BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[blackhillsbbw]

Beautiful
Bi sexually speaking, this is the type of woman that gets me.

http://v2.angel-porns.com/pics/milfs/allover30/0750-ob/sn015.jpg

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I could see this on my phone (HOT) but i'm not into women, lol, but I can't see the image here. How about everyone else, can you see it here?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

You are very welcome Dani...

I love your new profile pic…mmmmmmm yum

 

[RjThoughts]

It is a battle (
I love though how in the last 15 years things have gotten better!

Yes it has gotten better.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Yes it has gotten better.

I think I shared that clip to the new Lane Bryant commercial here. Now that is coming a long way to put sizable women on television! Isn't it odd how at one time rubinesque were what was considered hot by a society?

 

[HornyMikeA]

I think I was a sophomore in high school. A girl on the swim team had such a sexy large ass. I could stare at her all day. At night it was what I jerked off too. Mmm. I love big women

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I think I was a sophomore in high school. A girl on the swim team had such a sexy large ass. I could stare at her all day. At night it was what I jerked off too. Mmm. I love big women

hehehe, i love it.

What I also find amazing and I believe that most women have NO CLUE what turns on men. I think many of them think the 'hollywood type' is what it is, but secretly do you think men are checking out the larger women in line, at the store, walking down the street?

 

[RjThoughts]

I think I shared that clip to the new Lane Bryant commercial here. Now that is coming a long way to put sizable women on television! Isn't it odd how at one time rubinesque were what was considered hot by a society?

Late 50s, early 60s were a time when rubenesque women were it. And early 80s at my college lol

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Late 50s, early 60s were a time when rubenesque women were it. And early 80s at my college lol

Early 80's at your college? hahahah…..damn, I wish I'd got to that college…but it would have had to have been the 70's!!

 

[RjThoughts]

Early 80's at your college? hahahah…..damn, I wish I'd got to that college…but it would have had to have been the 70's!!

Well, there were these times in the 70s...

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Well, there were these times in the 70s...

Glad that's plural!

 

[RjThoughts]

Glad that's plural!

Always plural ;

 

[littlegirlnaughty]

I have always struggled with being confident with myself. It is so much easier to write that I am confident than to verbalize and actually live that way. My family and guy have been supportive but yet I still get embarrassed when I am out an public and feel like others are looking at me and shaming me for being overweight.
I am hoping as I read through all the replies that I am not alone and will find a way to boost myself confidence. I hope you don't mind me using your threads as therapy. I will take advice as well for how to be free and love myself no matter what. Thanks!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I have always struggled with being confident with myself. It is so much easier to write that I am confident than to verbalize and actually live that way. My family and guy have been supportive but yet I still get embarrassed when I am out an public and feel like others are looking at me and shaming me for being overweight.
I am hoping as I read through all the replies that I am not alone and will find a way to boost myself confidence. I hope you don't mind me using your threads as therapy. I will take advice as well for how to be free and love myself no matter what. Thanks!

Welcome!
I think to get over that it's difficult to believe those closest to you. I did not have that in my corner; but my understanding is those loved one's aren't heard very clearly. We grow up with a message about our size and not appealing to anyone. It took many men online that were in my 'corner' to help me. They encouraged me and soon, over time my confidence built. I am grateful for these guys in my life and those that continue to build me up in confidence with my body. It is NOT easy but the main thing is to listen AND BELIEVE these men.

They and being here will help you; but push yourself to step out bit by bit. Post something on"Calling BBW thread" in Amateur Pic … just start, it will get easier. Thanks for sharing. Men here are great and will share here with you.

 

[CanadianM]

I have always struggled with being confident with myself. It is so much easier to write that I am confident than to verbalize and actually live that way. My family and guy have been supportive but yet I still get embarrassed when I am out an public and feel like others are looking at me and shaming me for being overweight.
I am hoping as I read through all the replies that I am not alone and will find a way to boost myself confidence. I hope you don't mind me using your threads as therapy. I will take advice as well for how to be free and love myself no matter what. Thanks!

Perhaps some who are looking at you are doing so because they appreciate your lush body, and are letting their minds wander as the think of exploring it... just a thought!!

