Bi Married and closeted

[FlirtyandPlayful50]

Been serviced a lot

Hey, it has been a few years since my wife found out about my bisexual play. I used to get serviced regularly by men (and a few couples). I still crave male sexual energy and really want to bottom. (Have topped one guy, kissed several and sucked one cock).

My wife is more open to things now. She kinda accepts that we have our own needs. I wish she would talk about being bi, but she just says, “I guess you’ll have to take. care of things yourself.” Is have giving me permission to play?

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Hey, it has been a few years since my wife found out about my bisexual play. I used to get serviced regularly by men (and a few couples). I still crave male sexual energy and really want to bottom. (Have topped one guy, kissed several and sucked one cock).

My wife is more open to things now. She kinda accepts that we have our own needs. I wish she would talk about being bi, but she just says, “I guess you’ll have to take. care of things yourself.” Is have giving me permission to play?

thats what I heard---,
uhhh, you anywhere near Detroit?

 

[dobbins1]

And I can relate to this!!

Yep, I can relate to this.

I sucked a cock once when I was about 19, and although I didn't know what to do, looking back all these years later, there is so much that I wish that I had done with him. I think he wanted me to fuck him, and now I wish I had. I wish that I had let him cum in my mouth or on my face. I wish that I had rubbed cocks with him. I wish that it hadn't been just for one night and for one time.

But, time has moved on, and I wouldn't want to do anything that would jeopardise the trust of my wife, even though the temptation is very, very strong.

 

[youwant2]

I have no interest in wearing panties. I get how some would like the feel or the femininity of wearing them. Though I don't want to wear them, I do love seeing a photo of a cock in them. Either just the soft bulge in the fabric or the erection straining at the fabric. It's simply naughty and I like naughtiness of it.

I agree don't think it's me but love seeing the pictures, very sexy and I think after thinking about it, If it meant turning my lover on, what the heck I'd wear some for him, maybe make him want me more.

 

[fungent1103]

Dfw 214 972

I am in the same boat. I so enjoy looking at the pictures of the nice cocks in the lingerie, it makes me so horny. I too wish I had someone I could turn to and just have some fun every once in a while.

 

[BlewBiMe]

You are totally not alone. I guess the only difference is that I have acted on my desires. I travel for work, often have a hotel room, and have met guys with similar desire for oral relief.

 

[sexyprof1967]

Any men who want to chat on hangouts, pm me.

 

[Delawareguy]

Didn't they get rid of the Hangouts service?

 

[sexyprof1967]

Didn't they get rid of the Hangouts service?

Not yet! Yahoo messenger is gone, but Google hangouts is still going.

 

[dobbins1]

???

No more posts?

 

[Bathtubbill]

Surprised

 

[Rumi2018]

A couple of people have mentioned Craigslist from the past for quick hook ups. Is there anything g comparable today?

 

[vizio]

A couple of people have mentioned Craigslist from the past for quick hook ups. Is there anything g comparable today?

You could try fetlife

 

[352luvsOral]

Not yet! Yahoo messenger is gone, but Google hangouts is still going.

I have found some willing parties on "doublelist" and craigslist still works if you post a ad in "Missed Connections" Word it it a way that is obvious as to what you are looking for, such as , "Missing my buddy that used to come back and watch movies with me when the wife was gone" Hope he sees this or if you like to watch movies please reply with your email or phone and lets set this up." Be sure to ask for an email or phone # as this type of ad tends to get removed after a while and all messages deleted.

 

[TallOne]

A couple of people have mentioned Craigslist from the past for quick hook ups. Is there anything g comparable today?

Doublelist, sniffies.com, countless hookup apps that will show you people looking right around you, etc. Not to mention bath houses, swing clubs, adult toy stores.

It's never been easier in history to get a hookup. You just have to want to really do it.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Doublelist, sniffies.com, countless hookup apps that will show you people looking right around you, etc. Not to mention bath houses, swing clubs, adult toy stores.

It's never been easier in history to get a hookup. You just have to want to really do it.

