At what point did you recognize your kink?
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An online friend of mine had told me once that her husband had spanked her. My first reaction was to be outraged and asked what she was going to do about that. We engaged in a very long conversation about how this was actually something she desired and enjoyed. She directed me to this website where I realized what this was all about, and I was completely turned on, and found traits of myself I had had all along. I found my place, sexually, so to speak. 
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neonflux said:P.S., There HAS to be something intrinsically perverted about Barbie dolls. My sister, who is a complete sub (a university prof and writer who even works to erase her voice in her poetry) apparently not only made hers do naughty, subby things but "invented" anal sex with them. Although Lurnk, I think that a Betty Boop doll takes the cake
I also wondered if Barbie was to blame for our kinks, while reading some of the stories here. I agree with SpectreT's explanation of it all being a simple matter of projection. It's great having communities like this on Lit to help account for and explain our childhood "activities."
Still, for some reason, I'm tempted to think there's more to it--I question why we project onto Barbie (or Betty) and not Ken, though I'm sure Ken has probably played the victim for some.
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The very thread on which to explore Barbie torture and perversionLurnk said:
please visit! Barbie Doll Kink??? It needs a bump. This is your official invitation. Pirate movies, Han Solo, hmmmmmm..... I always knew there had to be something else going on with that armor (not to mention the light sabers, LOL).Bredon said:
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...Not to mention pretty boys with braids calling other men "Master".neonflux said:<snip>
Pirate movies, Han Solo, hmmmmmm..... I always knew there had to be something else going on with that armor (not to mention the light sabers, LOL).
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I just saw that they had planned to release a Bespin Torture Chamber playset, where you could torture the tiny Han Solo-- There are pics of the prototype online-- it's a shame ot never got released, then we wouldn't have to have tortured the Barbies so much...
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Oh, pictures, please! (would look very good on the Barbie thread)Bredon said:I just saw that they had planned to release a Bespin Torture Chamber playset, where you could torture the tiny Han Solo-- There are pics of the prototype online-- it's a shame ot never got released, then we wouldn't have to have tortured the Barbies so much...
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10 years old.
Talked a cute 11 year old boy into tying me up (I'd brought a load of superlong shoelaces, lol) in a corner of the recess yard and kiss me.
Busted by the schoolyard monitor.
Principal insisted this wasn't a normal game.
I didn't - and still don't - concur.
Talked a cute 11 year old boy into tying me up (I'd brought a load of superlong shoelaces, lol) in a corner of the recess yard and kiss me.
Busted by the schoolyard monitor.
Principal insisted this wasn't a normal game.
I didn't - and still don't - concur.
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IsabellaSnow said:10 years old.
Talked a cute 11 year old boy into tying me up (I'd brought a load of superlong shoelaces, lol) in a corner of the recess yard and kiss me.
Busted by the schoolyard monitor.
Principal insisted this wasn't a normal game.
I didn't - and still don't - concur.
Cool story. When I was about 12 I meet a girl behind the "bushes" and she took off her panties for me. I got to touch my first pussy....wow. I did not know what to do other than touch her, and say wowowoooow!
But I know now!
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Lol!
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I player vampire games as a little girl. It got more serious as a teenager.
The blood -pain-passion association is sexy.
The blood -pain-passion association is sexy.
I forget what the film was, but it had laser-guns and tight-fitted clothing. I want to say it was something to do with Star Trek, but I doubt they'd do something so dark.
In any case, tightly-clad girl was under sentence of death, apparently by laser-gun. It took four shots to finish her, and with each one she shrieked and writhed more.
There was no blood or anything like that, just convulsing...
Always made me feel kind of odd, but I never quite figured out why. I was only a little kid at the time.
Anyway... none of that stuff surfaced again until the day my girlfriend confessed that she wanted me to be a little more controlling... I went along with it to please her, and because I'm willing to try anything. The effect was a LOT more powerful than we expected.
For both of us.
In any case, tightly-clad girl was under sentence of death, apparently by laser-gun. It took four shots to finish her, and with each one she shrieked and writhed more.
There was no blood or anything like that, just convulsing...
Always made me feel kind of odd, but I never quite figured out why. I was only a little kid at the time.
Anyway... none of that stuff surfaced again until the day my girlfriend confessed that she wanted me to be a little more controlling... I went along with it to please her, and because I'm willing to try anything. The effect was a LOT more powerful than we expected.
For both of us.
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The need for speed...
When I was a kid I was told that when I was sitting in my car seat and my mother was removing groceries from the car, I reached up and grabbed the gear shift and threw the car into reverse and the car began backing down the driveway. Maybe it all started then.
I can remember watching Speed Racer when I was a kid. It was an episode where Speed was captured by a villian tied up and laid across the seats of the Mach 5. They threw the mach 5 in gear and pointed it down a hill. I can remember Speed struggling to get free as the Mach 5 accelerated faster and faster and that turning me on.
I used to fantasize about being driven by powerful woman in powerful cars as a teenager. I used to think about what would happen if I held the accelerator to the floor and didn't let go, or better yet if someone forced the accelerator to the floor and didn't let go...
When I was a kid I was told that when I was sitting in my car seat and my mother was removing groceries from the car, I reached up and grabbed the gear shift and threw the car into reverse and the car began backing down the driveway. Maybe it all started then.