 

[gamegamale]

I have always struggled with being confident with myself. It is so much easier to write that I am confident than to verbalize and actually live that way. My family and guy have been supportive but yet I still get embarrassed when I am out an public and feel like others are looking at me and shaming me for being overweight.
I am hoping as I read through all the replies that I am not alone and will find a way to boost myself confidence. I hope you don't mind me using your threads as therapy. I will take advice as well for how to be free and love myself no matter what. Thanks!

Welcome, littlegirl...it's always nice to hear from another voluptuous lady.
There are many of us men out here who find ladies like yourself quite appealing...and would enjoy meeting you.
All those men looking at you...they're admiring you.

Thanks for joining us.

 

[eLLEXa]

Hi Dani,

I have been reading through this thread and have loved all the comments. I keep a thread here in AmPics, too, and have always been — and continue to be — surprised and humbled by the many sweet and super sexy responses that I have received, both on my thread and privately. I am 5’10 and yo-yo between a size 22 and 24. Other than occasionally using the word “curves,” I don’t really focus on my size or call it out that much. My thread (for me) is about sharing my sexuality/sensuality/fun, and I so appreciate everyone who has encouraged me to continue doing so.

However (offline), my real world is quite different. I am never asked out, or flirted with, in the slightest. Of course, I can be quite imperceptive in this area of my life, so perhaps there are efforts that have gone unnoticed by me. I live in an area of the US that is notoriously considered to be closed-off and clique-ish in its social behaviors. Smiling and polite by leaps and bounds, but very exclusive in spite of that.

Recently, I made a 2-week solo trip to Fiji. I very quickly got the impression that a woman traveling on her own was a bit of a rare occurrence. I have never been hit on, or flirted with, so blatantly in my entire life. It was both shocking and refreshing. It is very strange for me, as a plus-size woman, to feel desired in such an open fashion. I allowed myself to enjoy the experience and took a lover while I was there. He never hesitated once over any aspect of my body, and we thoroughly enjoyed one another. It was fantastic, and I am glad that I overcame some of my insecurities — if only for a little while, anyway.

I bring this trip up because I was speaking with another plus-size woman recently, who just got back from a trip to the UK, where she described having the same type of experience. She was openly flirted with and hit on in a way that was not experienced by her here at home, where she is mostly ignored/overlooked. I am curious about anyone else’s travel vs. hometown experiences.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Hi Dani,

I have been reading through this thread and have loved all the comments. I keep a thread here in AmPics, too, and have always been — and continue to be — surprised and humbled by the many sweet and super sexy responses that I have received, both on my thread and privately. I am 5’10 and yo-yo between a size 22 and 24. Other than occasionally using the word “curves,” I don’t really focus on my size or call it out that much. My thread (for me) is about sharing my sexuality/sensuality/fun, and I so appreciate everyone who has encouraged me to continue doing so.

However (offline), my real world is quite different. I am never asked out, or flirted with, in the slightest. Of course, I can be quite imperceptive in this area of my life, so perhaps there are efforts that have gone unnoticed by me. I live in an area of the US that is notoriously considered to be closed-off and clique-ish in its social behaviors. Smiling and polite by leaps and bounds, but very exclusive in spite of that.

Recently, I made a 2-week solo trip to Fiji. I very quickly got the impression that a woman traveling on her own was a bit of a rare occurrence. I have never been hit on, or flirted with, so blatantly in my entire life. It was both shocking and refreshing. It is very strange for me, as a plus-size woman, to feel desired in such an open fashion. I allowed myself to enjoy the experience and took a lover while I was there. He never hesitated once over any aspect of my body, and we thoroughly enjoyed one another. It was fantastic, and I am glad that I overcame some of my insecurities — if only for a little while, anyway.

I bring this trip up because I was speaking with another plus-size woman recently, who just got back from a trip to the UK, where she described having the same type of experience. She was openly flirted with and hit on in a way that was not experienced by her here at home, where she is mostly ignored/overlooked. I am curious about anyone else’s travel vs. hometown experiences.