I agree with you TallOne. The true desire has to be there. When I first decided to try sucking a cock, I found myself engaging other guys that were too far away, or were not very compatible with my needs at the time. It was easy to find an excuse to "not" meet with them. Everything in life has risk and we need to minimize those risks, but sooner or later we need to make a choice. Do I want to suck a cock or not? I chose to suck and I am so happy I did. Like you said, it's never been easier to hookup. Silverdaddies and Squirt are two of my favored sites. They have been good for me.

 

[buffangler]

After a sexless marriage of about 10 years I acted on my curiosity by answering a craigslist ad for a gay massage. I did this several times while I worked and visited different cities around the country. When Craigslist stopped posting personals, I at least had my regular masseur. I expanded my horizons by joining a gay hook up site (A4A) and continued with massages, then hooking up with other married and bi curious guys. Sex in my marriage stopped due to illness and medications. I love my wife and I wouldn’t cheat with a woman. Men are much less complicated.

 

[klippert]

I was really active in college. Then returned to M/M & MM/F after my first marriage sunk. I was deep in the closet and that for me was much more exciting. With the interasnet today. I would have stayed active longer. Knowing there could be a Married gent in a loving but sexless marriage, looking to step across the line from fantasy to reality. With a Gent that knows how important discretion is. I’d be waist deep or we’d be throat deep

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I was really active in college. Then returned to M/M & MM/F after my first marriage sunk. I was deep in the closet and that for me was much more exciting. With the interasnet today. I would have stayed active longer. Knowing there could be a Married gent in a loving but sexless marriage, looking to step across the line from fantasy to reality. With a Gent that knows how important discretion is. I’d be waist deep or we’d be throat deep

Yep, exactly!

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

Closet bi

My sex life with my wife is great, but there is just something about getting on my knees and freeing a mans cock from his pants and stroking it and sucking it that is just unexplainable. I get this rush of excitement and my cock gets so hard, I love hearing a man moan with pleasure as i suck his cock and to feel his hand on the back of my head pulling it down to get every inch into my throat. And to hear those magical words “ oh god i’m gonna cum” is fucking what keeps me coming back for more. When i am done most of the time i don’t cum i wait until i get home and make sure my wife gets that big load. Somedays she is like what got into you, you are rock hard or that was a lot of cum. I would love to share my secret with her, but i think that would end badly.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

My sex life with my wife is great, but there is just something about getting on my knees and freeing a mans cock from his pants and stroking it and sucking it that is just unexplainable. I get this rush of excitement and my cock gets so hard, I love hearing a man moan with pleasure as i suck his cock and to feel his hand on the back of my head pulling it down to get every inch into my throat. And to hear those magical words “ oh god i’m gonna cum” is fucking what keeps me coming back for more. When i am done most of the time i don’t cum i wait until i get home and make sure my wife gets that big load. Somedays she is like what got into you, you are rock hard or that was a lot of cum. I would love to share my secret with her, but i think that would end badly.

yeah, always go with your first instincts...

 

[TallOne]

Better to tell her than for her to find out at a gyno visit that she has one of the bad hpv strains that "you normally wouldn't see in a monogamous relationship".

That's how my wife's gyno told her, but we were open in a swinging relationship. Had that come up by going behind her back that would have been a very different situation.

 

[romer12]

bi MWM

also bi and in the closet. don't get out much so to offset what I miss I
give the wife oral service almost every night and sometimes in the morning also.
she cums several times and is 79............... yum

 

[dobbins1]

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more please!!

 

[Marty Fisher]

My sex life with my wife is great, but there is just something about getting on my knees and freeing a mans cock from his pants and stroking it and sucking it that is just unexplainable. I get this rush of excitement and my cock gets so hard, I love hearing a man moan with pleasure as i suck his cock and to feel his hand on the back of my head pulling it down to get every inch into my throat. And to hear those magical words “ oh god i’m gonna cum” is fucking what keeps me coming back for more. When i am done most of the time i don’t cum i wait until i get home and make sure my wife gets that big load. Somedays she is like what got into you, you are rock hard or that was a lot of cum. I would love to share my secret with her, but i think that would end badly.

YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!