I can remember watching Speed Racer when I was a kid. It was an episode where Speed was captured by a villian tied up and laid across the seats of the Mach 5. They threw the mach 5 in gear and pointed it down a hill. I can remember Speed struggling to get free as the Mach 5 accelerated faster and faster and that turning me on.
I used to fantasize about being driven by powerful woman in powerful cars as a teenager. I used to think about what would happen if I held the accelerator to the floor and didn't let go, or better yet if someone forced the accelerator to the floor and didn't let go...
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This is not quite the film I was looking for but it's about the type of scenes that made me sit and stare (at age 10 or something). It's not as erotic as Errol Flynn getting whipped, but the look between the whipped guy and Dirk Bogarde at the end of the scene is pure porn *moans a bit*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbY5q3ZoYhM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbY5q3ZoYhM
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Errol Flynn is getting slapped and sold as a slave in this pirate classic (Captain Blood)-- what is it with him and submission? In Against all Flags he gets whipped
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W01zF4YeAxY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W01zF4YeAxY
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My kinkiness came about...
well, it evolved. I was into sex at a very early age and loved being in the powerful role right at the start. I experimented a little with my first major boyfriend (at 14) by holding his hands down while I fucked him (mind you, he was a BIG guy) and dancing for him while telling him not to touch. Then I went to girls... my last girlfriend and I had fun tying her up, screwing her in public places, etc.
So now I'm in a D/s relationship with a great male sub.
That's my progress! Make of it what you will.
well, it evolved. I was into sex at a very early age and loved being in the powerful role right at the start. I experimented a little with my first major boyfriend (at 14) by holding his hands down while I fucked him (mind you, he was a BIG guy) and dancing for him while telling him not to touch. Then I went to girls... my last girlfriend and I had fun tying her up, screwing her in public places, etc.
So now I'm in a D/s relationship with a great male sub.
That's my progress! Make of it what you will.
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As for me I had dreams about 'trapping' women almost as long as I can remember. But it wasn't until I started watching reruns of The Avengers at about age 11 or 12 that things really came into focus. Emma Peel in a tight leather catsuit being tied to a chair. Yum! Or the episode where she goes 'undercover' at the Hellfire Club and becomes their Queen of Sin.
From there things just progressed along but they stayed repressed and pent up due to a indoctrinated fear of that sexuality by the religon of my parents. Took many, many years to get over that. But now I am catching up with a vengeance.
From there things just progressed along but they stayed repressed and pent up due to a indoctrinated fear of that sexuality by the religon of my parents. Took many, many years to get over that. But now I am catching up with a vengeance.
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Well, I guess this is a good place for my first post.
I remember hating my preschool teacher and every night before bed I would tell myself little stories about her being tied up and tortured. After that I saw a Bugs Bunny skit where bugs was tied up and suspended over oil. It was all very exciting but i didnt understand it or know I was different. At about 10 or 12 I saw a movie where the father told the boy to go get a belt and then he bent him over the back of the kitchen chair and beat him. I was obsessed with spanking from them on.
I never really knew what all this lifestyle included untill about 22. Unfortuantely I married a man who cried when we did it doggy style because he felt like he was degrading me so I guess this will stay a fantasy life.
I remember hating my preschool teacher and every night before bed I would tell myself little stories about her being tied up and tortured. After that I saw a Bugs Bunny skit where bugs was tied up and suspended over oil. It was all very exciting but i didnt understand it or know I was different. At about 10 or 12 I saw a movie where the father told the boy to go get a belt and then he bent him over the back of the kitchen chair and beat him. I was obsessed with spanking from them on.
I never really knew what all this lifestyle included untill about 22. Unfortuantely I married a man who cried when we did it doggy style because he felt like he was degrading me so I guess this will stay a fantasy life.
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JillianJae said:Well, I guess this is a good place for my first post.
I remember hating my preschool teacher and every night before bed I would tell myself little stories about her being tied up and tortured. After that I saw a Bugs Bunny skit where bugs was tied up and suspended over oil. It was all very exciting but i didnt understand it or know I was different. At about 10 or 12 I saw a movie where the father told the boy to go get a belt and then he bent him over the back of the kitchen chair and beat him. I was obsessed with spanking from them on.
I never really knew what all this lifestyle included untill about 22. Unfortuantely I married a man who cried when we did it doggy style because he felt like he was degrading me so I guess this will stay a fantasy life.
Dream on Girl....dream on
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In My late 20's I had a friend in the Lifestyle who told Me I would be a great Master, and I was like huh?
It kind of resonated at the time, but got quickly backburnered... a couple of years alter I went on to explore that side of Me... and well here I am...
I would LOVE to meet that friend again so she could see that she is right.
In retrospect... I can see a lot of signs from a young age of odd fantsies I had... and then there is the Leia in the slave gril thing on Jabba's sail barge... but thats another story...
It kind of resonated at the time, but got quickly backburnered... a couple of years alter I went on to explore that side of Me... and well here I am...
I would LOVE to meet that friend again so she could see that she is right.
In retrospect... I can see a lot of signs from a young age of odd fantsies I had... and then there is the Leia in the slave gril thing on Jabba's sail barge... but thats another story...
