Bandit's Blurt and Vent Thread

[kayte]

Ah that makes sense!

Hi Everyone, Gil, Bandit, Kayte, et al...

Hi {{{{Noor}}}}}

Nice to see you. Hope you had a wonderful weekend.

 

[Bandit58]

It's been a while since I last posted.

My daughter has visited for two weeks, she flew back to NZ on Monday. We enjoyed having her here with us, and even went to the Gold Coast for a couple of days (loved the warmer weather!). She kept going shopping and bringing back all these cheesecakes and other naughty stuff...now back to normal routine and gym for me to lose any extra weight I've put on

We're still doing dialysis every 2nd day, and Sir is away right now having an xray on His right knee which has been giving Him hell for ages. He may need surgery but it will probably be a long wait to see a specialist and even longer to get the op. He's also going to go see a dentist for the first time in years. There's a policy in place for those who are chronically ill to get their dental work paid for by the government, if they have a doctor's referral. His teeth are in a shocking state from the renal failure so the treatment might be to get them all ripped out and get dentures fitted - we will see.

As for me, I had some side effects from the HRT (spotting which was very annoying ) so I made an appointment for today - whaddaya know almost as soon as I made the appointment the spotting stopped (after 3 months ). So I got another prescription anyway and if it reoccurs I'm to go back and doc will do a pap test and ultrasound just to check that all is ok. I'm really glad I'm taking this because I feel so much better on it!

Other than that we are both ok We are managing to find more Us time now that no.1 daughter has gone home....lol Sir found the 2 weeks rather frustrating!

 

[kayte]

It's been a while since I last posted.

My daughter has visited for two weeks, she flew back to NZ on Monday. We enjoyed having her here with us, and even went to the Gold Coast for a couple of days (loved the warmer weather!). She kept going shopping and bringing back all these cheesecakes and other naughty stuff...now back to normal routine and gym for me to lose any extra weight I've put on

We're still doing dialysis every 2nd day, and Sir is away right now having an xray on His right knee which has been giving Him hell for ages. He may need surgery but it will probably be a long wait to see a specialist and even longer to get the op. He's also going to go see a dentist for the first time in years. There's a policy in place for those who are chronically ill to get their dental work paid for by the government, if they have a doctor's referral. His teeth are in a shocking state from the renal failure so the treatment might be to get them all ripped out and get dentures fitted - we will see.

As for me, I had some side effects from the HRT (spotting which was very annoying ) so I made an appointment for today - whaddaya know almost as soon as I made the appointment the spotting stopped (after 3 months ). So I got another prescription anyway and if it reoccurs I'm to go back and doc will do a pap test and ultrasound just to check that all is ok. I'm really glad I'm taking this because I feel so much better on it!

Other than that we are both ok We are managing to find more Us time now that no.1 daughter has gone home....lol Sir found the 2 weeks rather frustrating!

{{{{{{Bandit}}}}} It is so good to hear about your daughter's visit. It does sound like a good time was had by all.

Gee, He and thus you do have so much to deal with in the medical area. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Bandit58]

*sigh*
I had a bit of a meltdown this morning

A combination of stress, tiredness, feeling picked on, and going back to the "bad place". I was decidedly unsub-like (and un-Bandit like according to Sir). I yelled at Him then burst into tears. I felt like I was carrying the whole world on my shoulders.

I'm better now. I think I needed the release of tears. I don't cry much. I tend to hold it all in and try and soldier on. Not a good idea

 

[FurryFury]

*HUGS and HUGS*

 

[Seurat]

Yup, that deserves hugs.

HUGS.

 

[Bandit58]

Thank you FF and Seurat

Those types of things don't happen often, but when they do it's very upsetting I don't feel very wonder woman like at those times.

We did dialysis yesterday, all went well apart from a bit of dizziness at the end when He sat up (BP 100/50, a little low). He came off at His usual weight so at a loss to explain the dizziness *shrug*

 

[Gil_T2]

Thank you FF and Seurat

Those types of things don't happen often, but when they do it's very upsetting I don't feel very wonder woman like at those times.

We did dialysis yesterday, all went well apart from a bit of dizziness at the end when He sat up (BP 100/50, a little low). He came off at His usual weight so at a loss to explain the dizziness *shrug*

Not enough sex I think. LOL

Your always my Wonder Woman!

 

[Bandit58]

Not enough sex I think. LOL

Your always my Wonder Woman!

Hmmm lack of sex causes a lot of things (so I am told )
Love You Sir

 

[Gil_T2]

Hmmm lack of sex causes a lot of things (so I am told )
Love You Sir

Love you too my Wonder Woman.

