Bi Married and closeted

[rickdickerson]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

You are not alone at all. Very Married here, and also very Bi / Gay. I crave Cock and sex with Men more than I've ever wanted sex with a woman, but can't bring myself to do it due to not wanting to cheat and not wanting to / being fearful of coming out as gay.

 

[cuck72]

You are not alone at all. Very Married here, and also very Bi / Gay. I crave Cock and sex with Men more than I've ever wanted sex with a woman, but can't bring myself to do it due to not wanting to cheat and not wanting to / being fearful of coming out as gay.

I too am with you on my feelings.

 

[SuperSissy]

You are not alone at all. Very Married here, and also very Bi / Gay. I crave Cock and sex with Men more than I've ever wanted sex with a woman, but can't bring myself to do it due to not wanting to cheat and not wanting to / being fearful of coming out as gay.

I've been a closet sissy for 44 years. I was married for 24 years, and even during my marriage I had many women, and many men. Not surprisingly, she is now my ex-wife. I'm here to tell you that if you cheat in a steady way, you'll probably get caught. I think we perform a subconscious risk/benefit analysis -- if the urge is strong enough, it will overcome the risk and the guilt. If the urge is not strong enough, c'est la vie, just be happy where you are.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Same

Not just the stories, but looking at pictures and chatting with other guys are all my outlets. I want a guy on the side so much, but it would have to be the right everything.

 

[mtsnowrider]

You are not alone at all. Very Married here, and also very Bi / Gay. I crave Cock and sex with Men more than I've ever wanted sex with a woman, but can't bring myself to do it due to not wanting to cheat and not wanting to / being fearful of coming out as gay.

Know just how you feel. I think the solution is to find one friend. But how to do that is the big question

 

[klippert]

Know just how you feel. I think the solution is to find one friend. But how to do that is the big question

you would have to know that one friend is in the same situation as you...and trust that..
He many talk a good game...but, your one friend my have many "one" friends. hence...you don't want a visit to the doctors office

 

[mtsnowrider]

you would have to know that one friend is in the same situation as you...and trust that..
He many talk a good game...but, your one friend my have many "one" friends. hence...you don't want a visit to the doctors office

Exactly. Ironic in that situation that trust is the big issue

 

[Wanking_Frank]

You are not alone at all. Very Married here, and also very Bi / Gay. I crave Cock and sex with Men more than I've ever wanted sex with a woman, but can't bring myself to do it due to not wanting to cheat and not wanting to / being fearful of coming out as gay.

I don’t think it’s “gay” to want cock. Gay is if you love men and only want to be with men. I could only fall in love with a woman, I want to have sex with women, but I also want sex with men. There’s nothing wrong with you, it’s normal, there are a lot of guys like us.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

I am definitely curious about it being on this sight and chatting about it gets me hard to try it

I am 42 and feel like i have had the urge from a young age. I am a married man and i know the thought of a man sucking another man turns my wife off. It seems like the older i get the stronger the urge gets, i have sucked off a few guys and i can tell you i absolutely love sucking cock. There is just something hot about taking that cock into your mouth and feeling it get hard and the moans of pleasure from its owner.
I don’t like getting mine sucked in return i would rather stroke it while im sucking and then shoot it on their cock or chest after they cum.

 

[Pines]

I am 42 and feel like i have had the urge from a young age. I am a married man and i know the thought of a man sucking another man turns my wife off. It seems like the older i get the stronger the urge gets, i have sucked off a few guys and i can tell you i absolutely love sucking cock. There is just something hot about taking that cock into your mouth and feeling it get hard and the moans of pleasure from its owner.
I don’t like getting mine sucked in return i would rather stroke it while im sucking and then shoot it on their cock or chest after they cum.

I like your outlook.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

I like your outlook.

I know it is considered cheating and that something i have never wanted to do, but when a nice cock presents itself and needs to be sucked what am i to do?

 

[Samsacks]

I'm with you, there. Definitely prefer sucking to being sucked, although I love being touched by another man.

I love the feel of a cock in my hands, against my face, and in my mouth. I love the taste of precum, the feel of his slit as I push my tongue into it, the way his head feels against the back of my mouth. I love when his legs start to shake and his grip gets tighter on my arm, neck or head as he gets closer. I especially love the warm flood of cum in my mouth that lets me know I've done a good job taking care of him.

