Bi Married and closeted
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My wife doesn't know how bad I have it, I masturbate just as much watching guys sucking cock, as a wife being fucked good. I tried to explain to my wife one time about this. I said 'I don't see the big deal with a guy sucking cocks. " My wife just looked at me and said, ' Really, don't tell me your gay after all these years?" I said no, but just think about it. It's a cock, and it's ok for a woman to suck it, nobody would think twice about it, but not a man? Just think they are both doing the same exact thing, and if a woman gets wet and excited doing it, why wouldn't some guys get excited too? Just like eating pussy, most guys love it. So again why wouldn't another woman love eating pussy. Again their both performing the same act. My wife just said " it just not the norm." I said if you suck another guys cock, it's ok. But if I sucked the same guy, we're doing the same exact thing, but it's gay. WHY? Of cause she doesn't agree.
If she only knew how much I watch even white guys sucking black cocks, and think of myself sucking it, and I cum so hard.
bottomshooter
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Think I am more gay married and closeted
fitandfresh
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Not quite sure exactly but would love to find out lol......some mighty fine cocks on this site
I am bi and married. I tend more to men because there is an understanding and willingness to play. I like the look, taste and feel of cock. Men just know better how to get another man off. I would love to find a FB who just wants the man sex as much as I do. I will continue the search but until then, I will take it where and when I find it.
freakyandthensome
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very bi and married; have moved to wearing panties full time now they just feel better thinking about shaving my toned legs have men's lingerie on order...
freakyandthensome
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the thing that is appealing having sexual encounters with a man is its all about getting off; there is no debtor and debtee...communication is set and privacy is respected.
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Open Throat
I've been interested in cock since seeing my first (hetero) porn video back in the 80s.
Other than a very brief experiment when I was a teenager, I've never had an opportunity to quench that desire.
I'm almost 50, divorced from a sex-less marriage and now in a relationship with the most sexually charged and adventuress woman I've ever known.
So, I have no complaints.
She is well aware of my fantasies/desires and I'm free to talk with her about them.
However, even she doesn't "get" what I'm hankering for.
I'm not interested in men so much, as I am COCK.
I don't want to kiss, or get romantic. I'm not interested in being fucked or a guy sucking my cock (my GF handles that quite well)... however, if the guy wanted to be fucked, or otherwise "taken care of", I'm turned on by that, too.
I love Cross-Dressers like Robin Banks, and I often fantasize about men I know when watching porn. Frustrated CDs who just want to be seen and appreciated. There is something about men who get VERY hard just by cross-dressing that turns me on immensely.
I've made "moves" on guys I thought were available a couple of times over the years, with no luck.
I also once had an email conversation with a Gay friend which was discovered and misinterpreted by his Husband, and nearly ruined his marriage.
Mostly... I just want a nice, pretty, rock-hard cock in my throat.
Is that too much to ask?
I've been interested in cock since seeing my first (hetero) porn video back in the 80s.
Other than a very brief experiment when I was a teenager, I've never had an opportunity to quench that desire.
I'm almost 50, divorced from a sex-less marriage and now in a relationship with the most sexually charged and adventuress woman I've ever known.
So, I have no complaints.
She is well aware of my fantasies/desires and I'm free to talk with her about them.
However, even she doesn't "get" what I'm hankering for.
I'm not interested in men so much, as I am COCK.
I don't want to kiss, or get romantic. I'm not interested in being fucked or a guy sucking my cock (my GF handles that quite well)... however, if the guy wanted to be fucked, or otherwise "taken care of", I'm turned on by that, too.
I love Cross-Dressers like Robin Banks, and I often fantasize about men I know when watching porn. Frustrated CDs who just want to be seen and appreciated. There is something about men who get VERY hard just by cross-dressing that turns me on immensely.
I've made "moves" on guys I thought were available a couple of times over the years, with no luck.
I also once had an email conversation with a Gay friend which was discovered and misinterpreted by his Husband, and nearly ruined his marriage.
Mostly... I just want a nice, pretty, rock-hard cock in my throat.
Is that too much to ask?
PleasePeesMe
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I don't think so.
Marty Fisher
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You're not! There are a shitload of us like you out there. Kind of sad that we have to be in the closet as enjoying both sides of the sexual fence should be the norm and not the exception! I tasted cock at a very early age and I LOVED it (still do). I love pussy and tits too!
