BDSM through the lifespan

[catalina_francisco]

Way cool everyone...I have had an extremely long day on top of already feeling yuk and came home feeling more the grandmother than I wanted....then I read all these great thoughts and ideas and already feel much more lively. I have to agree sex and life gets better with age and life did begin at 40 for me, and just kept getting better. The physical restraints I expect will increase overtime, though I am blessed with being more flexible than many and so far this is not changing.

Having a younger Master bothers me more than him, but he has convinced me he is not into age and model looks/figure, so I have relaxed more about that. He has a way of speaking truth in a way that makes perfect believable sense. I think goals are good and discussing the reality before it jumps up and bites us. Being a major pain slut, I am hoping many of those aspects will remain an integral part of our relationship, but only time will tell. Whatever way it goes, I know we will remain M/s in all ways possible. I will likely comment further when the energyu levels kick back in. Thanks for all the input so far everyone.

Catalina

 

[Ebonyfire]

I plan on being this elegant Georgia O'Keefe like thing in black coat, on the Madison Avenue bus, clutching a shopping bag that contains only some crackers and brie, on my way to the Met museum, white hair in a sleek chignon.

Oh...SM...

I fully expect to get some use out of my cane.

Just think, we can carry around a cane all the time, and no one with get the association.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Having a younger Master bothers me more than him, but he has convinced me he is not into age and model looks/figure, so I have relaxed more about that.

I often turn down subs I feel are too young, ones who I call breeders.

If a sub is young enough to want kids, I pass them by. I am not about any babies.

 

[Netzach]

I think that mentoring/teaching will be a huge thing for me, in all seriousness. I imagine I will still be tying M up and being pampered, but I plan on drawing energy and vitality from a new generation of leather 20 somethings who need info and guidance.

 

[bunny bondage]

I think that mentoring/teaching will be a huge thing for me, in all seriousness. I imagine I will still be tying M up and being pampered, but I plan on drawing energy and vitality from a new generation of leather 20 somethings who need info and guidance.

wow, i hadn't even considered that, or thought about it. we should all get together an a few decades and start a school!

 

[FungiUg]

You know, the idea of being an 80 year old in a wheel chair with a submissive over my lap for a good spanking kind of appeals! Wow, what an ambition, to be a dirty old man!

 

[Peter2002]

I'll volunteer

wow, i hadn't even considered that, or thought about it. we should all get together an a few decades and start a school!

To teach the class for female submissives say, 18 to 25?

Although I suspect I may be competing with FungiUg

 

[Netzach]

I'd like to teach the class for 40 something aspiring male dominants.

They will hate me but thank me in five years. Tough love.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Use it or Lose it!

Sounds familiar?

Medical science is finding out that those who use what they have reap the benefits of longevity. Barring ill health, there is no reason you cannot live your senior years to the fullest.

If you ever get a chance, go over the The Thirdage website, and see that older men and women are doing.

Before I moved I dated a vanilla male who was 63 years old ( I was 49 when we first started seeing each other).

He was retired, playing 18 holes of golf everyday, and he could make love for HOURS.... He was much more skilled and knowledgable that men half this age. He also looked 10+ years younger too (his body was awesome).

So, growing old is not the problem when you are healthy, ACTING old is.

 

[Peter2002]

Re: Use it or Lose it!

Sounds familiar?


So, growing old is not the problem when you are healthy, ACTING old is.

Ebonyfire is correct. I don't feel any different at 50 than I did at 21, but I've gotten a lot kinker.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Use it or Lose it!

Ebonyfire is correct. I don't feel any different at 50 than I did at 21, but I've gotten a lot kinker.

And I like that with age you become even less concerned about what others have to say about what you do....is a freedom I wouldn't trade for youth any day.

Catalina

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Use it or Lose it!

Ebonyfire is correct. I don't feel any different at 50 than I did at 21, but I've gotten a lot kinker.

Have you found that as you grow older, you find ways to maximize how you give and receive pleasure, with less effort?

 

[Ebonyfire]

You know, the idea of being an 80 year old in a wheel chair with a submissive over my lap for a good spanking kind of appeals! Wow, what an ambition, to be a dirty old man!

Some how I can see you 80 years old, but I do not see a wheelchair in sight!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Another thought about aging

If having animals and young people around you can keep you active, sharp and vibrant, then it makes sense that older men and women (lifestyle or not) will gravitate toward what they need.

Older submissive women will gravitate toward younger Dom/mes;
Older Doms may gravitate toward younger subs;
Older Dommes may gravitate toward younger subs;

And some of each will gravitate toward those closer in age.

You gravitate toward your need(s).

Could it be?

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Another thought about aging

If having animals and young people around you can keep you active, sharp and vibrant, then it makes sense that older men and women (lifestyle or not) will gravitate toward what they need.

Older submissive women will gravitate toward younger Dom/mes;
Older Doms may gravitate toward younger subs;
Older Dommes may gravitate toward younger subs;

And some of each will gravitate toward those closer in age.

You gravitate toward your need(s).

Could it be?

Considering the fact that I'm an older sub with a younger Dom, it works for me!

 

[cellis]

Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Considering the fact that I'm an older sub with a younger Dom, it works for me!

Me too!

 

[kayte]

Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Me too!

Me three !!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Me three !!!

Me four....so are we the forerunners of a new trend here.

And who said older women were not attractive in any shape or form? LOL.

Think life experience is always a winner.

Catalina

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Considering the fact that I'm an older sub with a younger Dom, it works for me!

My subs are younger, and it works for Me too. I like a young attitude, with some wisdom thrown in!

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

My subs are younger, and it works for Me too. I like a young attitude, with some wisdom thrown in!

Me too!

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Me too!

Des, you have subs?

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Des, you have subs?

LMAO. I'll never tell.


OK.. what I meant was I like the young attitude mixed with wisdom.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Re: Re: Another thought about aging

Considering the fact that I'm an older sub with a younger Dom, it works for me!

*smirk* Count me as number five.

Works for me.

Hey, we're the new revolution.

Older subs unite!!

LOL

~anelize

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

*smirk* Count me as number five.

Works for me.

Hey, we're the new revolution.

Older subs unite!!

LOL

~anelize

Just call me Mrs. Robinson. LOL

 

[Arden]

Soron is a few years older than I. In all honesty, though, I feel that age has little to do with it. Give me a person with a beautiful mind first and foremost. The rest will follow if it is meant to, but even then only if you're willing to put the time and effort into making it work.