Bisexual or bicurious women.

Stopped in again...although I have not been in a relationship since forever...now i am enjoying looking around the bi curious chats as normal


It's perfectly normal! Don't judge yourself, sweetie.

There are enough other people in the world absolutely willing to judge us all the f-ing time so we don't have to! :rose:
 
After living together for years and sort-of-flirting with each other for almost as long, I finally had sex with my roommate a little while back. Does that officially make me bi now, or am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it, along with whatever might come my way at this point.
 
Good morning Sweet Girls, and Happy Friday!! :heart::heart:

After living together for years and sort-of-flirting with each other for almost as long, I finally had sex with my roommate a little while back. Does that officially make me bi now, or am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it, along with whatever might come my way at this point.

I guess that depends on whether it satisfied your curiosity. Maybe you should sleep with her again to be sure. ;)
 
After living together for years and sort-of-flirting with each other for almost as long, I finally had sex with my roommate a little while back. Does that officially make me bi now, or am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it, along with whatever might come my way at this point.

idk, what does everyone else think?

I think once makes you an associate member of our club.

Twice or more gets you the membership card :D :heart:


It makes you perfectly human. Keep enjoying those moments with your roomie and never doubt your desires.


Exactly. And don't be afraid to keep your lines of communication open and honest.


Good morning Sweet Girls, and Happy Friday!! :heart::heart:


TGIF!! (even if you have to work like me tonight)

Let's all bring joy to our parties and even if we're not going to any parties let's still bring joy to all that we do today! :heart: :heart: :heart:
 
…am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it…

I don’t think you’re curious anymore. :)

idk, what does everyone else think?

I think once makes you an associate member of our club.

Twice or more gets you the membership card :D :heart: works for me! :heart:


Exactly. And don't be afraid to keep your lines of communication open and honest.

I’m always open to PMs for anyone who wants to chat, needs encouragement, or wants their fancy tickled. :)

TGIF!! (even if you have to work like me tonight)

Let's all bring joy to our parties and even if we're not going to any parties let's still bring joy to all that we do today! :heart: :heart: :heart: Yes!!!
 
After living together for years and sort-of-flirting with each other for almost as long, I finally had sex with my roommate a little while back. Does that officially make me bi now, or am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it, along with whatever might come my way at this point.

If you're open to it, I don't think you're curious anymore ;) :devil::kiss:
 
After living together for years and sort-of-flirting with each other for almost as long, I finally had sex with my roommate a little while back. Does that officially make me bi now, or am I still bi-curious? I don't know if it will happen again, but I am definitely open to it, along with whatever might come my way at this point.

I think it all depends on you. I think being curious is still on the table. There are a million things that can run through a head. There was a lot of teasing and build up with you and your roommate, is the desire still there? Do you think about both men and women often? Don't over think it or rush yourself to put any sort of label on it. Just be you and have fun.
 
Good afternoon, ladies!

Making out yet another list for Thursday. Number of guests fluctuates every day!
 
Three day work week here too :) Anyone have any plans for the long weekend?

I have a meeting tomorrow, and once that's over, I'm off until Monday. I'm hosting about 10 others - daughters and their dates; couple of coworkers and their daughters; and an older former coworker who does not want to deal with her Christian son who believes she's going to Hell for her "Lifestyle"
 
I have a meeting tomorrow, and once that's over, I'm off until Monday. I'm hosting about 10 others - daughters and their dates; couple of coworkers and their daughters; and an older former coworker who does not want to deal with her Christian son who believes she's going to Hell for her "Lifestyle"

It sounds like you'll have a busy holiday hosting 10 but I'm sure you'll all have a good time. It's great to get together with family and friends.

And a happy Tuesday to all the wonderful ladies today :)
 
Before lockdown I started meeting with a co worker who was bi curious, I took her under my wing and she enjoyed when we would meet at my house. She was married at the time and decided not to tell her husband, that was her decision and I felt it was not my business to question her decision. When lockdown started it meant we couldn't meet and she felt it had come at a good time as she wanted to work on her marriage. I was fine with this as we were not in a romantic relationship. In the summer when everything started to ease she contacted me and we met and of course the inevitable happened and we started meeting again about twice a month. Earlier this month she told me that her and her husband had separated and he had moved out of the house.