 

[Gil_T2]

Wasn't sure where to put this so here it is, Gary Allan - Get off on the pain.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ios_FDUN3z4&feature=related

 

[kayte]

*sigh*
I had a bit of a meltdown this morning

A combination of stress, tiredness, feeling picked on, and going back to the "bad place". I was decidedly unsub-like (and un-Bandit like according to Sir). I yelled at Him then burst into tears. I felt like I was carrying the whole world on my shoulders.

I'm better now. I think I needed the release of tears. I don't cry much. I tend to hold it all in and try and soldier on. Not a good idea

{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}

Sending lots of energy your way sweetie.

 

[kayte]

Thank you FF and Seurat

Those types of things don't happen often, but when they do it's very upsetting I don't feel very wonder woman like at those times.

We did dialysis yesterday, all went well apart from a bit of dizziness at the end when He sat up (BP 100/50, a little low). He came off at His usual weight so at a loss to explain the dizziness *shrug*

Not enough sex I think. LOL

Your always my Wonder Woman!

Hmmm lack of sex causes a lot of things (so I am told )
Love You Sir

Love you too my Wonder Woman.

{{{{{{{Gil}}}}}}}} & {{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}}} The two of you put a broad smile on my face.

 

[Bandit58]

{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}

Sending lots of energy your way sweetie.

Thanks kayte

Sir had His right knee xrayed 10 days ago and we went to the doctor yesterday to discuss the results - His kneecap has a definite crack in it no wonder He's been in so much pain

It likely will need surgery to wire it together. He has a referral to a specialist but this one charges $160 to have a look (although we are able to claim $68 of that back from Medicare it is still a lot of money to find on a pension ). The operation will have to be done on the public list (no way can we afford to have it done privately) so will probably be a long wait.

There are appointments out the wazoo lately - chest clinic next Monday, cardiologist the following Wednesday, renal Monday 23rd and this knee appt on 1st Sept. That's not counting any other GP visits which may be needed. *Phew*

 

[kayte]

Thanks kayte

Sir had His right knee xrayed 10 days ago and we went to the doctor yesterday to discuss the results - His kneecap has a definite crack in it no wonder He's been in so much pain

It likely will need surgery to wire it together. He has a referral to a specialist but this one charges $160 to have a look (although we are able to claim $68 of that back from Medicare it is still a lot of money to find on a pension ). The operation will have to be done on the public list (no way can we afford to have it done privately) so will probably be a long wait.

There are appointments out the wazoo lately - chest clinic next Monday, cardiologist the following Wednesday, renal Monday 23rd and this knee appt on 1st Sept. That's not counting any other GP visits which may be needed. *Phew*

{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}

Oh my! Yes that is! Adding that to my prayers for the two of you.

You guys are really busy with all of those visits you have to the doctors. Hope you do get some time for fun too.

Just thinking about the time. It's 9:35pm here and I'm getting ready to shut down my computer, do my shot and head to bed. You are into your day. Hope you have a terrific one.

 

[Bandit58]

Knee doctor had a cancellation so Sir gets to see him today at noon instead of having to wait for a month.

 

[kayte]

Knee doctor had a cancellation so Sir gets to see him today at noon instead of having to wait for a month.

{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}

That is marvelous. Thank you for sharing that. Hope it all went well.

 

[Bandit58]

{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}

That is marvelous. Thank you for sharing that. Hope it all went well.

Well We were told that Sir needs a complete knee reconstruction, which may or may not work He'd need to be in hospital for at least 5 days, needing to dialyse on two of those days. He'd need to stop His warfarin too. All His other medical problems complicate things far more than for any normal patient

We're going to have a talk to His cardiologist and renal doctor when we see them in the next couple of weeks, but I think Sir has decided the risk is too great and He will put up with it. In the future we may even need to move to a place without stairs.

 

[kayte]

Well We were told that Sir needs a complete knee reconstruction, which may or may not work He'd need to be in hospital for at least 5 days, needing to dialyse on two of those days. He'd need to stop His warfarin too. All His other medical problems complicate things far more than for any normal patient

We're going to have a talk to His cardiologist and renal doctor when we see them in the next couple of weeks, but I think Sir has decided the risk is too great and He will put up with it. In the future we may even need to move to a place without stairs.

