BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[gamegamale]

Wow! What a genuine note you've shared here! So real...thank you. I've since learned that there are gobs of men that love to have sex with me. And you don't mind humiliation? See I could not have sex tho with one that would not love my body. Can I ask was that the norm (humiliation) growing up? So it's what you were use to? Don't answer these if I'm getting too personal. Are you a Feedee?

I live with a husband that doesn't care for my size. I can walk naked in front of him and it does nothing for him. But he also doesn't care for sex, and it has nothing to do with me. But I know in our marriage he LOVED the Sports Illustrated Swim Suit edition. I find those thin gals so attractive and always wanted to be like them, myself. Maybe coveting their bodies makes it hard to accept mine.

I recently saw a full on nude of a big girl with her hand pulling here belly up. I cannot feel sexy doing that. I only wish...

Thx SO much for sharing![/QUOTE

I had a weight problem growing up, always had family and friends commenting on it ''you need to lose some weight''. ''You have such a pretty face''. (So I have a pretty face but an ugly body?) Mind you I was only 9. This did not help me but eventually I lost weight I wast skiny but I had gotten to a place where I was happy with how I looked.

After I had my baby I gained waight, my childs father (who I am still with) loves me just as I am, our sexual relationship has altered because of his high sugar. Even with my extra curves and meat I can still ride him like a cowgirl, my legs can go back to my head and I flex just as good as any skinny girl...I can still please my man.

That being said I look at girls on the tv and how comfortable they are and how they get to wear anything...I want to look like that too its normal but I realized I will never be a size 0 and I've accepted that. I no longer work to look like so and so, no I do it so that I can be healthy, to feel good about myself and to know that I am not sitting at home complaining about myself.

What I am trying to get at is once you accept your weight and love it people around you will too, whether you stay BB or start losing weight. Be confident in your skin because 'The biger the cushin the better the push in'

"Phat is where it's at!"

 

[lurkingguy1978]

I love the inspiration and positivity on this page!! Great stories and good outlooks!!!

 

[dyser]

I love curvy women, but coming from a more conservative background traditionally/culturally,it has made me somewhat reluctant to flirt or hit on any girls openly

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Silence is usually golden...but this time it's just dreary

 

[littlegirlnaughty]

I didn't know where to stick this since it's not the happiest of thoughts. You ever feel lonely and dejected? That it feels like no amount of fun banter will perk up your spirits? I guess I feel that right now. Sorry for being a downer, maybe someone can cheer me up with a silly joke or something.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

I didn't know where to stick this since it's not the happiest of thoughts. You ever feel lonely and dejected? That it feels like no amount of fun banter will perk up your spirits? I guess I feel that right now. Sorry for being a downer, maybe someone can cheer me up with a silly joke or something.

Feel this way routinely...but my best jokes are often puns...and they'll either make you laugh or make you want to throw me into traffic (which might be cathartic)

 

[littlegirlnaughty]

Funny.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Repeating Myself

I think when I started this thread it was because of what I read here. It's women, such as myself and others, that had no idea growing up that men were looking or even thought larger women with curves were worthy of admiration.

I've said this before and will repeat it here since it's been awhile. When I came online, I made up an image that I thought a typical guy would want. Yes, it was what Hollywood, commercials and Fashion magazines (Twiggy--i'm dating myself) have thrown out at us women for years…tall, thin, …you know, the Barbie look. I know I bought into it, hook line and sinker. I had NO idea nor did boys or men "tell" as in 'indicate by flirting or looking' at me growing up, that they were the least bit interested.

I found out online quickly that when I spilled the beans to men that I was not the Barbie I made myself out to be (this was long before smart phones and pictures), men did not leave like I thought they would. They stayed and wanted more.

It took, however, many years to dispel that thinking in my head and heart. Many years and much convincing that men REALLY did like CURVES, PLUS SIZE, CHUBBY, BBW, SSBBW!!! What an epiphany when it finally sunk in!!