I am 42 and feel like i have had the urge from a young age. I am a married man and i know the thought of a man sucking another man turns my wife off. It seems like the older i get the stronger the urge gets, i have sucked off a few guys and i can tell you i absolutely love sucking cock. There is just something hot about taking that cock into your mouth and feeling it get hard and the moans of pleasure from its owner.
I don’t like getting mine sucked in return i would rather stroke it while im sucking and then shoot it on their cock or chest after they cum.

 

[Pines]

I'm with you, there. Definitely prefer sucking to being sucked, although I love being touched by another man.

I love the feel of a cock in my hands, against my face, and in my mouth. I love the taste of precum, the feel of his slit as I push my tongue into it, the way his head feels against the back of my mouth. I love when his legs start to shake and his grip gets tighter on my arm, neck or head as he gets closer. I especially love the warm flood of cum in my mouth that lets me know I've done a good job taking care of him.

You just gave me a hardon.

 

[Gee2]

I'm bi married....48. the internet is my outlet, and i like it that way. I feel no need to wave a flag or make any demands. I've accepted who i am.

I'm like you alot
I use this as an "outlet" with no reservations

 

[cuckoldbill]

I was talking with the wife last night and mentioned how, between certain ages, it was totally normal for my friends and I to play naked, and, later, to jack off together (and sometimes jack each other off). That all went away as we got older. I'm in my mid-fifties, now, and I said, "It would be weird, now, like if I said to Brett (our neighbor), "Hey! Let's look at porn together and jack off."

What she said floored me.

"If you ever do, then I get to watch."

Would she go for a MMF threesome. Could be a good starting point with you getting to sick cock with her watching. My wife gets off big time when she watches me suck her lover.

 

[Samsacks]

She has chronic health issues that have pretty much ended our sex life. We still love each other, but it's been a long, dry season.

Would she go for a MMF threesome. Could be a good starting point with you getting to sick cock with her watching. My wife gets off big time when she watches me suck her lover.

 

[Gee2]

I'm out to my wife, but no one else! Like Klippert, I'm no rainbow flag-waving political activist!

But I AM a devoted, cock-loving man, and I'm perfectly comfortable being openly "out" in an adult bookstore or theater!

A private video booth...with a gloryhole or two through the walls...in a busy ABS video arcade...THAT'S the "closet" I LOVE being in!!!

I love video booths too
Dark, anonymous, and porn
I miss the old steam bath days before HIV, too
Lots of naked fun in a clean place

 

[freakyandthensome]

MMM nice cock! I would really like to suck it for you!

thanks my cock could use a good sucking

 

[fitandfresh]

Lol

You just gave me a hardon.

You and me both......taking advantage of some rare "alone" time

 

[cuckoldbill]

She has chronic health issues that have pretty much ended our sex life. We still love each other, but it's been a long, dry season.

Sorry to hear that. Wish you and her well

 

[Samsacks]

Thanks.

 

[crankyandtesty]

>>>>>>>>~~~~~~

Chicago here.

 

[CuriousColorado]

No, you’re not alone. I am an older MWM with a strong desire to be naked with a man. Did not act on it until I was 30....think about it often but don’t have the opportunity to act on it.

I'm really surprised how many guys are in the same place I am. I'm 40 mwm, and although the wife travels, I just don't have many opportunities to try to find someone. I'm feeling cock starved even though I've only tried anything once and would still call myself curious. There is no good way to set this up!

 

[klippert]

I'm really surprised how many guys are in the same place I am. I'm 40 mwm, and although the wife travels, I just don't have many opportunities to try to find someone. I'm feeling cock starved even though I've only tried anything once and would still call myself curious. There is no good way to set this up!

if I may...I'd like to use this comment as an example of ones conscience. Please understand this is NOT a criticism. Colorda, his wife travels, if you have not mentioned you have kids at home.
How many times I've had no wife or kids in the house...but, I still didn't act on my curiosity...even though for my first three yrs of college I was actively seeking m/m sex. If there is one of many things I learned....M/M sex is readily available, you just have to be willing to cross the bridge
point is...curious, with the internet and a willing chat partner....you can have just as much fun
In the end...all you have to do is use your computer and within an hour be have m/m sex...most of us have a conscience. sounds good...but, i'm not taking that risk

 

[CuriousColorado]

with the internet and a willing chat partner....
In the end...all you have to do is use your computer and within an hour be have m/m sex...most of us have a conscience. sounds good...but, i'm not taking that risk

No, you're right. I've done the cyber thing... I just don't know how to go about getting an actual cock! Talking is fun... I really enjoy it... but I want more and don't know how to go about it. Or am I misunderstanding and you mean I need to tell my wife?