Since then she has wanted to meet more often and I have stayed over at hers, I feel now though it's getting a little out of hand. I have made some excuses that I couldn't meet on some occasions. She got mad at me last week when I told her I wasn't free that day. She put the phone down on me, she text me later to apologise and said the separation was getting to her. A couple days later she brought me a sorry present, some sexy lingerie. She assures me that she is not trying to turn this in to a serious relationship but she feels down because of the separation. I do like her as a friend and I thought about maybe saying that we should take a break from the physical side of our friendship. I don't want to abandon her at this time but I don't want to feel like I'm getting sucked in.
 
Before lockdown I started meeting with a co worker who was bi curious, I took her under my wing and she enjoyed when we would meet at my house. She was married at the time and decided not to tell her husband, that was her decision and I felt it was not my business to question her decision. When lockdown started it meant we couldn't meet and she felt it had come at a good time as she wanted to work on her marriage. I was fine with this as we were not in a romantic relationship. In the summer when everything started to ease she contacted me and we met and of course the inevitable happened and we started meeting again about twice a month. Earlier this month she told me that her and her husband had separated and he had moved out of the house.

Since then she has wanted to meet more often and I have stayed over at hers, I feel now though it's getting a little out of hand. I have made some excuses that I couldn't meet on some occasions. She got mad at me last week when I told her I wasn't free that day. She put the phone down on me, she text me later to apologise and said the separation was getting to her. A couple days later she brought me a sorry present, some sexy lingerie. She assures me that she is not trying to turn this in to a serious relationship but she feels down because of the separation. I do like her as a friend and I thought about maybe saying that we should take a break from the physical side of our friendship. I don't want to abandon her at this time but I don't want to feel like I'm getting sucked in.

You're in a really tricky situation, Katie. I had something similar happen to me last year after my husband and I were invited to our first swinger party and one of the other women at the party, who I knew from work but not very well, started acting a lot like your co-worker is acting towards you, although for different reasons. (her husband likes to be a sub in the bedroom and their dynamic is she has no respect for him in public but they stay together because somehow it works for the two of them)

She had only been with one other woman before me and after the party her and I became fast friends - with benefits. I even had her over to the house for fun and games just her and me a few times. But then it got a little sticky with my husband, because she really likes him (and he caught us together once :devil: ), but then it got even more sticky at work. Especially when we had to work together for a little while (we're normally in different departments but when the resort re-opened we were way understaffed for a bit and I had to fill-in as a bartender on the casino floor for a few weeks).

I finally told her we had to tap the brakes a bit, especially at work, and she started doing that same mad at me one day, begging for forgiveness the next to me that your co-worker is doing to you.

It wasn't easy. And worse, it wasn't working. Finally I just had to draw a line and say we should take a break from each other for a little bit. I told her I didn't want to hear her complain about her husband anymore (he's a really nice guy) and I told her she had to stop pushing herself into my life so much.

It got pretty frosty between us and stayed that way for almost 3 months. But eventually it helped so much and now we are not only back on good speaking terms. A couple of weeks ago we even did a private Zoom call together with our laptops in our bedrooms and, well, we got to talking and ended up masturbating together with our favorite toys. It was so hot and it made me feel like we might be able to be more than just friends again.

I don't know if we'll ever get together again physically because she still seems more than just a little emotionally needy to me. She doesn't have many friends and I feel bad for her, but at the same time I had to protect myself and well, it sounds like you're sort of in the same place so I 1,000% encourage you to do just that - protect yourself first.

I learned a long time (when I was struggling with addiction) that I can't be there for anyone else when they need me if I'm not already there for myself. We all need friends, but sadly if we're not careful and honest with them, BUT ESPECIALLY OURSELVES, some friends can do us more harm than good.

That's my two cents anyways. There is a way to make this work out. The tricky part is doing what's best for you first though. :heart::heart::heart:
 
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