The rest is history. I still however have to admit that I DO NOT SEE WHAT MEN SEE. i don't like my body and I don't understand what a man sees in it. I've tried…I just don't 'get it.' But thank goodness these men do 'get it'!!

I do so enjoy it here when women tell their stories and share their feelings. I am glad that if only a couple women out there start to feel good about themselves after negative reinforcement, and begin to see 'the light'. Men do love what we have and it's almost a 'movement' for plus size women. I hope it keeps up and more and more start to feel this sense of acceptance.

Muuwah….

 

[domCraig2015]

I'm going to add my 2 cents, for what it worth. I love a curvy woman, I prefer and go after a curvy chubby woman. I like looking at other woman, but I don't find them anywhere near attractive as a beautiful woman with curves.

 

[TheoSin]

I'd convinced myself I'd had a type for so long, and I've realized it fostered an unhealthy prejudice against women who didn't fit into that mold. Thankfully, I've taken time to consider what I truly value and what I now find attractive and beautiful has matured tenfold.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I'm going to add my 2 cents, for what it worth. I love a curvy woman, I prefer and go after a curvy chubby woman. I like looking at other woman, but I don't find them anywhere near attractive as a beautiful woman with curves.

I appreciate it when you guys share. Don't ever think we don't want or need to hear. It's affirmation for me. So many bigger women out there do not know this.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I'd convinced myself I'd had a type for so long, and I've realized it fostered an unhealthy prejudice against women who didn't fit into that mold. Thankfully, I've taken time to consider what I truly value and what I now find attractive and beautiful has matured tenfold.

After you matured, did your taste change? Was it a big change or was it there all the time and you had to admit to it?

 

[SoMoney831]

For what it's worth Dani, I think you are sexy as hell. I simply adore all of the pictures you've posted. And I think curvy women (and older women, for the record) are sexy as hell too. If you're married (I'm pretty sure you are), your husband is one lucky SOB.

 

[TheoSin]

After you matured, did your taste change? Was it a big change or was it there all the time and you had to admit to it?

I don't think it was a matter of changing tastes. I just don't have a preconceived "type." It depends on the individual, and their own beauty rather than a stereotype.

 

[gamegamale]

My thoughts are probably a summation of what others have said but I'll comment anyway.

Voluptuous (I dislike the term "big" for you ladies are not a McDonald's hamburger.) women naturaly project appeal and sensuality.

Maybe it's a mindset that I developed having grown up with two older, shapely sisters. As a young boy I would always sneak a peak at my sisters in the panties and bras as they dressed. Seeing those gentle folds of flesh poking out of their undergarments simply stirred my thinking. The seed was planted and never stopped growing.

Over the past 50 years I've been involved with a variety of ladies of different body types. All of them lovely but I always found myself back with the curvey beauties.

There is always an appeal for which I can't find an appropriate description.

Thank you, ladies.

 

[ExiledWelshman]

There are just not enough words to express how much I love a curvy lady.

 

[carlsnake]

love my woman any size

My wife was slim and trim when we married, but over the years more curves have appeared. We aren't as "acrobatic" as we once were in the bed, but I think the quality of our sex life is better now than it has ever been. I like her larger breasts and softer ass. She's pissed at me because I still weigh the same as I did in college. She turns me on as much as she ever did!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

For what it's worth Dani, I think you are sexy as hell. I simply adore all of the pictures you've posted. And I think curvy women (and older women, for the record) are sexy as hell too. If you're married (I'm pretty sure you are), your husband is one lucky SOB.

hehe, thanks hon...yes I am married but he's not crazy about sex or my body. That is probably why I seek attention from all you 'curvy' lovers. I'm a needy wench. I'm always thrilled when I see and hear men that love us. Some take that for granted. I sure as heck don't. That is why I created this thread and the photo one so other women get a "clue" about you guys. It's played a HUGE part in my psyche and I am so grateful for you guys...you have NO IDEA! Muuwah..thanks for posting here.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I don't think it was a matter of changing tastes. I just don't have a preconceived "type." It depends on the individual, and their own beauty rather than a stereotype.

