, Princess Zelda (it's all I could think of on short notice. )

 

[Keroin]

Down the hall, third door on your left. Right next to Pineapple Removal Class.

Ahhh, yes, my antipodal persuasion plays hell with my sense of direction at times.


OK, I have a question for the "D" types...

So have you ever been at one of these places of high protocol and just looked around at all the downcast eyes and gotten a bad case of the giggles? When I read JM's post about that, I immediately thought of my dad, who is always telling me to keep one eye on the ground for spare change.

(He finds quite a bit of money that way).

 

[midwestyankee]

Ahhh, yes, my antipodal persuasion plays hell with my sense of direction at times.


OK, I have a question for the "D" types...

So have you ever been at one of these places of high protocol and just looked around at all the downcast eyes and gotten a bad case of the giggles? When I read JM's post about that, I immediately thought of my dad, who is always telling me to keep one eye on the ground for spare change.

(He finds quite a bit of money that way).

No, because I could never keep a straight face in such a circumstance.

 

[Keroin]

No, because I could never keep a straight face in such a circumstance.

I find it hard to keep a straight face in most circumstances. I'd fail miserably as that kind of "s".

 

[nh23]

I find it hard to keep a straight face in most circumstances. I'd fail miserably as that kind of "s".

Join the club! *gives Keroin a super secret glow in the dark decoder ring.*

 

[Keroin]

*wonders if we've scared off the OP with all the banter...*

Hm, yes. The poor woman is going to think she's struck a vein of knowledge when she sees how many responses there are, only to open the thread and find all of our meaningless garble clogging it.

I'd best return to my book.

 

[JMohegan]

So have you ever been at one of these places of high protocol and just looked around at all the downcast eyes and gotten a bad case of the giggles?

No. I found it fascinating.

 

[Keroin]

No. I found it fascinating.

In what sense? Can you elaborate?

 

[JMohegan]

In what sense? Can you elaborate?

I find all of this fascinating. All the customs and language and trappings of the stylized kinky world.

In some ways, I don't see much difference between a woman in one club with downcast eyes, and a woman brought to another club in basic slutwear. It's all part of the individual's presentation, the adopted persona - or rather, the unconventional inner persona, as expressed in a place where it's safe to do so.

 

[Netzach]

It is part of kinky protocol in a lot of peoples necks of the woods.

I have never been curtseyed to.

OK scratch that, H does. Rather nicely.

 

[Netzach]

I've been in actual, physical clubs where the s-types were not allowed to make eye contact, or speak unless spoken to, and were required to address everyone ID'ing dominant as "Sir."

Some people really do get off on this stuff.

The only time I've ever been in that environment is with men paying heavily for the fantasy. It's a lot of work to police that, and frankly I want to pay attention to MY bottom, not yours and his.

OK, not entirely true. I've been in some pretty serious Leather environments. They were a bit too rigid for me ultimately.

Everyone with a better reputation than mine was Sir or Ma'am. I don't resent that unless I find out that those people are a mess or a flake of some kind. There's some lack of shine on the boots of the community often.

Most heavy protocol I've been around is basically the bottom sticking close to and accessible to the top and not being talkative much. You address the Top organically in conversation this way, you don't accidentally strike up interaction with the wrong party.

Then again, in these instances, junior tops also kept their mouths more closed than open, too.