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Mmmmmm, how nice would it be to have that guy as you neighbor?!? "Honey, I've gotta run next store to help John out on a project...." - every day!
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A-fucking-men Cuck72!! And FUCK the labels!! We don't label you if you prefer ribeyes over salmon do we? Labels are just another way of pigeon holing people and their behavior - fuck em I say! If a women enjoys sucking a cock I can't understand why she would be surprised that her man might like to too. Same with getting fucked. If you've even fucked yourself or been fucked by someone else, you KNOW how good it feels. The world would be a much more peaceful place if we simply got rid of the labels and restrictions and let people be people...
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Count me in!
I’m happily married guy, but I’ve been attracted to MM sex for a long time (I’m ~50), and I give Literotica credit for helping me figure out what I like, what I don’t, and how hot two guys together is. I only started watching gay porn relatively recently, and only very recently moved on to chat and stuff like this. I’ve found saying out loud what I’d like to do with another guy to be really cathartic. Feels like a weight removed and definitely a big turn on!
My wife and I have played around with a strapon including me giving her head, so when I told her I was attracted to guys, she wasn’t surprised. We talked about it and she’s supportive of me exploring online. The first two weeks after I “came out” we had sex multiple times a day and had more sex than we’d had in probably the prior 6 months. Compared to lots of the posts on here, it’s clear I’m really lucky! Post my big moment, we’ve fantasized about MFM including me getting fucked while I fuck her, me sucking cock and getting sucked while she watches, and me getting fucked. For now our agreement is no physical stuff unless we agree to it which is fine with me for now.
I’m very interested in trading emails and pics with guys interested in exploring and sharing stories. PM me if you’re up for a hot online relationship with no pressure to actually meet.
I’m happily married guy, but I’ve been attracted to MM sex for a long time (I’m ~50), and I give Literotica credit for helping me figure out what I like, what I don’t, and how hot two guys together is. I only started watching gay porn relatively recently, and only very recently moved on to chat and stuff like this. I’ve found saying out loud what I’d like to do with another guy to be really cathartic. Feels like a weight removed and definitely a big turn on!
My wife and I have played around with a strapon including me giving her head, so when I told her I was attracted to guys, she wasn’t surprised. We talked about it and she’s supportive of me exploring online. The first two weeks after I “came out” we had sex multiple times a day and had more sex than we’d had in probably the prior 6 months. Compared to lots of the posts on here, it’s clear I’m really lucky! Post my big moment, we’ve fantasized about MFM including me getting fucked while I fuck her, me sucking cock and getting sucked while she watches, and me getting fucked. For now our agreement is no physical stuff unless we agree to it which is fine with me for now.
I’m very interested in trading emails and pics with guys interested in exploring and sharing stories. PM me if you’re up for a hot online relationship with no pressure to actually meet.
Marty Fisher
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THAT is what I call a HAPPY MEAL!!!!!!
LoftyCraig
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i know that feeling.
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Exxxxactly! I couldn't have put your comments ant better Marty!
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I think the majority of us reading this thread are all right there with you. I know I am. So frustrating
bi married
Hi Guys,
I am soon to be 59 and have never done anything bi, but would very much like to. Wife could never know. Want so much to give a blow job and drink down it's cum.
Would love to find a couple to play with. Many things I want to try.
Looking
Hi Guys,
I am soon to be 59 and have never done anything bi, but would very much like to. Wife could never know. Want so much to give a blow job and drink down it's cum.
Would love to find a couple to play with. Many things I want to try.
Looking
Xyhorn
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Another member of the club here. As a young man I would play with guys, but that stopped once I married. For me therefore it is not the fear of outing, it is the fear of cheating. My outlets have therefore been porn and cyber. I salute and am jealous of those who do get to play.
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I finally took the plunge about ten years ago, in my early fifties. I hook up once or twice a year, no romantic involvement, just satisfying the urge when it becomes irresistible. I like the opportunity to let someone besides me take charge in bed.
fitandfresh
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Don't you hate that lol.......he might be inundated if he did
CoronaExtra43
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Very curious!
Seems like there are alot of us older gentleman here that have the same desires and fantasies!! Never really considered myself to be bi. But the thought of sucking a beautiful cock is definitely very intriguing! Maybe one day??
Seems like there are alot of us older gentleman here that have the same desires and fantasies!! Never really considered myself to be bi. But the thought of sucking a beautiful cock is definitely very intriguing! Maybe one day??
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We are not the only ones
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