I suppose.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

My thoughts are probably a summation of what others have said but I'll comment anyway.

Voluptuous (I dislike the term "big" for you ladies are not a McDonald's hamburger.) women naturaly project appeal and sensuality.

Maybe it's a mindset that I developed having grown up with two older, shapely sisters. As a young boy I would always sneak a peak at my sisters in the panties and bras as they dressed. Seeing those gentle folds of flesh poking out of their undergarments simply stirred my thinking. The seed was planted and never stopped growing.

Over the past 50 years I've been involved with a variety of ladies of different body types. All of them lovely but I always found myself back with the curvey beauties.

There is always an appeal for which I can't find an appropriate description.

Thank you, ladies.

Wow, great. I am guilty of dissecting a man's mind because I do not 'get it' when it comes to men loving curves. But a man could tell me over and over this, I still will need to hear it. If you read my previous post here when I shared that I live with a man that does not care for sex and does not care for my body. That is why I don't 'get it.' I think. Or I need it reiterated over and over...you poor men pay the price for that. But this is nothing as I've had men that I've known for 15 years and those poor guys hung in there until I did start to 'get it.' Bless their hearts for patience and determination to get through this stubborn brain of mine! lol

As for big...versus curvy....funny. I guess I started going with BBW and big in that when I started 'understanding' men that love CURVES! It was a big deal for me to call myself 'big'...that I could call a spade a spade if you know what I mean. It's like saying the word 'fat'. It's not easy to say that...many women and men won't use that word...it's rather snarky, is that the word? lol But I'm getting a bit better at calling that spade a spade. It is what it is. I am what I am.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

There are just not enough words to express how much I love a curvy lady.

Works for me!!!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Wow, fantastic!! Is she comfortable with her body's changes? I have found many men still love their partner's body but the hang up is their wifes'. So it warms my heart that you love it, regardless of the changes. Thanks for sharing!

My wife was slim and trim when we married, but over the years more curves have appeared. We aren't as "acrobatic" as we once were in the bed, but I think the quality of our sex life is better now than it has ever been. I like her larger breasts and softer ass. She's pissed at me because I still weigh the same as I did in college. She turns me on as much as she ever did!

 

[carlsnake]

Wow, fantastic!! Is she comfortable with her body's changes? I have found many men still love their partner's body but the hang up is their wifes'. So it warms my heart that you love it, regardless of the changes. Thanks for sharing!

Given the choice, she would like to lose some inches, but she appreciates that I am not alone in considering her as beautiful as ever.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Given the choice, she would like to lose some inches, but she appreciates that I am not alone in considering her as beautiful as ever.

So cool! Good for her!

 

[gamegamale]

Wow, great. I am guilty of dissecting a man's mind because I do not 'get it' when it comes to men loving curves. But a man could tell me over and over this, I still will need to hear it. If you read my previous post here when I shared that I live with a man that does not care for sex and does not care for my body. That is why I don't 'get it.' I think. Or I need it reiterated over and over...you poor men pay the price for that. But this is nothing as I've had men that I've known for 15 years and those poor guys hung in there until I did start to 'get it.' Bless their hearts for patience and determination to get through this stubborn brain of mine! lol

As for big...versus curvy....funny. I guess I started going with BBW and big in that when I started 'understanding' men that love CURVES! It was a big deal for me to call myself 'big'...that I could call a spade a spade if you know what I mean. It's like saying the word 'fat'. It's not easy to say that...many women and men won't use that word...it's rather snarky, is that the word? lol But I'm getting a bit better at calling that spade a spade. It is what it is. I am what I am.

Sexual desire/attraction/appeal is mostly mental. There is no logic to why men think the way they do. If one man can't appreciate you while 100 others ache at the thought of simply seeing you...my point is made.

Go back in time and observe art work over the centuries...voluptuous, rubenesque, statuesque women abound and are admired. You are what you are...beautiful.