Yowzerrr!! I love this post. Thank you so much. How wonderful for you and for that other woman. I am wondering right off the bat if sexual harassment is so watched here that men are afraid to make a pass?? What is it? Why? I would love once to go and see a guy hit on me. How refreshing for you to experience that. And to take a lover. I am married so the chance of me being in a situation like yours is not going to happen. So, I will live vicariously through you! How wonderful too your lover embrace you for being you.

Oh I will say the one time I was hit up was a day before my wedding at a park when I was contemplating whether to go through with the wedding or not. He had a hang over so I attributed his 'hitting on me' to that…ha, out of his mind! lol But he did proposition me, this stranger. I thanked him and said no, I couldn't as I would be married in a day or too. I gave him a ride to his home and that was it. Is it funny that has stayed with me all these years. You go girl and thanks for posting!

 

[bw699353]

Just showing my love for the curvy women out there!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMnjF1O4eH0

 

[curvyangel1969]

I was going back through this thread. What a lovely bunch of comments and great stories and inspirations to read here. I have been a larger girl since puberty. I think my growth spurt went out instead of up. I was shy because of it and never though the boys would even look at me. Its nice to see just how many men are interested and the fantastic and supportive comments.

 

[Bluespark]

I was going back through this thread. What a lovely bunch of comments and great stories and inspirations to read here. I have been a larger girl since puberty. I think my growth spurt went out instead of up. I was shy because of it and never though the boys would even look at me. Its nice to see just how many men are interested and the fantastic and supportive comments.

You have such lovely curves just like a woman should have.

 

[CanadianM]

I was going back through this thread. What a lovely bunch of comments and great stories and inspirations to read here. I have been a larger girl since puberty. I think my growth spurt went out instead of up. I was shy because of it and never though the boys would even look at me. Its nice to see just how many men are interested and the fantastic and supportive comments.

I am sure lots of the boys were looking, cause there are lots of us out here who appreciate a curvy body like yours...

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Curvaceous = wonderful, in my eyes...curvy in all its forms, labels be damned.

Sexy is sexy, be it called curvy, BBW, SSBBW, or anything else, I love it all.

 

[HonkOnBobo]

curves are more fun than a straight line if you ask me

 

[CanadianM]

Definition...

Curv-y: (adjective) having many curves; (especially of a woman's figure) shapely and voluptuous.

 

[chinaeyes]

Wow! What a genuine note you've shared here! So real...thank you. I've since learned that there are gobs of men that love to have sex with me. And you don't mind humiliation? See I could not have sex tho with one that would not love my body. Can I ask was that the norm (humiliation) growing up? So it's what you were use to? Don't answer these if I'm getting too personal. Are you a Feedee?

I live with a husband that doesn't care for my size. I can walk naked in front of him and it does nothing for him. But he also doesn't care for sex, and it has nothing to do with me. But I know in our marriage he LOVED the Sports Illustrated Swim Suit edition. I find those thin gals so attractive and always wanted to be like them, myself. Maybe coveting their bodies makes it hard to accept mine.

I recently saw a full on nude of a big girl with her hand pulling here belly up. I cannot feel sexy doing that. I only wish...

Thx SO much for sharing![/QUOTE

I had a weight problem growing up, always had family and friends commenting on it ''you need to lose some weight''. ''You have such a pretty face''. (So I have a pretty face but an ugly body?) Mind you I was only 9. This did not help me but eventually I lost weight I wast skiny but I had gotten to a place where I was happy with how I looked.

After I had my baby I gained waight, my childs father (who I am still with) loves me just as I am, our sexual relationship has altered because of his high sugar. Even with my extra curves and meat I can still ride him like a cowgirl, my legs can go back to my head and I flex just as good as any skinny girl...I can still please my man.

That being said I look at girls on the tv and how comfortable they are and how they get to wear anything...I want to look like that too its normal but I realized I will never be a size 0 and I've accepted that. I no longer work to look like so and so, no I do it so that I can be healthy, to feel good about myself and to know that I am not sitting at home complaining about myself.

What I am trying to get at is once you accept your weight and love it people around you will too, whether you stay BB or start losing weight. Be confident in your skin because 'The biger the cushin the better the push in'