BDSM through the lifespan

[Soron]

I tip my hat to all the older ladies. Over the years I think I've seen just about any combination of Dominant/submissive couple possible. Some work and some don't, depending on the people involved. As I've gotten older, I can tell you I appreciate the mature submissive more and more. For me, it's all about what's in their mind. When I met Arden I saw a mature woman with this wonderful submissive side that no one had the brains or at least the ambition to bring out of her. Amazingly, what little 'real time' we've had together has only proven what I felt about her all along. It's one thing to get to know someone and become friends first. Then comes a little romance and talk about D/s and BDSM. Then you meet for the first time and all expectations are taken to a level you never thought possible. She has opened up that side of herself to me and continues to grow more and more every day. A toast to all the mature women here, Dominants and submissives. I salute you.

 

[Arden]

Calling me an old lady, eh?

 

[Peter2002]

Ladies: I had no idea there were so many submissive cradle robbers. What tasteful doms you must have.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Re: Another thought about aging

*smirk* Count me as number five.

Works for me.

Hey, we're the new revolution.

Older subs unite!!

LOL

~anelize

I go for Older women unite!!

What am I, chopped chicken liver?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Ladies: I had no idea there were so many submissive cradle robbers. What tasteful doms you must have.

I am not submissive, nor do I rob cradles. I do not like them too young.

 

[Peter2002]

Touchy?

I am not submissive, nor do I rob cradles. I do not like them too young.

Ebony, I don't think anyone would construe you as submissive.

 

[Desdemona]

I didn't rob the cradle. The cradle occupant snatched me.

 

[Peter2002]

I didn't rob the cradle. The cradle occupant snatched me.

Initiative has it's own rewards.

 

[Desdemona]

Initiative has it's own rewards.

I like to think so and I hope He feels that way.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Touchy?

Ebony, I don't think anyone would construe you as submissive.

She's not? Damn!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Just happened across this report from 2001 which gives hope for progressive thinking in relation to old age...and fun, fun, fun!!

http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_394038.html?menu=

Catalina

 

[Bandit58]

Just thought I'd bump this thread to get some feedback.

Master suffers from chronic ill health, renal failure caused by diabetes among other things. He is on a dialysis machine 10 hours a night, has problems with hypos (very low blood sugar) and is in pain 24/7, plus insomnia to top everything off. Despite all this, we have a very close, loving relationship. He has brought things out of me that I didn't know were there, and taught me so much about my sexual self.

Because of His health my training has been limited. Lack of energy is His main problem, combined with the insomnia. He is sad that He cannot love me the way I deserve, to use His words. We have concentrated on my learning how to please Him, which I absolutely love to do. I serve outside the bedroom, as His carer, and I am also looking for part time work not too far away.

Are there any similar D/s relationships on this board? Some days are better than others, today is not one of them I just wish there was more I could do, but He says I am doing everything possible, and that I make Him so happy, which does make my submissive heart sing.....

 

[FungiUg]

Hmmm... I have chronic migraines, but I've been working on managing them. So it's not really comparible.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmm, the older I get, the more I am enjoying being the age I am. Is difficult to explain, but there are many advantages to aging to balance out those disadvantages. LOL, so far I am managing to keep pace with my younger Master.

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

*HUGS and HUGS Bandit*

Fury