LizVegas79
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Hi. It's taking all my courage to post this so here goes. I'm Nikki. As I get older, I find myself crushing on women more and more. I don't know that I'm bi-curious as much as bi-appreciative (or is that the same thing?) Today I got some messages from a lovely lady here on Lit and I found I was exquisitely excited to read them in a way that suggests I should probably check on on this thread. *BLUSHING SO HARD*
Lovely to meet you, ladies.
It's perfectly natural to feel a little timid, sweetie. You're so brave! Go steal a piece of Halloween candy right now or do something nice for yourself later today!
And DO take Lori up on her offer to PM her. She is awesome and wonderful and very, very non-judgey or pushy. She's one of the most awesome-est people on here to chat with imho.
idk, I can see that there's some degree of difference between bi-appreciative and bi-curious. The first involves noticing and appreciating the magic and love that two women who are together share in public, right?
It seems to me being bi-curious involves a little more envy (which is totally okay!) and curiosity about what it might be like to be with someone else who feels the same way you do.
BTW - I will say this as someone who has had many, many different partners and been bi most of her life. You have NEVER been properly kissed UNTIL you've been kissed by another woman.
It's lovely to meet you, too. Go at your own pace and enjoy the journey! (you won't regret it I promise!)