{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}
Oh my. I don't know about a knee reconstruction, but I do know about replacement. My mom has had both knees done. Even if the surgery has no problem there is a lot of Physical Therapy that needs to be done for it to be a success. ~ She is fine ~ But she did throw a blood clot after the first one. Yes it is risky. You are both in my prayers. You may want to start looking now for a place that would suit your needs that is on one floor.

I know I got hand controls for my van years before I had to have them, as it was only a matter of time. Then when my MS created too much spasticity in my legs I was already using them. My arms, hands etc have no problem.

 

[Bandit58]

This week is a busy one. Appointments Monday and Wednesday, and the usual dialysis. I did a little shopping for perishables today but will probably need to fit in a trip to the supermarket as well.

Some problems with machine alarms today mid dialysis but it settled after we turned the pump speed down. Sir also had problems with leg cramps and came off 200g overweight - go figure He had a kilo extra to come off the other day and didn't have any trouble. It's probably just the luck of the draw I guess

 

[Bandit58]

Respiratory clinic went well, Sir's lung function is holding steady even though He is still smoking. Next is a checkup at the cardiologist tomorrow. The weather today has sucked - rain all day and much the same tomorrow. At least we didn't get any thunderstorms - yet....

As for me, I have pulled a muscle/strained my neck and shoulder. It must have happened during Bodycombat class last night although I felt no pain until this morning. So no boxing tonight (so I don't do any more damage) I hope it is better by Thursday so I can do pump class......I miss the gym when I can't go!

 

[kayte]

This week is a busy one. Appointments Monday and Wednesday, and the usual dialysis. I did a little shopping for perishables today but will probably need to fit in a trip to the supermarket as well.

Some problems with machine alarms today mid dialysis but it settled after we turned the pump speed down. Sir also had problems with leg cramps and came off 200g overweight - go figure He had a kilo extra to come off the other day and didn't have any trouble. It's probably just the luck of the draw I guess

{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}

It sounds like a very busy one for the two of you. I hear you about having to pick up perishibles in addition to regular grocery shopping. I too like fresh vegetables and fruit.

Sorry to hear the equipment was creating angst for you. Hope it is better the next time.

Hope you are having a chance to enjoy yourselves a bit this busy week.

 

[kayte]

Respiratory clinic went well, Sir's lung function is holding steady even though He is still smoking. Next is a checkup at the cardiologist tomorrow. The weather today has sucked - rain all day and much the same tomorrow. At least we didn't get any thunderstorms - yet....

As for me, I have pulled a muscle/strained my neck and shoulder. It must have happened during Bodycombat class last night although I felt no pain until this morning. So no boxing tonight (so I don't do any more damage) I hope it is better by Thursday so I can do pump class......I miss the gym when I can't go!

{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}&{{{{{{{{{Gil}}}}}}}

I'm happy to hear the resporatory visit showed the lung function is steady even though He is still smoking. As an ex-smoker I know how hard it is to kick the nicotine addiction. I also know my grandfather continued smoking to the point his lung function deteriorated to the point he was unable to keep a cigarette lit... He wasn't inhaling hard enough.

I'm so sorry to hear about your back injury. Hope the rest will get it all back in shape for your pump class. I did something to my right ankle. I'm not sure when, but on Saturday it hurt when I stepped on it. When I got home it was puffy. I've put an ace bandage on it and that helps. I didn't sprain it but I must have twisted it somehow. It is better today, but still a bit "off."

Sending lots of positive energy and hugs.

 

[Bandit58]

Gee time has slipped away from me again

Neck and shoulder all better. But I now have a little niggly pain when I eat hot or cold foods/drinks in one of the bottom left molars....that will teach me for avoiding the dentist for over 5 years I guess we will have to find one next week before it gets worse. BUT I HATE THE DENTIST WAAHHHH

Not long til start of speedway season (Sept 11 practice night, then a couple of club shows before it begins in earnest on Oct 2nd). We will probably go back to dialysing 3x a week instead of every 2nd day then, especially when summer hits and Sir sweats up a storm. He can lose up to 2 litres a night while wearing all the safety clothing. At least He can drink a lot on those nights!

It may also soon be time for another fistula ballooning...I'm having a little trouble getting the arterial cannula in, it seems narrower than it used to be. Machine pressures are ok but we don't want to leave it too long until we have a major problem.

 

[Bandit58]

Whew....family in Christchurch NZ all ok after 7.4 magnitude earthquake early this morning

There's no power, water or sewerage and a few things ended up on the floor but they got off lightly, there's a lot of structural damage in other places but no fatalities reported so far. The mayor has declared a state of emergency and the cleanup will be huge.

http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/4094986/Massive-7-4-quake-hits-South-Island